My uncle, a son and a daughter, had a rough life in the first half. His first husband was lazy. Originally, the conditions at home were very general. I was thinking about drinking and gambling all day, and my family was getting poorer and poorer. Later, my cousin couldn't stand the divorce. At that time, there was a son who was also awarded to my cousin. Because I usually go out to make money, I took my children to my uncle and aunt's house.
About 2007, my cousin's son had another accident. He accidentally fell into the pond while playing and drowned. He was only six years old when he left. The whole family cried their eyes out. At that time, my cousin really had a hard time. Later, in 2008, I met this brother-in-law now.
My brother-in-law had a bad life in the first half of his life. He was arrested and imprisoned for more than five years for fighting in his early years Later, due to his good performance in prison, he was released early in 2007.
When I first got married, my conditions were very poor. My brother-in-law wants to go out to work to earn money to support his family, but because he has been in prison, his job search has basically hit a wall, and no one wants to hire him. Later, due to the pressure of life, the two volunteered to make a living.
At first, it was an open bathroom, very small. Business is not good either. In the first year, business was so bad that I could hardly eat. The next year, I changed my mind and started to do the filter business. At the beginning, I had no money to open a shop, so I anchored under my friend's shop, went out to run business, and took the goods from my friend.
Brother-in-law belongs to the kind of person who looks fierce, but is very nice, drinks a lot and knows how to get along well. Cousin belongs to the kind of talkative, careful and suitable for business. The two of them cooperated, and after more than a year of customer accumulation. 20 1 1 broke out, earned almost 2 million a year, and later opened his own shop. It's worth over ten million now.
My brother-in-law had nothing from the beginning and was in prison. Through his own efforts, I don't know how much he suffered during the period, but he persisted and seized the opportunity to have the present petty bourgeoisie life.
Here, I also want to tell you through his experience that there are still many opportunities as long as you work hard and persist, and once you seize the opportunity, you will quickly turn over. Sometimes life is really hard, but don't give up easily. Persistence is the only way out of the predicament. My brother-in-law's house is a good example.
I have met several ex-prisoners, some of whom have found jobs, and some of them are even prosperous. Let me give you two examples to share with you how prisons have completely changed people.
There used to be an honest farmer in our village. In those days, because of the dry weather, the neighbor secretly put the water from his field into his own, and he also accused his neighbor of a few words. Who knew the neighbor was a brazen scoundrel? Not only are you not ashamed, but you also scold him in turn, which is quite ugly. So, in a rage, he killed his neighbor with a hoe.
Later, the farmer was sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment 10 years by the court for intentional homicide. As we all know, in prison, people have to undergo labor reform and be sent to factories for production. While serving his sentence, he was assigned to work in a textile factory from 7 am to 6 pm every day. And there are fixed tasks to be completed every day. If you can't finish it, you won't have food, and if you can't pass the exam, you won't be eligible for commutation. It can be said that the labor intensity is quite large.
As a result, after he was released from prison, he became a skilled textile worker and went to a local textile factory for further study. Now, he is the skilled worker with the highest output and income in their factory. Since then, he has been well-off and well-off. Thanks to "Our Days" in prison.
I know a boss who was sentenced to three years' imprisonment by the court for intentional injury. It is said that he lived a comfortable life in prison because he was good at dealing with people and made many friends.
After coming out, he successfully founded a transportation company through the contacts accumulated in prison, and soon his business grew bigger and bigger. Up to now, the company's assets have exceeded 50 million. At that time, in prison, a strong buddy listened to him and often helped him resist those who were jealous of him. Later, the strong buddy was released from prison and hired him as a bodyguard with a high salary. The specific job of the bodyguard is to go to the gym to exercise every day, and occasionally pay for the construction site.
I think maybe his attitude towards strong friends can explain his success. Of course, even if he had a successful method, the interpersonal relationship he established in prison helped him.
To sum up, going to prison does not mean that your life is ruined. As long as you are willing to work hard, no stain can stop your success.
This question has just come to mind. I am 32 years old. I used to run a pawnshop. I stayed in it for three years because of a debt dispute and came out last year. I just got married before I went in. My family has been very supportive since I came back last year. Now I do small business and earn more than 30 thousand a month. Before going in, I still owed about 2 million in debt. After I came out, I negotiated with all my friends and paid back a part every season. Those creditors stopped pressuring me. I also gave birth to my first baby this year, and I have less contact with my former friends. I feel that my life is very practical now. And very happy.
Personally, I like making friends very much, so I met many people during my years in prison. I don't care what he did, but I mainly like to associate with some loyal and principled people. Generally speaking, it is very appropriate to say that human nature is good. Except for a small number of people who are distorted by their environment, there is no way to get money, and a large number of people are on the spur of the moment! I contacted some friends one after another after I came out. Most of them want to find someone to get married and do something serious when they come out. Although nothing is either rich or expensive for the time being, it is ok, and it can bear hardships more than ordinary people. In fact, you can't learn any skills or knowledge in prison. More people wake up in the long and painful process, know how to cherish and be grateful, and understand that the right path in the world is vicissitudes!
Let's share the real people and things: in the spring of 2008, the street informed me that two young people who had been released from prison were going to work in our unit. I refused at once. A few days later, two security guards suddenly appeared in the compound. I didn't think much at that time, because the landlord of the compound was supposed to call security. A month later, one of them, a man in his forties in Cyclops, showed his tail and started committing crimes in front of the residents of the compound every night. He rowed, cut wires, smashed walls and windows, and moved what he thought was valuable to another house outside. The next day, he and others came to see him. People in the compound knew his routine for a long time, so they stopped looking for him. He is very anxious. He went door to door with various threats in order to ask each family to give him some money. Even if he is given money, he is restless. He tried to make trouble, reported it to the police station and talked nonsense in the street and other places. But everyone put up with it. His background is very complicated. As a teenager, he spent more than 20 years in prison, where his eyes were self-mutilated and blind. After he came out, he went to the street and slept there every day. The street couldn't bear to put him down, so the landlord of the compound took him in and didn't leave until he was driven away. He won't leave without paying, and he can't beat him. He tries to do what others can't do every day and is very familiar with laws and regulations.
I have been the boss since I was a child in elementary school, and they are all afraid of me in study. 17 years of underage, two years of reeducation through labor. In 22 years, I got five years for fighting. Later, when I came out, I just caught up with the development of our mine. There are more and more bosses and rich people. I found a little punk who was famous at that time to see the mine. After someone introduced me to a foreign boss, we cooperated for three years. Three years of good work, and then a wife and children. I feel burdened and my temper is better than before. Now I'm talking about rapid social changes, not a society with knives. I got two eight-wheeled mine corners, so I can take my children to play if I have nothing to do, as long as I have enough money to spend and the whole family is happy. To put it bluntly, I came out just to catch a good opportunity. In this society now, nothing can be said.
The "Lao Xing" I met got us there. In my village, he has three fingers behind his left hand. When I was a child, I was particularly afraid that people like them would listen to the words of the older generation and don't know why they went in. I didn't understand what this meant at that time. Slowly, I realized that this meant going to jail.
At that time, the network was underdeveloped for more than 90 years. There are no optical fiber cables in the countryside, but all the wires are connected together, so someone came up with this idea. Lao Xing is one of them. In my opinion, someone else should have brought it in. I heard from the villagers that he was stealing wires with others. Someone bullied him and asked him if he dared to touch the wires. When he first came out, he touched them and was not looked down upon by others. As a result, he couldn't get up for a long time. Later, he was called for help by passers-by and spent several years in prison. Since then, Lao Xing has become a bit' stupid', and sometimes his intelligence is a bit problematic. Click here to see why the picture is folded.
A few years later, Lao Xing wanted to go out to work with his cousin in the same village, and others didn't want to take him. Lao Xing just followed others stupidly. There's nothing I can do about him, but at this age, Xing's left hand becomes three fingers. I don't know the specific reason. I heard that it seems that it was cut for stealing. In the image, Lao Xing is not so social on the surface, perhaps because he is a native. It seems that people at that time were all earthy images, but I was afraid of him when I was a child, but I didn't feel like a terrible person. Click here to see why the picture is folded.
Later, Lao Xing never left the village. As far as I can remember, several times he would ride his son's moustache bike and wave hard at the gate of our school. No one could understand him. At this time, the children will stay away from him, and some will call him "the fool is coming" behind him. Old xing didn't get angry, but shouted. Maybe he doesn't understand. Lao Xing waved to me again, probably telling me to get on the bus and take me home. I ran away quickly and ran home when I was young. Click here to see why the picture is folded.
Now that I have grown up, there are fewer reasons to go back to work. I remember I didn't see Lao Xing when I went back last time. Ask my dad. He said he didn't know. I heard that he was lost. Others say that Lao Xing has gone out to work.
I think Lao Xing has left. He should have worked in a construction site or field. He will ride around on his broken bike.
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What will it be like for a man who has served his sentence?
People should have a correct outlook on life and values, and don't do things that endanger society and others. For the sake of their families and children, don't take a wrong step, and don't take a wrong step.
Come on, come on, gossip time
My mother-in-law's sister is her husband's aunt. Her husband. My husband calls him little uncle, right?
I don't know how many years, but I'm sure he was in prison when I got married (my husband told me it was an economic problem, but I didn't believe it). Later, in the second year of marriage, I was released. At that time, my aunt found a man without a stable job with her daughter and her daughter. Three people were kicked out by my father-in-law and my husband for several months.
My uncle didn't go back to Anhui after he got out of prison, but went directly to Shanghai. In his words, his wife and daughter are all in Shanghai. My mother-in-law gave a banquet. I didn't go or let my husband go. Four people lived in a group rented house in Shanghai for half a year. I don't know the exact time because my husband doesn't care. I can't gossip. Later, I heard that my uncle went to Beijing (my uncle has a sister in Beijing). After that, I never came back. I knew my uncle said no, no, no,no. This man who has no stable job will never come back unless he leaves.
My mother-in-law said with a snot and a bag of tears. That all men are heartbroken, and her sister has waited for so many years to take her daughter to eat so hard. Now that he's out, the man is just looking for an excuse to get rid of her sister. Why is my sister so unlucky that she was rejected by two sisters-in-law in Anhui? Was rejected by Shanghai's brother-in-law I am still rejected by my husband.
The "Lao Xing" I met got us there. In my village, he has three fingers behind his left hand. When I was a child, I was particularly afraid that people like them would listen to the words of the older generation and don't know why they went in. I didn't understand what this meant at that time. Slowly, I realized that this meant going to jail.
At that time, the network was underdeveloped for more than 90 years. There are no optical fiber cables in the countryside, but all the wires are connected together, so someone came up with this idea. Lao Xing is one of them. In my opinion, someone else should have brought it in. I heard from the villagers that he was stealing wires with others. Someone bullied him and asked him if he dared to touch the wires. When he first came out, he touched them and was not looked down upon by others. As a result, he couldn't get up for a long time. Later, he was called for help by passers-by and spent several years in prison. Since then, Lao Xing has become a bit' stupid', and sometimes his intelligence is a bit problematic.
A few years later, Lao Xing wanted to go out to work with his cousin in the same village, and others didn't want to take him. Lao Xing just followed others stupidly. There's nothing I can do about him, but at this age, Xing's left hand becomes three fingers. I don't know the specific reason. I heard that it seems that it was cut for stealing. In the image, Lao Xing is not so social on the surface, perhaps because he is a native. It seems that people at that time were all earthy images, but I was afraid of him when I was a child, but I didn't feel like a terrible person.
Later, Lao Xing never left the village. As far as I can remember, several times he would ride his son's moustache bike and wave hard at the gate of our school. No one could understand him. At this time, the children will stay away from him, and some will call him "the fool is coming" behind him. Old xing didn't get angry, but shouted. Maybe he doesn't understand. Lao Xing waved to me again, probably telling me to get on the bus and take me home. I ran away quickly and ran home when I was young.
Now that I have grown up, there are fewer reasons to go back to work. I remember I didn't see Lao Xing when I went back last time. Ask my dad. He said he didn't know. I heard that he was lost. Others say that Lao Xing has gone out to work.
I think Lao Xing has left. He should have worked in a construction site or field. He will ride around on his broken bike.
I'm out of prison! Because of injury! Blackmail, illegal gun possession, interrogation and trouble. Gathering people to fight. Illegally collect money! I came back on 16! 0 1 year! I just want to say that people in prison are not necessarily bad people! People outside are not necessarily good people! Is the bad guy in prison. He's still a bad guy! People who are not bad in their bones! After a long time of reflection, maybe you are better than a good man! Think for yourself, no one can stop you! I don't want to be a good bodhisattva and I can't save him! Going in is not necessarily a bad thing! You can see a kind of worldly wisdom from it! The world is hot and cold! The right path in the world is vicissitudes. This is a realistic society. I have given you a chance to see how you use it. I have a bad life. Now in two companies, my daughter-in-law is younger than me 10 years old! There is a garage! What is a man's head for? You can't let a stone hit you twice. Long brains are not just for eating. Get down to business. Be a good person. Pay attention to life! I think it is better than anything! People can't stand without faith! No matter how bitter you are, you can't suffer your parents, wife and children! Don't lie to your good friends! Thank this gray experience in my life for making me grow up! I also thank the prison guards and good friends who helped me in it. The prisoners in it are all birds of a feather flock together. Prison is not terrible! The terrible thing is that you look down on yourself! Broken cans and broken falls! Now is the legal society! I don't deny my experience! But who wants to talk to me about this! I will definitely tell him. You should also go in and exercise! Because your eyes are nearsighted!