I don’t really agree with those who say they don’t love themselves enough and that there are no ugly women, only lazy women.

Let me use myself as an example.

My mother is a teacher. She was a top student when she was studying. She never dressed up, but others respected her.

When it was my turn to study, she would give me my cousin’s old clothes to wear. In winter, I wear those thick, warm but ugly clothes. If I secretly imitated other people's application of nail polish and lipstick, I would definitely be scolded and ordered not to touch them. I don’t even have any jewelry on my hands and neck. I even took off the silver bracelet I wore when I was a child. Once I wore it, I would say I was ambitious and had no intention of studying. My hair was cut short. I was envious of people with long braids, but she said it was a waste of time to tie up my hair every day and it would be better to use it for studying.

In her opinion, girls who read poetry and books have a refined temperament, and girls must have connotation. She said you will be able to dress up when you grow up, now you just need to study.

I believed her.

Maybe her education in other aspects of my education was good, but when it comes to dressing up, I will definitely not pass it on to my next generation.

After I went to college, I realized how bad I was at dressing up and how rough my life was.

At this time, I want to dress up. I’m not lazy. I want to put on makeup, but I really can’t. Although I had good grades, I suffered from an inferiority complex for a long time because I didn't know how to dress up.

My classmates could go shopping in high heels for an entire afternoon, but I couldn’t learn how to wear high heels and wander around, so I gave up on it in the end.

Dressing up does not depend on your diligence, or on how much you love yourself, you will be able to do it. This is not something you are born with, like breathing. A love of beauty is something girls are born with, but being able to dress up is definitely not it.

Dressing up is actually about aesthetics, or more importantly, taste. These are all cultivated or formed subconsciously from childhood. But when I was a child, my mother always gave me clothes. If I didn’t think they looked good, she would tell me they were comfortable, and I had no choice.

I see that many children now actively tell their mothers every day, "Mom, I want to wear this dress with that pair of pants." In fact, children are more talented than you think. Not only will they not freeze or warm themselves because of their beauty, but they will create effects that you can't even imagine.

When I grew up, from imitating others to becoming interested in fashion, to entering and studying this industry, maybe it was to make up for the regrets I had when I was a child, or maybe it was because I really liked it. Now I can't say that I am a very fashionable person, but at least I have touched the threshold of fashion.

There are also many babies who are tired of housework. At this time, some people will say that they are actually lazy. I don’t want to spend time dressing myself up after doing housework, but is that really the case?

Who wants to become a yellow-faced woman? Who doesn’t want to look pretty? But those babies who have never lived a delicate life, under the influence of traditional concepts after getting married, one is tired of housework, and the other is that it is unnecessary. Anyway, they are married and dress up for anyone to see, but they forget Own.

As a person who has regarded her own image as a part of her life since she was a child, and as a woman who lives a very delicate life, I think no matter what the situation, she will clean herself up and look beautiful.

But for a person who has never had any concept of dressing up or aesthetics, has a family and is a giving personality, how do you want him to learn to dress up?

There are rich people and poor people in the world, some are good-looking and some are not good-looking, some are high-quality and low-quality, and there are also those who know how to dress up and those who don’t know how to dress up... Do you know how to dress up? For the following situations:

1. It is well known that people who can dress up make people look bright and pleasing to the eye. Otherwise, why do boys like to look at beautiful women? This is the reason! On the contrary, if you don’t know how to dress up, you will feel dull! But why don’t many people not dress up, but don’t know how to dress up? I think the main reason is the influence of personal growth environment and surrounding people. For example, a person who lives in a rural area and makes a living by farming rarely dresses up, which not only wastes time but is also not conducive to farming. On the contrary, a white-collar worker living in the city will spend half an hour to an hour every day putting on makeup, matching clothes, and even preparing tomorrow's outfit the night in advance.

2. There are also some people who like to dress up, but the results are not satisfactory and give people the impression that they just don’t know how to dress up. They may not have a comprehensive understanding of color matching, or they have read fewer fashion magazines. In short, fashion If the factors are slightly different, when you dress up, there will be a big difference in the special clothing.

3. There are also some people who don’t focus on dressing up. For example, the famous scientist Einstein was a scientist. One move could change the destiny of a country, and he would not care about such trivial matters as dressing up. But after all, such people are in the minority. Most of us still need to know some common sense about dressing up. It is not only pleasing to the eye, but also provides certain external help in work negotiations.

Sometimes it’s not that you don’t know how to dress up. Many people do it because they don’t have time. Here are 27 good-looking winter outfit demonstrations, refusing to be dull and mediocre, so that you won’t look the same for a month~

Winter , for girls who have no idea about dressing and matching, it is simply a kind of torture. If you wear too much, you will look tacky; if you wear too much, you will look fat; if you wear too much, you will freeze yourself. The most important thing is to layer clothes. Don’t give up warmth just because you want style. Don’t give up your love for beauty just because you want to keep warm~

Today, I will teach you how to wear a combination of style and temperature in the cold winter~ 27 sets in total! You won’t have to wear the same outfit for a month~it’s warm and fashionable. Hee hee hee hee (laughing awkwardly...)

The brown outfit gives people a very sweet feeling~ Pair it with a leather bag to enhance the overall temperament

< p>Wearing a college-style vest over a shirt-length skirt will make you feel full of energy~

Wide-leg pants not only cover your flesh, but also make your legs look longer.

Boot-boot pants + short leather top are a very tall combination, and the little sister’s leather shoes are also good~

Sweaters of different colors and styles also give people completely different feelings. It’s the same ~ the slightly more close-fitting ones show off your figure and temperament; the loose ones cover the flesh and are casual; the patterned ones give people a playful feeling.

The coat comes in three lengths: short, medium and long. The long one shows off your temperament but is not recommended for small girls~ If you wear it wrongly, you will feel like you are 1.2 meters tall every minute.... Hahaha (continues to laugh awkwardly) (中...) By the way, wearing a sweater skirt directly under a coat is also a very good choice. It has a lazy and ascetic style~ I like it very much

Dark green is very white, but be careful Color matching. Be careful of being told "red with green, it's bullshit" hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Wear retro plaid style with mid-calf boots. It gives people the feeling of a very capable and strong woman~cool

Among those who don’t know how to dress themselves up, some want to dress themselves up, but they really can’t, and some don’t want to dress up at all. Too lazy to dress up. For the second type, no matter how good-looking he is, he may be just a passerby. On the contrary, there are many ordinary-looking passers-by who may become popular because they are very good at dressing up.

People who are too lazy to dress themselves up are mostly patients with severe laziness, because dressing up is something that takes time, effort, and money. Others wake up early in the morning and look in the mirror for ten minutes to do their makeup. Lazy cancer patients would rather sleep for ten more minutes than comb their hair before going out. Others wear high heels and click their toes when walking. When they get home, their skin is worn out and their feet hurt. Lazy people always only wear the most comfortable sneakers. If someone else spends half a month's income on buying a big brand, he may have less than 300 yuan in total.

Of course, more people want to dress themselves up, but don’t know how to dress up. No one is born knowing how to dress up. To dress yourself up, and to be able to dress yourself up, there are basically three steps.

1 First of all, you must understand yourself. Understand your face, body proportions, skin, even expressions, movements, and character strengths and weaknesses. Which ones are beautiful in appearance and which ones are your flaws. But unfortunately, many people don’t know themselves very well. In addition, everyone changes, especially from the time they graduate from college in their 20s to entering society. This stage is a critical stage for people’s self-understanding. Social pressure brings people The changes coming may be huge, so it is very important to understand the changing self. Some people may take decades to truly understand themselves.

2 After you understand yourself, you also need to understand the tools that can make you look good, such as cosmetics, clothes, shoes, jewelry, etc... These tools require a certain amount of financial strength. Buy it step by step and try it on yourself after you buy it. Only then will you know whether it is suitable for you. But unfortunately, even if you can see many recommendations from experts and celebrities, many of the recommendations are probably not true, but are sales for commercial interests. Therefore, many people who buy these dressing tools will inevitably I took some detours and came up with some outfits that didn't suit me. It wasn't until a friend pointed it out or something happened at the scene of a car accident that I realized I had made a mistake.

3 In addition, you also need to know how to use these tools to combine. Many people can put on makeup but not match clothes, and some can match clothes but can’t do hair. They can dress themselves up from head to toe. There are not many people, so you may need to find a hairstylist who is particularly suitable for you, a friend who knows how to match, or your husband's best friend, or even spend money to hire some professional stylists to help you and give you sincere and reasonable advice. Many celebrities dress well because they spend money to hire a professional styling team. Without a team, they would be just passers-by.

After going through the above three steps, you will basically turn from a novice to an expert, but this will require a lot of time, energy, and money, and it cannot be achieved overnight. Therefore, so many industries have been developed to make people beautiful, such as beauty salons, plastic surgery, various luxury brands, affordable clothes, cosmetics... Human beings have been working hard for beauty~

"Shiwei The one who knows oneself will die, and the woman who loves oneself will look good." In life, clothing is related to a person's temperament and image. But everyone has different tastes and aesthetic perspectives. Most people don’t know what style suits them, and they often rely on intuition.

As the saying goes, appearance is also a kind of strength. When it comes to appearance, it’s not just about having a good-looking face. The impression we leave on others through the clothes we wear every day is also very important.

1. Matching Tips:

1. Clothing can give women many kinds of curves, the most beautiful of which is still the X-shape, which brings out a woman's slim, slender figure and femininity. Full.

2. You can spend more time and energy on matching clothes, which will not only allow you to wear 20 styles with 10 clothes, but also exercise your aesthetic taste.

3. Choose a warm jacket made of fine materials and wear a light inner layer or shirt inside. This international dressing principle is a fashion trend.

4. Shiny clothes will always be popular at dinners and parties, but there should not be more than two highlights on the whole body except jewelry, otherwise it is better to have none at all.

5. A high-quality white shirt is indispensable in your wardrobe. No other piece of clothing is more versatile than it.

6. Learn to use accessories to embellish yourself. Matching bags, jewelry, scarves, belts, and shoes is also a very important finishing touch.

2. Keep your skin in the best condition possible: use liquid foundation for oily skin, and air cushion BB for dry skin. If you are bare-faced, you can use a matte bean paste-colored lipstick that looks bright and natural.

3. The hairstyle should suit you: whether it is a ponytail or a loose hairstyle, your hair should be clean and neat. Rough hair will give people a feeling of lack of energy.

4. Walk straight and smile more: your body exudes confidence and gentleness. You are confident from the inside out, this is the most important thing!

Beauty is a good thing, I hope everyone can have it.

Everyone is welcome to leave a message for discussion!

Maruzi Jiang who loves skin care: 10 years of beauty and skin care expert

It is said that men are "visual animals", so why are women not the same? As the saying goes: "A woman's appearance is to please herself." Part of the reason is pleasing men, but in fact, she is also pleasing herself!

In this era when plastic surgery is prevalent, women’s pursuit of beauty has reached a frantic level. However, no matter how exquisite the plastic surgery is, not being able to dress up is a fatal problem. Zhou Dongyu is the best example. I won’t say what changes were made to her face, but in terms of dressing sense, there is a world of difference between then and now.

So, the question is, how should women dress themselves up?

1. Know yourself:

Knowing clearly where your flaws and strengths are is the first step to building one. When it comes to dressing up, many people blindly follow the trend and copy popular styles on their bodies. However, the result is a heartbreaking difference between a buyer's show and a seller's show. So dressing up starts with making the most of your strengths and avoiding your weaknesses.

2. Try more:

Recognizing yourself is a long process. For example, if you have thick legs, you think you are suitable for skirts, but skirts are divided into many types: umbrella skirts, skirts , dresses, hip skirts, pleated skirts, denim skirts. These have different requirements for your body shape, so you should boldly walk into the fitting room of the mall and try on more. You can bring a few friends with you and ask them to give you sound advice.

3. Understand the basic principles of dressing:

In the final analysis, dressing is about style and color. Style is to maximize strengths and avoid weaknesses, and color is to brighten skin tone. There are many posts on the Internet that introduce how to choose clothes for various body types, so you can read more. How to choose color? If you feel "renewed" after wearing a certain eye color, that's right.

4. If you don’t know how to match, just buy the whole set:

Many people realize what styles and colors suit them, but they still don’t know how to match them. At this time, you can go to the shopping mall or the homepage of your favorite store on Taobao to learn how other people dress. If you can’t learn how to dress, just buy a complete set and you won’t go wrong.

5. Learn to wear light makeup:

Nowadays, more and more people stay up late, and it is inevitable that their face will look dull when they wake up in the morning, so it is particularly important to wear light makeup. If you really can't, you should still learn to draw eyebrows and lipstick, which can improve a person's energy in the shortest possible time.

For related methods and lipstick colors, you can read more related posts.

6. About stores with similar styles to your own:

Many people have found their own style, but only in a certain season. Therefore, we can usually collect our favorite stores on Taobao, and then go to check out the store's new products when the seasons change. This can reduce the risk of buying the wrong item and save time on matching clothes. And it also ensures that you don’t fall behind.

7. Start with the basics:

Clothing matching is a great subject. There are thousands of new products every season every year, and there are countless styles. For novices, I suggest starting with basic and simple styles, and try not to have patterns, patterns, leopard prints and other elements that are difficult to control. Paired with basic styles, it will also give people a clean and refreshing impression.

8. Hair style:

Find a better hairstylist and design a hair style according to your actual situation. A suitable hair style can make every step above get twice the result with half the effort!