First of all, it can be understood that this practice represents persistence and sacrifice for love. In today's society, love is rendered as the supreme existence, and people can make any sacrifice in pursuit of love. Therefore, it is not completely incomprehensible to want to make the person you like look better.
However, from another perspective, it is not advisable to have plastic surgery for others. First, cosmetic surgery is a dangerous operation, and there are risks such as surgical failure and infection. If plastic surgery fails, it will not only bring consequences to yourself, but also bring troubles and injuries to people you like, family members and friends. Second, love is based on individual equality, and a person should not feel insecure about himself because the other person likes his appearance. Inappropriately changing one's appearance for others may cause mental burden and psychological problems.
Secondly, the accurate evaluation of this problem needs to be explained from the following four aspects:
1. People's appearances are diverse. Liking a person may be because of his/her attractiveness in behavior, personality and temperament, not just because of his/her appearance. So the idea of paying too much attention to your appearance is not necessarily correct.
In order to pursue love, plastic surgery violates the concept of natural beauty. Everyone should have their own unique beauty and charm, and should not be completely influenced by external aesthetic standards. If you want to change yourself just to reach a certain standard, such love is meaningless.
Plastic surgery is a very personal decision. Everyone has different ideas and attitudes. Some people may choose plastic surgery, but they should also respect the choice of those who are unwilling to change their looks.
Plastic surgery can't permanently change a person's appearance. As time goes by, his appearance will also change. If plastic surgery no longer works, where will love go?
Finally, it should be emphasized that people's pursuit of beauty is actually a universal emotion and demand, and no one is right or wrong. However, we need to establish correct values, not to pursue external image excessively, and not to change ourselves to cater to others. Only by insisting on the cultivation and exploration of inner beauty can we truly make ourselves beautiful and moving.
In a word, cosmetic surgery for the person you like is only a subjective behavior, and there is no absolute right or wrong. In the face of such problems, we need to treat them dialectically and make rational judgments based on our own situation.