This is what I often say to others.
If violence is used by force, it will have no effect. Don't play for three or five days at most, and it won't take long before you start unconsciously, which is counterproductive.
In the long run, it will leave a shadow on children's hearts and they will be more tired of learning. Once they reach puberty, they will become very rebellious and make people angry.
This is what every parent does not want to see.
It is very unrealistic to want children to quit the game. It is their nature to love to play, not only them, but also us adults.
Even so, you can't hoard goods.
To solve this problem, we can adopt flexible education.
What is flexible education?
Is to join the children, play with them, enhance the feelings of both sides, and then make reasonable demands. The child is easy to coax and will definitely agree.
For example, take your own children to grade, but there is a premise, such as how to reach a dividing line in academic performance and how to finish homework on time. ......
How many days will the mobile phone be detained if the punishment is not finished?
Today's children have mobile phones when they are very young. Brushing short videos, chatting online and playing games every day will lead to poor eyesight. When they go to middle school, they may have to wear thick glasses.
Confiscation of mobile phones is inevitable.
Although some schools require mobile phones to be handed in, the general family conditions are still good. Children are spoiled, so they immediately relent before buying, or use their own pocket money.
Back to the topic, if the child doesn't agree, you can use provocation.
This is flexible education.
To really solve the problem, you have to think from the child's point of view, not treat him as an adult.