Suffering is the abyss of the weak and the school of the strong. Beyond suffering, it will be a rare wealth in life. I shouted to myself, I want to be strong, I want to be independent, I want to struggle! And these are all given by suffering, and because of this, I thank suffering!

On the afternoon of June 27th, 2005, Fengjiaxing Village in anlin Station Town, Feicheng City, Shandong Province was boiling. Cai Zhenguo, a young man in this village, scored 604 points in the college entrance examination and was admitted to the Department of Bioengineering of Shandong Institute of Light Industry in advance, exceeding the key undergraduate course in Shandong by 7 points. In the face of people's praise, mother and son wept bitterly.

Who knows/kloc-On the same day 0/7 years ago, Cai Zhenguo, who was only 3 years old, was swept away by a fire and could not stand; Jaw and neck adhesion, unable to lift head; The right elbow bends at right angles; There are almost no complete facial features on the face, lower lip valgus, auricle defect ... the tragic fate has not knocked down this strong boy. He persistently studies as hard as his peers. After more than ten years of hard work, there is an indestructible and strong mother standing behind Cai Zhenguo.

Rebirth from the Fire-"By contrast, we are lucky"

1On June 27th, 988, Cai Zhenguo's boat of life suddenly sailed into the dangerous sea of fate: at the age of three, he sneaked into the kitchen to play with fire while his family was not paying attention, only to cause a fire. When his parents rescued his son from the fire, he was almost burnt: his skin was raw, his limbs were curled up, and his head and chest were stuck together, looking like a person.

Due to serious injuries, Cai Zhenguo was transferred from a first-class township hospital to a Shandong provincial hospital. In Shandong Provincial Hospital, his fragile life was on the verge of despair again and again: he stopped breathing 2/kloc-0 times a day, but he won again and again! After 82 days of treatment and 7 consecutive operations, all the money borrowed from patchwork was spent, and this tenacious little life miraculously survived.

Because there was no money to continue treatment, Tian Xiuying, the mother, had to take her child home with tears in her eyes. The fire left a terrible mark on Cai Zhenguo: the facial features shifted and became terrible; My leg is bent and I can't walk ... After seeing my grandson, my grandmother tearfully advised her daughter: "Even if the child can live, he will be a cripple when he grows up, and even if he wants to eat, he can't go out!" Throw it away! "Tian Xiuying's heart hurts like a needle, but she said firmly," No! I must train my son to be a useful person! "

Tian Xiuying believes that if a child wants to survive, he must first face up to his face. The next morning, she took it to the mirror and said, "Zhenguo, look at yourself. You don't have to be afraid or cry. No matter how others say you are ugly, your face will always be the most beautiful flower in mom's eyes! ..... "Cai Zhenguo nodded firmly after hearing this, but when his mother held the mirror in front of him, he still burst into tears with a" wow ". "Son, there are people in this world who can't talk, and there are people who can't see anything, even die of illness. In contrast, we are still lucky. " Tian Xiuying put his hand on his son's shoulder and said with tears in his eyes. Xiao Zhenguo seemed to understand what his mother said. "Mom, please show me the mirror again." A month later, Zhen-Guo Cai finally stopped shivering in front of the mirror.

My son has solved his problem squarely, but how can he stand up? Tian Xiuying went to the hospital for a doctor's advice. The doctor gave her an idea: tie her son's leg tightly with elastic cloth and pull it away. After a long period of exercise, your legs may straighten.

How cruel it is to pull your son's legs apart! But thinking about her son's future, Tian Xiuying gritted his teeth and began to work. Xiao Zhenguo has skin grafts all over his body, and his skin is particularly sensitive. As soon as the elastic cloth was tied, blood and pus flowed straight out, making him struggle desperately and cry bitterly. Tian Xiuying suddenly felt that an arrow had pierced her heart, but she gritted her teeth and wrapped her son in a coil. Tian Xiuying fought back tears, pulled up his son's feet and helped him move slowly inch by inch. ...

With endless blood and tears, at the age of eight, Cai Zhenguo finally miraculously stood up, although he was still unstable. That day, he staggered around the room and shouted excitedly, "Mom, come and see, I can walk!" " "Tian Xiuying ran to hug her son, tears kept falling ... For this day, how much the son suffered physically and how much the mother suffered mentally! Tian Xiuying is as happy as a festival. Everyone says, "My son can walk by himself! "

Under the guidance of his mother, Xiao Zhenguo gradually became strong and optimistic, and he began to ask to learn to write. Writing is undoubtedly a great challenge for Cai Zhenguo, because his hands were burned to the ground, leaving only two fist-shaped limbs and three fingers like tree buds. Tian Xiuying tied the pen to his son's thumb with a rope, and then let him hold the pen in the other hand. If you hold a pencil for a long time, new meat will easily wear out. Many times, the words in the book are soaked with blood. Tian Xiuying looked at her son's bloody Ben with great pain, but she gritted her teeth and didn't stop him. After countless blisters disappeared, Xiao Zhenguo was able to write freely with his "hand".

I have been involved in the quagmire of discrimination: "There are only people in the world who are looked down upon, and there is no face that is looked down upon."

1One day in May 1994, Cai Zhenguo pulled his mother's sleeve and said, "Mom, I'm going to school." Son's voice is not big, but Tian Xiuying still felt the doubts inside. Yes, his educational ability is limited. His son should go to school to learn more knowledge, so that his standing and walking will be more meaningful.

On September 1 day, Tian Xiuying took his son to the primary school in the village to register. After sending her son to the classroom, she didn't go home, but secretly hid outside the classroom to watch. Her heart ached when she saw the strange expressions of the children and her son hiding in the corner alone. Because at this time, Tian Xiuying has nothing left, only a little faith and dreams. She told herself that she must help her son through the difficulties.

After school, Tian Xiuying told his son a short story: "When my mother was a child, her family was poor and she had lice. The students ignored their mother, but every time her mother won the first prize, many children were willing to play with her ... "Finally, Tian Xiuying added:" There are only people in the world who are looked down upon, and there are no faces that are looked down upon! " Xiao Zhenguo understood his mother's words and studied hard from then on. In the class, Xiao Zhenguo is the ugliest, but he gets the best grades. He also took the initiative to chat with his classmates. Slowly, he established prestige in the eyes of his classmates and even became their role model.

But sometimes it is inevitable to be discriminated against. On one occasion, Xiao Zhenguo took the first place in the grade. According to the school rules, he wanted to post his photo on the honor roll. Cai Zhenguo, who crossed the aisle to take photos at school early in the morning, finally returned home with his diploma in silence. He cried and said, "The teacher thinks I'm ugly and won't let me hang photos." Hearing this, Tian Xiuying stroked his son's head and said, "Stop crying! Mom is not hanging your photo on the wall, but waiting for your college admission notice! "

This also let Tian Xiuying know that as his son grows older, his sense of honor grows stronger and stronger. Now, what I do is to enhance my son's self-confidence and optimism. Tian Xiuying will fully affirm every achievement made by her son at an appropriate time, and she will also influence her son by setting an example.

Life at home is extremely difficult. In order to pay off debts, the husband works outside the home. Tian Xiuying is not only taking care of children at home, but also busy with farm work. He often pulls a car weighing more than 200 kilograms and walks more than 20 kilometers to sell chimneys in the market. Even so, the family is often unable to open the pot, because she has a little money left in her hand to pay her bills. But Tian Xiuying never shed tears in front of life. She knows that only by setting an example and living actively can she give her son confidence. During the Chinese New Year, other people's homes were delicious and delicious, and the poor family of four sat on the bed, picking up funny things and joking.

In the fourth grade of primary school, Cai Zhenguo was chosen by the school to take part in the math competition in the town. When Tian Xiuying came to school with his son, people immediately chatted around their mother and son. Tian Xiuying see in the eye, she for countless dagger-like eyes stabbed her son and angry, more son timid eyes and heartache. Tian Xiuying took his son and said, "We can't be afraid of jokes. The key is to get good grades in the exam to prove that we are not worse than others. What we compare with them is brains and wisdom! As long as you can get the first place in the exam every time, who can not admire you ... "With the encouragement of his mother, Zhen-guo Xiao stepped into the examination room in people's amazing eyes. ...

In order to further "temper" his son, Tian Xiuying decided to take him to a party before Zhenguo went to junior high school in the town. As soon as I arrived at the market, a group of people suddenly surrounded me. Tian Xiuying was worried about his son's reaction, but he saw his son laughing and loudly saying to her, "Mom, I didn't see them just now. I play with them. " Tian Xiuying was secretly pleased at his son's words. She knows that the haze in her son's heart has cleared away and he has become a happy, lively and confident sunshine boy.

There is still one year to enter junior high school. Tian Xiuying asked his son to take care of himself at home. One Saturday afternoon, Cai Zhenguo tried to wash his shirt. Tian Xiuying just came back from outside and saw his son rubbing clothes with his hands. She immediately hid behind her unconscious son, quietly watching the slippery soap slip from his hand to the washbasin again and again and be fished out again and again. A shirt was washed for more than an hour. Tian Xiuying didn't make any noise, but his heart was pulled tightly. When his son was ready, Tian Xiuying hugged his son and cried.

Slowly, Cai Zhenguo's self-care ability has been greatly improved. He can not only wash clothes and peel fruits by himself, but also sew clothes and repair the radio. One night, when he saw that the radio at home was broken, Cai Zhenguo fiddled with it. Tian Xiuying said, "Stop it, your father didn't fix it." Cai Zhenguo did not answer. On 1 in the morning, Tian Xiuying was awakened by the music in his sleep. She jumped out of bed, hugged her son and shouted happily, "Son, you are really something."

From 65438 to 0999, Xiao Zhenguo successfully entered junior high school. In order to further cultivate his son's autonomy, Tian Xiuying decided to let him live on campus, and also set down "three rules": do your own laundry, don't go home if you have nothing to do, and solve problems by yourself.

Cai Zhenguo was deeply influenced by her mother's strength. In the third year, he wrote an article "Laughing at Life", which was published in a middle school student newspaper. He wrote in the article: "It is the luckiest thing to have such a mother. If there is a next life, I hope to be born in this family ... "For three years in junior high school, Cai Zhenguo has always been the first in his class.

In September 2002, Cai Zhenguo was admitted to Taixi Middle School, a provincial key high school, with the first place in the town. Shortly after the start of school, the school will conduct closed military training for half a month. Cai Zhenguo knew he couldn't bear it, but he didn't apply for an exemption. In the 1000m physical fitness test, Cai Zhenguo dragged his sick leg to the finish line. He knows that his goal is far away from this 1000 meter, but the pace of life is heavy!

How should heavy maternal love be repaid? Only the more you study, the harder you work. In the final exam of senior one, the result of this reborn teenager ranked 15 in the whole grade. Not only that, he also won the bronze medal in the 14th Hope Cup National Mathematics Invitational Tournament, the Excellence Award in the National Composition Competition, and the three excellent students in the province. ...

Disabled Cai Zhenguo infected everyone around him with his unique charm, and his classmates who had been avoiding him began to approach him quietly. The classmates who had laughed at him also began to look at him with new eyes. The reason is: "What he does is something that many normal people can't do. If I laugh at him, am I not laughing at myself? "

17 maternal love casts the son of "charcoal man" and eventually becomes a talent.

In August 2004, Feicheng People's Hospital performed a functional recovery operation for Cai Zhenguo free of charge, and the head and chest were separated. After the successful operation, he can finally hold his head high. Cai Zhenguo was invited to give a lecture to college students in Jinan, the provincial capital. Cai Zhenguo said in a report entitled "Thanks for Suffering": "Tears can't change fate. Facing the wind and rain, I told myself that suffering is the abyss of the weak and the school of the strong. Beyond suffering, it will be a rare wealth in life. I shouted to myself, I want to be strong, I want to be independent, I want to struggle! And these are all given to me by suffering. Because of this, I am grateful for suffering! "

On June 7, 2005, Cai Zhenguo, who studied hard at 12, finally faced the challenge of the college entrance examination. Outside the school gate, people are crowded. The annual college entrance examination connects the hearts of students and parents. A mother and son, one in the door and the other outside. The dialogue between mother and son is conducted through the iron gate:

"Can you do that?" Mother's eyes showed anxiety.

"Mom, it's okay. You can rest assured! " The teenager's voice is weak, but his tone is firm. Then, he turned decisively. Seeing her thin and trembling son struggling to the teaching building, her mother's heart was in her throat.

With a solid foundation, Cai Zhenguo achieved a brilliant record: the college entrance examination score was 604.

At 5 pm on June 27th, Cai Zhenguo received the news that she was admitted to Shandong Institute of Light Industry in advance. Tian Xiuying was intoxicated by this great happiness. She choked up and said, "Son, you did it! Son, we have succeeded again! " Cai Zhenguo has mixed feelings. He felt like a barefoot climber, surpassing many climbers wearing shoes with perseverance and courage ... Cai Zhenguo also said with tears: "Mom, you are right! I can do it! "

The excited father really didn't know how to express his joy, so he ran to the street and bought a set of firecrackers. Firecrackers sounded and the whole village came, and Cai Zhenguo became a hero in the eyes of the villagers.

At the same time, a story about maternal love, struggle and unyielding has aroused strong repercussions in society. Guangzhou Southern Hospital decided to do plastic surgery for Cai Zhenguo for free. "Seeing that the child can still work so hard and strive for self-improvement in such a difficult environment, we feel it is worthwhile to help him." Gao Jianhua, director of plastic surgery at Southern Hospital, said with emotion.

At 9: 00 pm on July 13, Tian Xiuying and her son arrived at Nanfang Hospital. Experts consulted Cai Zhenguo overnight. After more than two hours of examination and discussion, Cai Zhenguo's neck scar adhesion, moderate valgus of upper and lower lips, scar contracture of double armpits and right wrist and other injuries were confirmed 1 1. Because the school is about to start, Cai Zhenguo has too many traumatic parts, and the experts decided to complete the plastic surgery in several times. The first step is to operate on the lips, neck, armpit, right elbow and nose.

At 9: 00 on July 16, the first phase of the operation, which lasted nearly seven hours, was successfully completed.

On July 23, when Cai Zhenguo took out the stitches, he smiled and approached his mother. Tian Xiuying watched her son "break the cocoon" several times and gradually become a butterfly. She couldn't help hugging her son, tears streaming down her face ... The flame failed to burn her indomitable spirit, and a Moltres flew out of the fire of disaster.

Cai Zhenguo told reporters: "Now that I have gone to college, I will continue to study for my master's degree and doctor's degree. I also want to write a book for my great mother, the title is Never Give Up. " With such strong children and such a great mother, they will have a bright future.