I just want to tell you this story. As long as you are sincere, if she really repents, why not change it? Put aside the ego and tolerate her. Women are like children. If you can forgive the child, why can't you forgive her? A person's life, from birth to death, is a process of constantly making mistakes, constantly correcting mistakes, constantly falling, and constantly standing up. When everything is understood, it seems to be completely understood. Life is sunset and death. Forgiveness is the greatest virtue of being a man. Don't miss this opportunity.
I said yes, do you believe it? I don't even believe in myself.
When a woman betrays a marriage, the man who is injured with the marriage has to face two choices, one is divorce, and the other is to choose to forgive and move on.
If you still love each other, most of them are reluctant to let go, but is it easy to forgive?
Then, whether a woman who betrayed her marriage will turn over a new leaf after being forgiven, I will tell you as a woman.
What does a man betray his marriage for? Mostly for passion and so-called face. And why do women betray marriage? Send loneliness and revenge to men.
If a woman's marriage is not arranged or arranged, but a combination of free love, she can feel love and happiness in marriage, and many girls will seek love and warmth by betraying marriage.
A woman's betrayal of marriage is often accompanied by the loss of love. In other words, when her love for her husband is lost bit by bit and her heart is full of grievances, complaints and even hatred, her body can accept another man.
If a woman's heart is still in you, she is unlikely to do anything that hurts her lover and betrays her marriage. Therefore, if a woman doesn't love you, your forgiveness can only touch her for a while. If she doesn't get what she wants from you, she will betray her marriage in the future.
Many couples live a more painful life than betrayal after forgiving one of them. Every day, I am suspicious, check my mobile phone and phone, and my nerves are highly nervous. And people who do wrong, everywhere carefully, afraid to say the wrong thing, remind each other of their unbearable past, and then there is endless quarrel.
Forgiveness is easy, but it is difficult to do. It takes time and needs to rebuild trust.
If you regard her as a prisoner, then marriage is a cage, and being trapped is the happiness of both of you. Therefore, if you make up your mind and choose to forgive, don't think about whether the other person will turn over a new leaf, but cover your ears and walk blindfolded for a while, and time will tell you the answer.
Women who cheat have one characteristic: they despise their husbands and are not afraid of them. I feel that I have lost money with such a husband in my life. They seldom pay attention to their husbands and don't want to kiss me. They just take care of their children and parents. Once you have the opportunity to meet someone you like and think that such a man is worthy of her, you will be desperate to send it. Usually there is no tenderness at home, either indifference or nothing to say, but in front of the man she likes, she is like an innocent girl, gentle and lovely. So few women who cheat can turn over a new leaf.
Whether a woman who betrays her marriage will turn over a new leaf depends on how much she has been hurt by extramarital affairs and how much she cherishes her family. If she is hurt by extramarital affairs so much that she feels how important her family is, she can turn over a new leaf.
A woman is an animal that is afraid of being hurt. Once beaten, twice shy.
Women usually cheat because of the misfortune of marriage and family. If a man wants to turn over a new leaf for an unfaithful woman, he must start from three aspects:
Few suitors outside marriage really like this woman, and more men just have fun.
For example, Cao Cao, who is famous in the history of China, likes to conquer other people's wives. Every time a leader is defeated, he will talk to other people's wives on a spring night, and even regard what he thinks is good as a wife.
Cao Cao has many wives, and there will be more in the future.
If a woman doesn't get what she wants in marriage, she will ask for it outside marriage. Men outside marriage often don't really love her, but a temporary novelty will hurt women's desire for love.
Men should try their best to promote the failure of women's extramarital affairs.
An injured woman is the easiest to rely on. If the men at home are kind to her at this time and let her feel the warmth of the family, she will return to the family soon.
Home is a warm harbor. People get married to gain strength and warmth at home when they are working hard outside.
If the family loses its function and a woman can't get what she wants, she will lose her expectation of the family and turn to the outside world for help.
Once a woman has an affair, a man must analyze clearly whether a woman likes a man's money, love or something else outside.
Then selectively improve.
Let women constantly discover your goodness, especially after being hurt, and suddenly look back and find that the one at home is much stronger than the one outside, and the home is much warmer than the outside.
People are always pursuing heights. If the outside is not as good as the home, why should women betray their marriage?
Whether men or women, there must be rules, and rules must stipulate what can't be violated, such as cheating. What about cheating and betraying your marriage?
For example, my husband and I made an appointment with him before we got married. Once one of the parties has an affair in marriage, the person who has an affair will leave home cleanly, and there will be no chance to get back together with another person in the future. The child they like also belongs to the one who didn't cheat.
My husband has been whispering, "I can't do anything sorry for you, or what will my son do!" " "
I ha ha a smile, I know what he wants to say is not finished.
Once derailed, not only will he not see his son, but he will also lose his assets that he has worked hard for more than ten years, which will make him feel so distressed that he can only take a look at the object he likes.
In short, it is possible for a woman who betrays her marriage to turn over a new leaf. The key is to see what people in marriage do.
If the married person makes her feel hurt by extramarital affairs quickly and feel the warmth of marriage, and when the woman knows the importance of family, the man will make rules again, and the woman will definitely turn over a new leaf and stop betraying.
A woman who betrays her marriage, her heart is always whipped by the moral whip.
A woman who betrays her marriage will not be happy in her heart, but a temporary indulgence will become a lifelong pain.
Women who betray their marriage often don't get true love. What others pour out is the love between men and women, and they like it when others are frustrated. Therefore, women who betray their marriage are most likely to be deceived by men. Therefore, women who betray their marriage are often the most uneasy. Such a woman is in a state of atonement at home. For example, let the husband be angry with himself, for example, he works hard and does things for his family. For example, I always feel that I owe my family a lot. Hmm. Therefore, such a woman who is unfaithful to her marriage and betrays her family will sometimes get tired of this derailed life after constant psychological struggle. If the people he has hurt will accept him, I think he will choose to come back.
A woman is found cheating, her heart is broken, and she has a repentant heart! However, both sides have shadows in their hearts. After a long time, life will be dull and there will be no wariness. A woman's heart will be lonely, arousing the goal of finding derailment! As long as she cheats once, she can't take away her empty heart. In real life, as long as she is found, she just admits to talking, eating and eating, and no one admits to sleeping together! Stay away from this kind of woman for your happiness. She lives for pleasure and enjoyment, not for true love.
It is said that the prodigal son will never change his money, but if a woman who betrays her marriage turns over a new leaf, can her other half accept her?
It's easy to turn over a new leaf, but it's really too difficult to do. Especially for a woman who has betrayed her marriage, it doesn't mean that she can turn over a new leaf if she wants to turn over a new leaf. Moreover, public opinion, gossip of relatives and friends and the attitude of the other half all determine whether this woman who has betrayed her marriage can turn over a new leaf and start over.
According to common sense, women are actually more conservative. Even if they have malicious intentions sometimes, they are not afraid of thieves. Because the cost of a woman betraying her marriage is too high, most women who betray their marriage can't turn back. Even if they turn back, no one will give her a chance. No man in this world can tolerate his wife cuckolding himself. Men can cheat, because men cheat only because they make mistakes that all men in the world will make, but it is a great shame for women to cheat.
First, women are dissatisfied with their other half in this marriage. This dissatisfaction may be due to physical needs or the ability of the other half. It is said that men are lewd, but women are also human beings, and women are lewd. It's just that women are more reserved and depressed, and they won't be as blatant as men. Therefore, women are as eager for pleasure and enjoyment as men. If the other half in the marriage can't meet the physiological needs of women, women will be eager for someone to meet her. At this time, if you meet that person, it is easy for a woman to betray her marriage.
What about ability? Some women love vanity and money worship, but their other half is exactly the kind of family man with hot wife and children. Without ambition and not giving women the life they want, women will abandon their other half and appreciate their favorite type instead. But women will not give up men's kindness to her, so they will cheat.
Second, women are born in easy virtue. Some women are really wild by nature. This kind of woman is often selfish. The whole world only loves herself. No matter how comfortable she is, she doesn't care about the feelings of others. For such a woman, marriage has no meaning at all, just a form. Their greatest pleasure is wandering in the arms of all kinds of men, and they are proud of how many men they have slept with.
If you are unfortunate enough to marry such a woman, a man must have a piece of Lv Yun on his head. Such a woman knows nothing about love. In their eyes, any man is the same as long as it can bring them happiness, pleasure and enjoyment.
If a woman betrays her marriage, in fact, she already knows her ending very well. Turning over a new leaf is self-deception, and turning back is the most difficult way in the world. Unless this woman has a partner who loves her very much, that person will not care about her betrayal, but can really tolerate her and give her time to turn over a new leaf. But the chances are too small.
Of course, marriage is not love after all. If two people have children, marriage involves too many things. As long as the man doesn't care, a woman who betrays her marriage will turn over a new leaf and be more loyal to her marriage than before. This is not to say how much a woman loves a man, but that a woman's guilt and guilt make her want to compensate her other half and her marriage.
Getting married is not easy. Now that you have entered the marriage hall, do it and cherish it! After all, nobody owes anyone!
I don't think so. As the old saying goes, "The wolf goes to Wan Li Road to eat meat, and the dog goes to Wan Li Road. . . "It should be said that it is difficult. Nature is there. How much can you expect her to change? For a man, he certainly doesn't want his woman to cheat. When his woman has an affair, different men will have different choices.
Some men can't forgive women for cheating, not once. He knew that after his woman cheated on him, he would choose to divorce.
Some men will choose the original motivation and purpose of women's infidelity, active or passive. If you have a good relationship with your woman, and your husband and wife love each other, and for special reasons, your woman passively cheats and tells you the truth, then men will forgive and their marriage will continue. Just don't betray yourself in the future.
Anyway, there will always be shadows in my heart, and I don't think it will work. After all, there are only countless times and zero times of derailment.
People's hearts are unpredictable, so there is no accurate answer to anything about people's hearts in this world.
Married, two people can be together for life, not divorced, no one is sure.
Whether to get married, whether to never cheat and love only one person, no one is sure.
No one can be sure whether a person who betrays his marriage will turn over a new leaf and live a down-to-earth life in the future.
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People are unpredictable. At this moment, she promised to turn over a new leaf in the future. You are not sure whether she can do it. You don't know what will happen in the future, and neither does she, so instead of dwelling on things that no one knows, ask yourself, do you still believe her?
I believe that she will change, that she will never betray you again, and that you can still live a happy life after she returns to your family. If the answer is yes, you are worth a try. If you have lost trust in her, everything she has done is in vain, and the so-called future is just empty talk.
The last thing a man can't stand is wearing a cuckold. The tolerance of society for men's infidelity is obviously higher than that of women's infidelity. When a man cheats, everyone agrees that he is just tempted. As long as he is willing to return to his family, he should naturally forgive. But when a woman cheats, most men will feel humiliated and can't wait to let her go at once.
You ask yourself from the bottom of your heart, can you really forgive her Not with your mouth, but from your heart. Turn this thing over.
Never, never overestimate your endurance.
If you talk about forgiveness and go on, but you keep holding it in your heart and don't like her, then even if the marriage continues, life is not smooth and life is not happy.
For the sake of children and family, choose to forgive and trust her again, but be prepared in your heart. If she makes the same mistake again, she must plan to give up her marriage.
No one can be disappointed again and again.
Marriage is not easy and cherished, but in the face of irreconcilable contradictions, only a strong man breaks his wrist, and when it breaks, it breaks.
With the greatest goodwill, make a final effort and prepare for the failure of marriage in advance.
I am Guashe, thank you for your support.
Can a woman who betrays her marriage turn over a new leaf?
Nothing is absolute. Whether you can turn over a new leaf or not, the most important thing is to look at the joint efforts of two people, instead of standing on the moral high ground and thinking that it is obviously your fault, you should humbly make up for the harm you caused me before. If this is the idea, it is best to separate completely.
This problem is like a place that has been hurt. Can it be the same as before?
If you are injured, you may need surgery. Surgery will hurt you and you need more training. If the injury is serious, you should rest for a year and a half, and then carry out rehabilitation, nursing and diet adjustment. When your body recovers, you should exercise more, stay happy and improve your resistance.
All wounds need time to heal, and feelings are no exception.
Forgive those who have betrayed and forgive those who are willing to turn over a new leaf. The previous betrayal and injury may be that you don't know love, but now the change and forgiveness are all because of love. We should cherish this and don't let the fragile love become less and less.
At least I personally think that this road needs a lot of courage, just like the wound may become infected and inflamed again. Preparing for the worst in this matter also gives the other party the greatest sense of security.
This is a road full of thorns, just like finding love. If you choose to go on, the rules should be set, and you should tell your bottom line within the acceptable range of the other party.
You can choose to forgive without looking back, but if you don't want to let go, then both sides must work hard before you can let go.
If you don't get what you want in the end, it's over, and you don't have to be sad.