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"I'm sorry to ask: can I eat quietly when I participate in the activity? The route is long, and lunch time is on the road. It is easy to get dizzy if you don't eat. " Sitting on the subway, I asked in the group.

"Just eat generously:)" Fan Bei said silently.

"Straight-"The nervous heart suddenly relaxed a lot.

Every time before recording in the relay camp, I feel nervous and very hungry. I'm going to take part in the offline activities of the relay camp, and I'm even hungrier at the thought that I may have to face a group of people to relay. So, when I got off at Suzhou Station, I saw that there was still plenty of time. I found a place to eat a hearty meal at the first time.

The map guide manual shared by the battalion commander in the group is very detailed and clear. Follow the schematic diagram, cross the winding path, turn around and turn around again, and you will arrive at the venue of the event: Innovation Club, a neat two-story building. Next to it is the playground of Bayi Middle School.

Entering the building, facing the gate is an antique bookstore.

It was also after the activity that Nana and I learned from the sign at the door that everyone who came here could read all the books in the library for free and provide comfortable sofas, drinking water and WIFI. Outside the window, the willow tree is Yiyi. Inside the window, it's warm and quiet (there should be photos here, but I forgot this crop yesterday).

Think about it, how wonderful it would be to study here. Besides, you will meet a group of friends who love learning and reading as much as you do.

At the library gate, I met Mr. Yu Kexian. I haven't seen Mr. Yu before, so when she gently greeted me from the bookstore and asked me if I was coming to the interpretation camp, I once thought she was the librarian of the bookstore. Because, she is too similar to the temperament here, calm and warm.

Under the guidance of teacher Yu, I found the coffee shop where the activity was held. I went upstairs from the bookstore on the first floor and went to the coffee shop on the second floor. Don't underestimate such a small space, and after several hours of study and discussion here, I still can't bear to part with you in the end, and I really look forward to coming again next time.

After going upstairs, when I knew I was Zhou Zhou, I was immediately given a bear hug by a lively, cheerful, enthusiastic and charming girl.

Yes, she is Nana. As comrades in writing camp and reporting camp, this is the first time we met. At first, I didn't believe that she was her at all, because the voice in the audio was sweet, warm, smooth and appropriate, and the flowing voice came from this warm, lively and cheerful girl who was half a head taller than me.

In the following activities, in sharp contrast to my poor expression, Nana can adjust the atmosphere and transfer my nervousness. In the sharing session, she talked about many ideas, social cases and her own feelings that I didn't think of. She's great! I like her, too, hehehehehe …

I have seen the battalion commander in the video before, and I am not surprised to meet a real person. At the scene, he was as modest and calm as I expected.

The unexpected surprise is that I actually met the legendary battalion commander's wife this time. It was introduced by the battalion commander before. They are classmates in the math department. When I think of the advanced math class in the university, my whole brain shrinks by half. I see the girl with a thin face in front of me is high flyers from the Department of Mathematics. My brain ... is lost in thought and has mixed feelings! Don't tell me about calculus. I don't understand it and it doesn't belong to me.

During the activity, in addition to Teacher Yu and Nana, I also got to know Jun Xinhe in the same group, as well as Fan Beimu and other partners who told me that "it is good to eat generously". I only recognize my face, but I don't remember my name.

Next, the activity officially began.

At this point, the above table is wordy. The following are

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The battalion commander once again introduced himself to us. high flyers, a science and engineering graduate majoring in mathematics, worked as an electric worker and wrote a copy. Now he is the head of Fanbei Writing Camp and Fanbei Newspaper Training Camp. He appeared to explain the feasibility of "changing careers" and explained that changing careers is feasible because of a good foundation. It proves that what you did before is not important, but what you want to do now. Young, there is nothing wrong-this sentence, teacher Yu objected, she said, people are not afraid of being old when they see me. There's nothing wrong with getting old.

Then, the battalion commander showed us the direct reason why he had to (choose) become a heart with "great love", that is, the clock-in data of relay relay 1 battalion, battalion 2 and battalion 3 (pictured).

The same trend, the same downward curve. At the beginning of each battalion, it was a team of 18/20 people. Punch in five times, and on average, less than half of my teammates. Certified the old saying: "the road to success is not crowded", not only not crowded, but also lonely when walking.

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Report what happened in the camp.

-You can't eat a big fat man in one bite.

The punching data of each battalion also reflects that it is difficult to relay this matter, and it is not as easy as expected.

I know this myself. Relay a book in 7 days, read the secretary's notes in the first 6 days, watch videos and listen to audio, and draw mind maps. Even when walking on the road, I wonder what practical cases can be combined with the main points. While eating, I also recalled the main points in the book ... At the end of the seventh day, I was ready to record. I am anxious and nervous, and I always want to abandon my armor and run away. Running away from cold feet is one of my labels. Up to today, five books have been delivered. How did I get here during this time? Only I know all kinds of smells.

Nana and Junxin, who are sitting on both sides of me, say that they have a deep understanding of this smell.

This kind of taste, the battalion commander said that he has also experienced and experienced it. In the past six months, I have done 25 family sharing, 16 writing camp live broadcast, 8 report camp live broadcast, 13 report advanced camp live broadcast, 6 enterprise sharing, 4 offline live broadcast activities sharing, 7 1 time. If you add your own practice at home, it is not an exaggeration to say that you share it once a day on average.

Today, it seems to us that the sharing and reporting of the battalion commander can be carried out calmly in Kan Kan. He said it was because of his persistence and growth along the way, and now he is afraid to think about it, and he doesn't know how he came.

So, now we have such setbacks and difficulties, and he has experienced them in those years. The only way to break the game is to "persist".

"Learning 50 books a year by paraphrasing" is not only a slogan, but also the goal we chose to do. This goal is difficult to achieve, not afraid! It takes several steps to put an elephant in the refrigerator. The first step, the second step … step by step, one book at a time. The goal is to be a better self.

Next, the device:

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First of all, the three stages of reporting.

This stage is also the stage where most teammates are at present.

Every book we relay, such as nonviolent communication/key dialogue/high-performance coach/third choice, we can basically tell what the focus of each book is, from which we can see/discover the great gains and changes after applying it in our own lives. Through learning, we not only hope that we can be applied, but also hope that we can influence and infect our family, friends and colleagues around us, making me better and making us better.

In this regard, I have some feelings: at present, my situation is that when recording audio, I can only explain a big framework of a book, but I can't cover the details and enrich the main points of the details. I guess the main reason for this situation is that I didn't grasp the main points of the book, didn't grasp it, and couldn't achieve mastery.

I remember some time ago, teammate Sally No.45 submitted an assignment that relayed key conversations. In the audio, she talked in Kan Kan for an hour and a half, covering almost all the main points in the book. At the same time, when talking about each point, what cases were provided in the book, and she also covered them when reporting. It's amazing! I asked her how she did it. She said that in order to master the book, she not only watched the video recorded by Fan Deng, but also carefully read the original. I see. Because of deeper study, I got better grades. This is the principle of learning.

Sally's successful case also provides us with a learning method. But the disadvantage is that she can't keep up with the pace of learning because she spends more time reading the original works. Advantages and disadvantages coexist. I look forward to finding a better way together. (The "Cooperative" Thinking in The Third Choice)

This was vividly explained by the on-site battalion commander, and we immediately realized the difference between the two. Look back at my own retelling, not just retelling a book into a resume.

1 resume, list dry goods, what did you do? What have you achieved? What did you get? (Please fill in the resume template yourself)

2 self-introduction, different people and different occasions are different.

For a comparison between the two, please refer to the figure below.

The more obvious characteristic difference between the two may be more felt on the spot.

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Three thoughts on reporting.

This is why we can apply some knowledge points to a scene in our life after studying, or when we know that we can apply some knowledge points to a scene, we will get better results.

In particular, the five books we relay belong to the category of communication and can be applied almost anytime and anywhere.

My current level is still relatively limited to the self-satisfied reporting mode. To explain a book from the reader's point of view, we can refer to the status of teacher Fan Deng's book.

Before learning every book, the battalion commander reminds us to find the mission of this book first, which is to solve one or several problems. Imagine, can your retelling help this book complete its future mission? If not, what are the shortcomings? What can be done to get better results?

I still need to walk and learn this road.

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What is the real purpose of the battalion commander as a report battalion?

This topic has to start from primitive society again. Before writing was invented, information was mainly passed on by word of mouth; With writing, books can't be popularized, and this is still the case. From Confucius' lectures, the Analects of Confucius, which has been handed down from ancient times, describes the dialogue between Confucius and students, and so on, which can be demonstrated. In the era of popularization of books, reading and class notes have become the main ways to acquire information/knowledge. At present, we live in an era when the Internet and multimedia are increasingly becoming knowledge carriers. Different carriers will make our learning methods different. What kind of learning style will be more suitable for the present era? The battalion commander's answer is: deliberate learning training camp with report. Whether the answer is correct or not depends on our verification together.

With the development of speech recognition technology, when handwriting is replaced by keyboard input and keyboard input is replaced by voice input, the efficiency is greatly improved, and the underlying logic of self-writing and number reporting is consistent. It is necessary to explore a method to jointly open the boundary between writing and number reporting.

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Next, everyone watched a video of Fan Deng's speech about seven habits of highly effective people.

Which seven habits? What is the mission of this book? What is the framework? What is the main point of the content? -Please watch the video and learn by yourself.

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Then we divided into two groups, and each group sat in a circle to discuss and study.

This link, too exciting, too excited, too enjoyable (in the end, it was not enough, not enough).

Language is the greatest invention of mankind, and communication is the most beautiful state of human existence.

Several people in the group, after expressing their opinions, asking questions interactively, answering quickly, correcting mistakes and speaking freely, should have spent an hour studying this book, but they discussed it with relish on the first knowledge point of "initiative" and completely forgot the time. When I found it was dark outside, I found that the discussion time had passed for more than two hours.

In my opinion, there is a big drawback that everyone usually shares their own audio+teammates' mutual comments in the group, that is, they can't achieve instant feedback, instant complementarity and instant correction like live interaction. Immediate feedback is so important that it is particularly easy to stimulate the other person's desire to continue to dig deep into learning. Second, correct it immediately. After recording the audio of a book, I have no idea whether my understanding of the book is accurate or not. Even if teammates upstairs and downstairs have comments (often not), my own feeling is that I dare not make comments in vain most of the time, because when my understanding is different from the other party's, I am not sure who is closer to the truth.

Besides, the mutual evaluation of audio, the data is even uglier than the broadcast data, and even uglier than the mutual evaluation data of the writing camp.

Why?

I think there are two reasons: first, listening to audio requires more time, energy and attention, and it is difficult for everyone to take time out to finish it in a busy life. For example, some teammates have recorded audio for more than an hour, and the listening time will not be shorter than this. Sometimes, if you can't hear clearly, you need to go back and listen repeatedly. Second, unlike reading an article, our attitude is appreciation, which is easier and easier to achieve. Listening to the audio relayed in a book, when you are not sure whether you have mastered those content points, you will be under pressure and easily resist execution.

How to improve? Everything is not afraid of difficulties. Difficult things can be like how many steps it takes to turn an elephant into a refrigerator. We need to work together to find a good solution.

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After hastily concluding the discussion, the two groups sent their own representatives to share the report on the spot.

Our team sent a military spirit, the only male teammate who came to participate in the activity (excluding the battalion commander and other staff).

We also analyzed and discussed why the phenomenon of accepting new things and learning is dominated by women. For example, online members of reading clubs/people who participate in offline activities/people who dance square dances are also mostly women. Interestingly, we are discussing not only the knowledge points of this book, but also our experiences and cases in society/work/family. Some seem to have nothing to do with this book, but in the end, good books and knowledge come together and make a difference. I'm consistent, that's the truth.

A group sent two representatives.

Everyone has his own characteristics.

The first batch of comrades on stage may also be nervous, so they can't let go when they speak, and they speak more fluently. I wonder if it would be better if she added a "ramp" at the beginning

The second one is about junxin. He is a bright spot and a surprise. He is one of the few teammates who stick to the first battalion. Battalion 1 is faster than us. So far, it has relayed more than a dozen books. Jun Xin's live sharing is not limited to the knowledge points in this book. He started with an experience in his middle school, from which he explained the importance of the influence of "habit" on people. His opening remarks are easy to connect with the people sitting below, and we are immersed in his sharing. He made a good slope. He combined many cases in the story, shared some of his own experiences, and was also unique in creating the atmosphere of the scene. Well done! Have the potential to speak.

The third person to share is also a group of comrades. She was nervous when she first came on stage. She was a little late in the afternoon and missed some content. She talked a little about the main points of knowledge in the book. After that, she shared with us her mental journey since she attended Fandeng Reading Club. She changed herself and her family, especially in the education of her son. She talked about her feelings about the current situation of friends around her and wanted to influence the dreams of more people around her with her own changes. A particularly kind and meaningful dream.

What sentence did I start with and was moved by her? At first, she said that I used to be a farmer, and now I open a couple snack bar. Her sincerity, she is not ashamed to tell her privacy. Her self-disclosure has expanded our public quadrant, and our closeness and trust in her have gone further. This is one of the methods mentioned by teacher Fan Deng in "Replicable Leadership", how to improve their respect and trustworthiness, and expand the public quadrant through self-disclosure.

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After the sharing, the battalion commander silently presented prizes to the three of them. How wonderful life would be if teammates who didn't play could get it.

At the end of the activity, when everyone took a group photo as a souvenir, they silently reminded us (maybe it was me, my already messy hairstyle was even worse under the idea of keeping my hair) to pay attention to tidying up my hairstyle.

His warm-hearted behavior won unanimous praise from the ladies at the scene, and then they asked him if he had a girlfriend ... I always thought that gold would always shine in the marriage and love market. You see, silence is an example of self-expression.

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After the activity, Nana and I went to catch the subway together. She was so enthusiastic that she chose to send me to the subway car by mistake (she wanted to go in the opposite direction) She is really a warm and kind girl.

During the activity, she affirmed my persistence and seriousness many times. I once analyzed myself. I belong to unstable low self-esteem. When I am affirmed and praised, I feel good about myself especially easily. If I am questioned and get negative feedback, I tend to deny and question myself. It is luck and happiness to meet a partner like Nana.

Walking into the writing camp, walking into the reporting camp, and meeting with everyone is fate, harvest, growth and joy.

Work hard and be a better person.

I thank the battalion commander for his dedication, everyone who accompanied me when I was growing up, and the book club in Fan Deng.