In this world, there are no two identical people, just like every leaf has its unique shape, and every flower has its unique fragrance. Each of us is a unique individual in the world, and each of us has its own value and significance. The following is a wonderful speech about live high. Welcome to read it!

live high's wonderful speech 1

In the hurried journey of life, each of us is a traveler, carrying a light or heavy burden on our shoulders and constantly walking.

I'm afraid it's hard for most people to hear their footsteps every time they squeeze into the bustling crowd.

You may be one of these people. When you get used to following others' footsteps, you will gradually become a nobody. Self? People.

As a result, your world lacks its own splendor. On the way to life without self, you chose the wrong one for your goal? Reference? Therefore, you have lost the direction you should walk.

you are miserable, complaining and even shouting:? How on earth should I take this road of life? Why am I inferior to others in many aspects? Why am I worried?

　? Why can't I find happiness and happiness in life? Why am I a weak person? Why is my fate so bad? Why can't I see sunshine and hope? < P > In the final analysis, it's because you have lost yourself and lost the road that suits you.

You must understand that in this world, you are also unique and unrepeatable, and you have your unique advantages and unique personality.

the ancient Greek philosopher Epicurus once said: If you make your life according to nature, you will never be poor; If you build your life according to people's ideas, you will never be rich. ?

In fact, everyone has his own way of life, just like every star has its own orbit. When your life is out of the way, your life is doomed to be sad.

Tagore, a great philosopher and poet, once said:? Life is not an artificially dug canal, and the river can't be confined to some well-defined rivers. ?

Yes, life should not be bound unnecessarily. Life itself should be free to choose.

In fact, there is absolutely no need for you to judge yourself and change yourself by other people's standards, and there is no need to let other people's ideas determine your life.

you are you! Be true to yourself and choose what you like to do.

Go after your deep dreams with a relaxed mind, love yourself and all your relatives and friends around you, even strangers, learn to be kind to yourself, live in your favorite way, be your own star, and be wonderful in live high every day!

live high's wonderful speech 2

Good afternoon, friends! I am glad to have the opportunity to communicate with you and talk about happiness.

why did you choose this topic? This has something to do with my work.

(introducing myself) I am a psychological counselor, helping visitors solve psychological problems.

For example, a person has just been lovelorn and is very painful; A mother is extremely anxious because her child is disobedient; ?

My job is to help those who ask for help get out of an unhappy state, or to reduce the degree of unhappiness, so that this unhappy state is within an acceptable range, instead of making us miserable.

My job determines that people who come to me are in some unhappy state. When a person is happy, he won't come to me.

it can be said that I am a person who often deals with unhappiness, so I pay more attention than the average person? Happy? This question.

1. Everyone is unhappy sometimes

In medicine, people are divided into two types: people with normal psychology and people with abnormal psychology.

People with abnormal psychology are the people with mental disorders that we are familiar with, that is, mental patients and lunatics.

They need to go to a mental hospital to get help from a psychiatrist and medical treatment.

People with normal psychology can be divided into mentally healthy people and mentally unhealthy people.

Mental health and unhealthy is a relative concept, which is like our physical health.

(PPT) People's mental state fluctuates like water, which is healthy at one time and unhealthy at another.

this fluctuation itself is a normal state.

when we are healthy, we feel satisfied, happy, peaceful, happy, cheerful and happy inside; When we are unhealthy, we feel anxiety, worry, disappointment, terror, suspicion, anger, hopelessness, helplessness, powerlessness, pain and so on.

Everything we encounter in life will cause our emotions to fluctuate.

second, what kind of things will make us unhappy

share: what kind of things will make us unhappy?

1. Not beautiful, too short, too fat and too dark;

2. Your education is not high, and others think that you have no education and know too little;

3. The work is not good, it is too hard, and the salary is low;

　4、?

third, happiness is your choice

how to make yourself happy? Psychologists' research gives us the answer.

Psychologists believe that happiness is a subjective feeling of psychology.

therefore, whether you are happy or not is up to you.

There is a famous ABC theory in psychology.

A represents an induced event; B represents a specific person's view of the triggering event A; C represents the emotional response and behavior of this particular person after this induced event.

ABC theory tells us that happiness is our own choice.

We can't change many things, but we can choose how to look at it, so we choose to be happy or unhappy.

So happiness is our own choice, and unhappiness is what we ask for.

Story 2: There is an old mother. She has two sons. The eldest son sells umbrellas and the younger son sells popsicles.

On sunny days, the old mother worries about her eldest son, because nobody buys an umbrella on sunny days.

On rainy days, the old mother felt sorry for her little son, because nobody ate popsicles on rainy days.

at this moment, someone said to the old mother: You should be happy for your youngest son on a sunny day, because many people will buy his popsicles. You should be happy for your eldest son in rainy days, because his umbrella has become a hot commodity.

　? The old mother did as he said, and since then, she has really become very happy.

4. What kind of choice determines what kind of life

Three people are going to be put in prison for three years, and the warden asks each of them to make a request.

Americans like to smoke cigars and asked for three boxes of cigars.

The French are the most romantic and want a beautiful woman to accompany them.

The Jew said that he wanted a telephone to communicate with the outside world.

Three years later, the first person to rush out was an American, with his nostrils full of cigars and shouting, "Give me a fire, give me a fire!" It turned out that he forgot to light the fire.

then the French came out.

I saw him holding a child in his hand, a beautiful woman holding a child in her hand and a third one in her belly.

Finally, the Jew came out. He held the warden's hand tightly and said, "In the past three years, I have been in contact with the outside world every day. My business has not stopped, but has increased by 2%. To show my gratitude, I will give you a Rolls Royce!"

Tip: Choice is a concrete and concrete action.

what kind of choice determines what kind of life.

Today's life is determined by our choices three years ago, but today's choices will determine our life three years later.

5. Accept yourself and enjoy the present

Accept yourself and appreciate yourself.

Many people don't like themselves. Do you like yourself?

exercise: please find out what you are satisfied with or proud of in 5 minutes; Then find out what makes you dissatisfied (note: it can be personality, advantages and disadvantages, specialties, defects, etc.).

spot check: think about the results.

how can a person be happy if he doesn't even like himself? How can people who don't like themselves expect others to like you?

VI. Enlightenment from the story "A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise"

Good and bad are transformed into each other; Fortune and misfortune go hand in hand.

This is a fable in China's ancient books.

　? Plug? What is the plug, the plug is the Great Wall; ? Sai Weng? Is the old man at the foot of the Great Wall; This old man keeps horses, and once his horse got lost, he felt very unlucky.

I didn't know that after a while, this horse came home with another wild horse. He was very happy, because the lost horse not only came back by itself, but also brought back another horse, which turned a bad thing into a good thing.

The old man's son wants to train a horse. He will train a wild horse as soon as he sees it. How can he know that as soon as the wild horse earns, the old man's son falls off his horse and hurts his foot?

when the old man saw this, he couldn't help saying that this trip was a good thing and turned into a bad thing. This wild horse hurt my son's foot.

After a period of time, his son's foot still hasn't healed. Suddenly, the emperor recruited soldiers among the people, and the men were going to fight, but his son was exempted from service because of his foot injury.

at that time, how many soldiers were recruited to fight? How many people have fought in ancient times? After a narrow escape, my son didn't have to go to war or die.

what does this story mean? A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. How do you know? How do you know if it's good or bad? Sai Weng lost his horse. You don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing. It's always evolving.

in fact, we have experienced many examples.

Some people go gambling, because they win money, their hearts are red, they want to get rich, and they lose completely.

Some people went to speculate in real estate, and it was smooth at first, so the more they speculated, the braver they became, and finally they lost their whole fortune.

Some people dare not gamble. As soon as they enter the casino, they will lose money. On the surface, it is a bad thing. In fact, it is a good thing that they dare not gamble.

there is a saying that heaven tries people with a little blessing.

Heaven tries you with a small blessing. In fact, there is a big disaster to follow, so Fulai need not be too happy.

Heaven will try people with small disasters, but blessings will follow.

The meaning of this sentence is the same as that of a blessing in disguise.

When something comes, it may be a good thing or a bad thing. We should not be too persistent and too happy. We should treat it with a normal heart.

We should look at its development, because good things may turn into bad things, and bad things may produce good results, which is unexpected.

But if we have this mental preparation, we should not regard good things as excellent, or bad things as absolute bad luck. That's not how we look at things.

We look at things from the viewpoint of development and change, the result of things, and the progress of waves. This is called dialectics.

Therefore, saying that a blessing in disguise is not a blessing in disguise is full of dialectics.

live high's wonderful speech 3

Dear friends: Hello!

if someone asks you: what is wonderful? What would you say? The enthusiasm for joining the army in the war years, the literary craze in the 198s or the craze for going abroad in the 199s? Yes, they are all wonderful.

Every era has its own splendor, and each era has created different splendor, but in any case, splendor is always closely linked with youth.

promoted in the 199s? Reading is useless? Has long been in full swing? Postgraduate entrance examination? 、? Textual research The heat blew without a trace.

The times have pushed our new generation of young people to the forefront of society.

Therefore, we should look for the wonderful things that belong to our generation.

in order to live a wonderful life, we should have goals and beliefs.

the goal is a bright light in your heart, and faith is the source of strength that inspires you to move towards the goal.

the goal may be vague and the road may be bumpy.

however, as long as you make sure of a bright light, you can swim across the sea of danger smoothly! The legendary fire phoenix flies against the sun in order to ignite its own body, because only burning can regenerate.

This is somewhat tragic, but it is indeed a magnificent picture.

because the process of struggle is wonderful!

in order to live a wonderful life, we must have knowledge and skills.

knowledge is the foundation of success, and skills are the tools to achieve success.

As mankind enters the 21st century, the world is multipolar, information is globalized, and the amount of knowledge and information is increasing by a hundredfold.

Faced with this reality, the relaxed scene in the ivory tower has long since disappeared, and it has been replaced by looking for a wonderful pair of fiery eyes.

Society has brought the cruelty of competition to us, which has also created a new generation of young people to be self-reliant and progressive.

there is a saying? Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared? So, young friends, let's get ready early.

in order to live a wonderful life, we should have the spirit of continuous transcendence.

Mr. Lu Xun once said,? Dissatisfaction is the upward soul? .

the progress of the times makes new things develop at an incredible speed.

there is no iron rice bowl and no shelf life.

at any time, we must meet the challenge with the attitude of the starting line.