First, look at the circle of friends to know what girls are interested in, then you must look at her circle of friends. Start talking from what she is familiar with, and the conversation will be smooth. Try to think, if you send something to a circle of friends, the opposite sex will care very much, will you be happy? Therefore, if you want to make a girl happy, you must find the key points from her circle of friends. You are right about the boy in the picture. You should not only look at a girl's circle of friends, but also let her know that you are watching. The boy is very clever and asks: Do you want to get married? Did you deepen your's chat at once? Second, storytelling has not found any valuable clues in the circle of girls' friends, so try telling her stories. The story has a strong sense of substitution, so if you want to make a girl happy, try telling her a story. But if you tell a story that puzzles girls, that won't do either. But look at the boy in this example. He asked the girl: Were you a very obedient little goddess when you were a child? The girl's answer is not important, what matters is that he brought the girl into the story. In the middle part, he will also tease girls: Guess what my dad's reaction is? This will not only avoid the situation that there is no one to talk to between you and the girls, but also bring your closer. It's really wonderful! Third, reasonable teasing In order to avoid chatting too boring, reasonable teasing is the crowning touch. Many people are afraid to joke with girls when they meet them at first. As a result, girls can only pretend to be like this even if they want to be closer to you. Just make a normal joke when chatting. After all, in a relaxed atmosphere, everyone can open their hearts and have a good talk. Most boys who meet girls with insomnia will say, go to bed early, drink more hot water and so on. This is completely wrong. You see, the boy in Example 3 doesn't do this. He first asked the girl why she was worried. We don't have to be too formal when chatting with girls. You treat girls like tigers in your heart, which makes you feel terrible. How can you not be afraid when you meet people? Girls are not that scary. The more nervous you are, the more girls will think that you have some bad ideas in your heart. Chatting is just spelling out your own opinions. Go and have a look, but any boy who can charm girls by talking must have his own unique views. So, you must invest in yourself. Make yourself better, and the people you meet will become better. You can increase your knowledge by reading books, watching movies, learning foreign languages, communicating with people and traveling ... From now on, try to talk to the girl you like. It's not that hard. Take the first step bravely. How to find a topic to chat with girls 2 1 When you find the right topic to chat with a woman, it is really easy to talk to death if you are not careful. You know, every woman comes into contact with you by feeling. You bored her by chatting with her, so she stopped talking to you. If you want to have intimate communication with her, the best way is to get to know her. When you know her preferences and see her strengths, it's easy to find the right topic. Just like a woman who likes to exercise, it is easier to get close to her if you talk more about body fat rate and healthy diet. If women like luxury goods, then you should also know more about major brands, which will make the other party feel that you have a certain depth. Of course, it is best to give her a small gift once in a while, so much the better. If these hobbies are the same as yours, then you don't need to spend so much effort, and you can naturally find the same topic to communicate with each other. When you really can't find such a topic, the simple way is to praise her more. No woman will refuse to praise, as long as you say that she is beautiful, that she has a good temperament and charming clothes, she can be very happy. 2. Talk about some topics that can arouse curiosity. It is said that curiosity kills the cat, everyone has a strong curiosity, and so do women. If you can find a topic that interests a woman and arouse her curiosity, then you will have a chance to chat with Rhythm. Some men can do a little magic, which makes women very interested. And you can take this opportunity to hold each other's hands and hug each other's shoulders. This intimate behavior, which women can accept, comes from curiosity about magic. If you don't have these skills, find a topic that can arouse the curiosity of the other person. For example, telling a little story with a little mystery, a little story can quickly catch each other's attention. Just like those rustic love words, in fact, the first half is to arouse curiosity and the second half is to show love. Of course, a woman can't just tell rustic love stories. However, there are many similar stories. As long as there is a reversal story in the plot, it can be the material for your communication. 3. Find some topics that women like. Many hobbies of women are similar. Just as women like beauty, manicure, stars and gossip, these related topics can make women chat with you. If you know that she is looking for a place to do micro-plastic surgery recently, talk to her about which store is cost-effective, which face looks more beautiful, and so on. This will make women feel that you care about her. Even if your suggestion is useless, you can use it to express your ideas. As long as you successfully chat with women in this way, other problems will be easy to handle. Of course, it doesn't matter what the topic starts with. The key point is how to express more ideas and suggestions on this basis, and really put forward valuable ideas to make women really interested in you. If you really can only talk to one woman, even if you can talk to her successfully, it is of little value and you can't get the result you want. 4. Find some jokes, funny videos, etc. In daily chat, the lighter the topic, the better. On this basis, men should understand that finding those jokes or funny videos is interesting content, which is more likely to arouse women's interest. However, some women will feel a little bored, and she may ignore you. This woman doesn't mind talking to you as long as she has a little affection for you. After all, women are all equally emotional. As long as you can make her feel happy, she will generally not refuse you. Smart men should find more places with these materials and accumulate more on weekdays. It's easier to start when you are chatting with another person. At the same time, men need a certain sense of humor to make women more willing to chat with you. Of course, a sense of humor needs a certain talent, but it can also be cultivated. The most taboo of chatting is to say everything once, which will be boring. Next time you have to find more topics to start with, it will be very nerve-racking, and the other person has no desire to communicate again. Smart you should know how to stop the topic in time, keep some interesting content, and continue to communicate next time. In this way, you can keep talking, and in the process, you can keep drawing closer to each other. As long as a woman really likes chatting with you, then you have a chance to get closer and closer to her. If not, you spend too much time just wasting time. How to find a topic to chat with girls 3 How to chat with girls 1, find common interests with * * * *, and it is very important to sing when chatting with * * * *, that is to say, when two people are talking about something, one thinks it is right and the other thinks it is wrong, so there is no need to chat, because if we continue chatting, there will be a quarrel. Since our ideas are different, boys and girls must pay attention to this when chatting, and find common interests first, which includes three views and ideas at the same time. Only by figuring this out can we have a good chat. 2, control the rhythm, drive her emotions Boys should know how to drive girls' emotions throughout the chat process, and also be people who master the rhythm. If you want to fuck, you don't want to talk about the effect that girls want to chase you. How to realize this feeling, it is necessary to let girls' emotions integrate into the whole chat process. Boys talk about girls when they chat, and then disappear every once in a while. Don't reply to girls every second. Slowly, when girls start to rely on chatting with you, boys can deliberately ignore her, which will completely curb girls' emotions. 3. Use more invitations to meet and interact with her. When chatting with boys, you must establish yourself as a man of your word. Don't just talk empty words when chatting. You should know to send invitations and ask to meet and interact with girls. This shows that boys are more sincere, not talking about chasing girls, but also showing practical actions. Whether it's inviting you to dinner or shopping, at least boys have this attitude and practical actions, instead of just mentioning it. Talk to girls about how to find a topic 4 1. The advantages of talking about boyfriends can be summarized in five words: I will choose a girlfriend. If you are not afraid of trouble, please stay with me. I lost sleep last night, which means thinking about you all night. I looked in the mirror this morning, and then I thought of looking for you. I want to give it to you every time I see something good. I think you must be very busy, just look at the first three words. 6. Do you like cats or dogs? 6. What are you most afraid of living in this world? "I am most afraid of being alone." 2. "I want to be Britain in the 17th century." "Colonize your heart." 3. "The world is a giant doll machine, and I stand at the window." "I just want you." 4. "Do you know why you like kissing your left chest?" "Because that's the place closest to your heart." If you are uglier, I will take you to a coffee shop and sit down for a cup of coffee. I will take you to Sichuan, a famous tourist city in Shandong, and take you to eat the best western food. At night, I will walk down the street and start watching the stars and talking about life. But you are so beautiful, I just want to sleep with you. How to chat with the girl you like First of all, when chatting with the girl you like, you must talk about the topic she is interested in, which will trigger a buzz between you, so that the girl will keep chatting with you and think you are not bad. Second, when chatting with the girl you like, you should pay more attention to her in the content of the chat, let her know that you have been caring about her, and let that girl see that you are a very careful and considerate person. Third, when chatting with a girl you like, you can ask her what she likes to do and what her hobbies are. If she likes something and you think you can do it, then you can learn from her in this respect, and sometimes you can give some learning skills. Generally, girls will have a good impression on boys with the same interests. Fourth, chat with the girl you like. If you find that she really doesn't like you, she just wants to keep friends with you, then please cherish this precious friendship and don't lose it because you can't get love. Then you are the one who is most hurt.