Although there are a few unhappy cases, most marriages with high bride price are very happy.
First, the marriage with sky-high bride price has guaranteed economic strength. Bridal gifts have existed since ancient times. It is the bride price given by the man to the woman. Rich families naturally pay more, and families without money pay less. There are no rules, and it costs tens of thousands of gold.
The young couple just got a little weaker in jiehunjingji. With the help of rich bride price and dowry, they can relax a lot.
Xiaoxiao married her husband, with a bride price of 6000 yuan and a dowry of 6000 yuan, *** 12000, and her hometown has a house. After marriage, Xiaoxiao and her husband began a difficult struggle. They earn money to buy a house and a car, and they are immersed in making money all day. Every day is stressful. Because they are busy making money and saving money all day, their families rarely meet each other, and they are scolded by the neighbors in the village for being unfilial and only looking at money.
When Lili got married, the bride price of her husband's family was188,000. There was a house in the city, a car in the village, and a car with her at home plus 66,000. The young couple were so happy after marriage that they went home to visit their parents on time and were praised as filial daughters-in-law.
As long as the parties love each other, no matter how expensive the marriage is, there is nothing unhappy.
Second, the sky-high bride price is not a sale. Don't distort the value of a case. The bride price is the recognition of the woman by her husband's family and the sincere performance of the woman. Don't mix business.
In modern times, although her husband's family gave a sky-high bride price, the woman basically brought it back after marriage, and her family also accompanied her daughter's dowry. It is not so much a bride price as a reserve fund for young couples to start a new life.
People who say that bride price is a sale or transaction have unbalanced inner values. If your mother-in-law gave you 300,000 yuan or 60 yuan, would you refuse? Will your family refuse?
Many things didn't happen to you. Don't be sour until you can eat grapes.
Finally: Why not fight for the bride price? Recognize the reality, better than anything, and compare with others.
Bride price and dowry are two parents' wishes for a new life. Don't put the world of the rich on ordinary people, because the world of the rich is beyond our ordinary people's imagination.