When you go to the parent-teacher conference, do you find that more and more primary school students wear nearsighted glasses? My colleague Mix's son is only four and a half years old. He always squints when watching TV and goes to the hospital for examination. He is nearsighted. Xiao Xiao really regretted seeing his son sitting in front of the TV for a long time.
Watching TV has become a necessary leisure and entertainment project for every household. Nowadays, children's programs on TV can be said to be dazzling, and all kinds of cartoons can be said to be children's favorite. Many parents are busy with work and housework, leaving their children in TV dramas to take care of them. They feel very safe and at ease.
What many parents ignore is that watching TV, like watching mobile phones, is harmful to children's physical health and intellectual development, and children are easily addicted to watching TV.
Therefore, children who want to watch TV need the correct guidance of their parents. Mothers adopt different practices, which have different effects on their children.
First, what's wrong with a laissez-faire mother watching TV for a while as long as her children are obedient?
Many mothers go to work all day and do housework when they get home. It's very hard, so when children want to watch TV, their first reaction is to let them watch it as long as they are obedient, and some say to them, "Just for a while."
Although some mothers set a time for their children to watch TV, they later went to do their own thing without supervising their children to turn off the TV. The more I watched it, the more addicted I became, and I couldn't stop at last.
There are too many dangers for children to watch TV for a long time;
1, the most obvious harm is that many children are nearsighted because they watch TV.
Because children's eyes are not fully developed, if they watch TV for a long time, it is easy to cause visual fatigue, and most home TVs are relatively large and close to the sofa, so it is more harmful to children's eyes.
Watching TV will bind children's imagination and hinder their intellectual development.
The process of children watching TV is a simple process of receiving signals. Children only need to see with their eyes and listen with their ears, and they don't need brain thinking and language expression at all. Over time, children will lack independent thinking, which is irreversible for children.
The boy next door is in the first grade of primary school. Every day after school, he was kept by the teacher and told his parents to go to school. Because of his bad temper, he always has conflicts with other students at school. Today he scratches the girl's braid, and tomorrow his classmates' faces will be scratched. The mother of the child really hurts her brain. Later, his parents took their children to see a psychologist, and the doctor advised them to watch less TV.
Because children always like to watch some cartoons about fighting, these virtual violence factors make children always imitate them inadvertently in real life.
Watching TV for a long time may also lead to children's withdrawn personality and alienate their parents' parent-child relationship.
Everyone knows the dangers of watching TV, so when children want to watch TV, smart mothers will learn from the following two kinds of mothers, which can not only satisfy their curiosity, but also better protect their children.
Second, some mothers let their children watch TV properly, and at the same time help them establish a sense of time.
Watching TV properly can relax children's body and mind, but in the choice of TV programs, mothers must not be careless, and don't think that only cartoons are suitable for children. For example, those cartoons with dangerous scenes or violent behaviors should be watched less, and parents can guide their children to watch some cartoons praising truth, goodness and beauty or some popular science programs.
When watching TV, be sure to control it clearly. Some children say, "Mom, I want to watch TV". Mom said, just watch for a little while. In fact, children don't know how long "a little while" is, so they can't stop at all.
When some smart mothers meet their children's requirements to watch TV, their first reaction is that they can watch it, but the children must observe the time, and the mother will supervise them, such as providing them with "movie tickets". A "movie ticket" can only watch one episode of cartoons. After a long time, children will learn self-discipline and have a better concept of time.
Third, "Mom, I want to watch TV" and "Baby, you have run out of movie tickets today. Why don't you go out with your mother? " .
? Perhaps, there are many times when children ask to watch TV or continue to watch TV, and when their mothers don't agree, there will be uncontrollable scenes of "chickens flying and dogs jumping". At this time, mothers need wisdom to successfully divert their children's attention. For example, many children are also interested in going out to play. Mother suggested taking children out to play, which can not only exercise, but also help children find more hobbies. If children have more hobbies, they won't be bored. After a long time, their addiction to watching TV will not be so heavy.
Children's words and deeds need careful guidance from parents, and example is more important than words and deeds, so parents should always set an example if they want their children to have a bright future.
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