Whenever children express dissatisfaction with their parents, they always prevaricate with "parents don't love children", but is this really the case?
As long as it is not an only-child family, parents are more or less biased. It's just that some parents prefer sons, and some parents prefer the youngest child. No matter which one you like better, it is bound to hurt neglected children.
Especially with the full liberalization of the "second child policy", whether parents can achieve "a bowl of water is flat" and treat every child equally is a problem worthy of attention.
Parents are partial, and it is the children who suffer in the end. After being left out in the cold, some children will be jealous of their favorite brothers and sisters. In the long run, brotherhood will cease to exist, leading to tragedy.
Such a serious case happened in Foshan, Guangdong. A 2 1 year-old girl buried her 5-year-old sister and 4-year-old brother alive and killed them. How did this tragedy caused by parents' partiality happen?
Liu Yuehua, a native of Dacha Village, Xi 'an Town, Nanhai County, Foshan City, Guangdong Province, married his wife Yu Jinlian in 1978. 1979, the eldest daughter Liu Wanling was born. Due to strict family planning, Liu Yuehua and his wife have never had any more children.
At that time, Liu Wanling, as the only child in the family, was naturally loved by her parents. But all this changed in 1995. In some rural areas, the idea of son preference is very heavy, and Liu Yuehua and his wife are no exception. Seeing that the family planning exam has been relaxed, having a son has become the knowledge of the couple.
1995, Yu Jinlian got pregnant successfully, but the baby was a daughter. 1996, Yu Jinlian became pregnant again and gave birth to a big fat boy. The couple finally got what they wanted.
However, in order to give birth to a son, Liu Yuehua was fined 10,000 yuan for "super life", which made the already poor family bear heavy debts. Coupled with the sudden addition of two mouths at home, the expenses will naturally increase.
In order to earn money, Liu Yuehua went to Foshan to work, while Yu Jinlian worked as a waiter in a restaurant in the town. Every day she is busy until about twelve o'clock at night, day and night upside down.
Therefore, the task of taking care of younger brothers and sisters naturally falls on Liu Wanling. In the past, Liu Wanling was loved by her parents alone. She was left out in the cold after her brother and sister were born. Parents' minds are focused on their children, especially their sons. Such a big gap caused great dissatisfaction in Liu Wanling.
At that time, Liu Wanling was still a minor, and she took care of her younger brother and sister absently. As time went on, she became more and more impatient with her younger brothers and sisters, and often yelled at them and even beat and scolded them. Liu Yuehua works outside, and Yu Jinlian always comes back in the middle of the night, so Liu Wanling is unscrupulous about it.
1999, Liu Wanling was 20 years old and a big girl in the countryside, so someone introduced her to an object. The boy's name is Jiang Guiyang and his hometown is Jiangsu. His parents died when he was a child, and he worked as a security guard in a nearby villa.
Jiang Guiyang is about the same age as Liu Wanling. They are tall and have a decent appearance. Liu Wanling fell in love with the big boy the first time he met him, and they soon fell in love.
Girls' first love is sweet and even crazier. Liu Wanling has been shut up at home for a long time to take care of her brothers and sisters, and she has felt lonely. Now that she has a boyfriend, she naturally puts all her tenderness on Jiang Guiyang.
At that time, rural girls were very conservative, but Liu Wanling was fascinated by it. Less than four months after falling in love, she took Jiang Guiyang to the boudoir and stole the forbidden fruit. Since then, Jiang Guiyang often went to see Liu Wanling while Yu Jinlian was away.
After months of sneaking around, I was finally hit by Yu Jinlian. When Yu Jinlian saw Jiang Guiyang coming out of her daughter's room, she suddenly understood everything. In order to save her daughter's reputation, Yu Jinlian kept silent, but discussed marriage with Jiang Guiyang.
Jiang Guiyang's parents died when he was a child, and he always wanted to settle in Guangdong and marry a local. He has a wife and can settle down. It's a good thing to kill two birds with one stone. Of course he wants to get married.
However, Yu Jinlian made a condition, which embarrassed Jiang Guiyang. Yu Jinlian asked Jiang Guiyang to buy a house in Foshan. At that time, the house price in Foshan was about 2,000 yuan, and it was100,000 yuan to buy a small house.
Jiang Guiyang has worked for several years and has no savings at all. The house problem has become a stumbling block to marriage. Liu Wanling gave everything to Jiang Guiyang. She wanted to marry him so badly that she quarreled with her mother Yu Jinlian several times.
However, Yu Jinlian insisted on the conditions. After all, she is also good for her daughter. She can't always rent a house after marriage. Liu Wanling was indignant at her mother's insistence.
In Liu Wanling's view, if there are no brothers and sisters, she and Jiang Guiyang can live at home after marriage, and there is no need to buy a house at all. However, parents are partial to their younger brothers and sisters, and their property will be theirs in the future, and they will get nothing. Instead, they will be thrown out when they get married.
Therefore, Liu Wanling hates his parents, brothers and sisters. She and Jiang Guiyang often sigh about the house. Jiang Guiyang also knows Liu Wanling's mind. When he was a child, his parents died and he was indifferent. Jiang Guiyang believes that since these two "small things" get in the way and are simply "solved", the problem will be solved.
When Jiang Guiyang told Liu Wanling about this idea, Liu Wanling began to strongly oppose it. After all, it's mom's brother, and he can be so cruel. But Jiang Guiyang's weight in Liu Wanling's heart has surpassed everything.
Jiang Guiyang seized Liu Wanling's ambivalence, analyzed her "pros and cons" from time to time, and threatened to break up from time to time. Finally, Liu Wanling was persuaded, and the two planned to "solve" their brothers and sisters.
At first, Jiang Guiyang wanted to kidnap his younger brother and sister, but the children were four or five years old and it was difficult to find a buyer. Since it couldn't be sold, Jiang Guiyang came up with a deadly trap. He consulted with Liu Wanling and simply killed his younger brother and sister, completely monopolizing the property.
At that time, Liu Wanling was completely possessed. No matter what Jiang Guiyang said, she did it, regardless of brotherhood.
On the afternoon of June/KOOC-0/65438+/KOOC-0/October/KOOC-0/0, 2000, Yu Jinlian had gone to work in the hotel. Liu Wanling and Jiang Guiyang avoided the eyes and ears of the village and took their brothers and sisters to a nearby mountain. Liu Wanling is playing with his brothers and sisters, while Jiang Guiyang is waving a hoe to dig a hole.
After digging the pit, Liu Wanling coaxed his sister-in-law to the pit, and then they took out a rope and put it around the necks of their two young children. Jiang Guiyang takes care of his sister and Liu Wanling takes care of his younger brother. Within a few minutes, my sister passed out.
However, Liu Wanling was weak, and his younger brother struggled while crying. Jiang Guiyang threw his sister into the pit, then picked up a hoe and hit his brother three or four times on the head. Suddenly, my brother lost consciousness due to massive head bleeding.
Then Jiang Guiyang threw his younger brother on his younger sister, while the two children were still breathing. However, Jiang Guiyang and Liu Wanling are completely crazy. They are desperate to fill the pit and eventually bury the two children alive and kill them.
Afterwards, in order to hide people's eyes and ears, Liu Wanling specially laid some grass in the pit and transplanted a pomegranate tree. After the murder, Liu Wanling did not repent, and she began to look forward to a happy married life.
Liu Wanling and Jiang Guiyang were punished.
That night, Yu Jinlian returned home and found his son and second daughter missing, but Liu Wanling knew nothing about it. Yu Jinlian asked the villagers to help search the village, but found nothing. In desperation, Yu Jinlian reported the police overnight and called her husband back.
After searching, the investigators did not find any clues. Jiang Guiyang came to Liu Wanling's house on the third day of the crime. He took out some money to comfort Liu Yuehua and his wife. Later, Jiang Guiyang accused the police of handling the case unfavorably and said that he would write a report.
Liu Wanling was indifferent to the disappearance of her sister-in-law, but her boyfriend was very enthusiastic. It was really against nature to ask about the progress again and again. Experienced investigators, feeling that something was wrong, decided to focus on the two.
After the incident 10, the case handlers mobilized the villagers to help and expand the search scope. When they came to the mountain, the investigators were keenly aware that a pomegranate tree was half dead. After going forward to check, I found traces of looseness in the soil layer, and finally dug up the bodies of two children.
At the same time, Liu Wanling was arrested as the main suspect. After some interrogation, she admitted that she had beaten her brother and sister alive. This hateful and poor girl, even in that case, still wants to protect Jiang Guiyang and bear the murder alone.
However, she is just 2 1 year old, and that clumsy lie can't fool the case handlers at all. Then Jiang Guiyang was arrested, and finally Liu Wanling and Jiang Guiyang were sentenced to death.
Liu Wanling has always been dissatisfied with his sister-in-law because of his parents' partiality. Once Jiang Guiyang was "cheated", his dissatisfaction turned into hatred and he killed his sister-in-law without hesitation.
Jiang Guiyang is hateful, but if Liu Yuehua and his wife treat their children equally, let them establish a loving relationship. In this way, even if Jiang Guiyang gets in the way again, it's hard for Liu Wanling to make up his mind.
What parents give their children, what children will get in the future. If you want your children to love each other, give them equal love, and don't let the innocent and neglected hearts resent.
There are still many cases in which parents are partial and brothers and sisters are cannibalizing each other, which deserves parents' memory and reflection to avoid such tragedies from happening again.