Married women like to dress up. Dressing up is actually very common in our present life, but everyone's makeup artist is quite different, which does not affect everyone's love for dressing up. The following married women love to dress up.
Married women's psychology of dressing up 1 First, it is women's nature to love beauty.
Women dress themselves up beautifully, which is actually a subconscious way to attract sex. By dressing up, more men can pursue it, so as to choose the best among the best and ensure the continuation of future generations.
But this kind of subconscious, they don't know, they just follow this rule completely to make themselves more attractive to men. If you ask a woman why she dresses up, she will definitely say that in order to look better, they won't tell you, in order to make more men infatuated with themselves and pursue themselves, because the subconscious mind can't replace the existence of another self.
Similarly, women's body structure, such as slender legs, enchanting waist and plump breasts, will increase the attraction to men and make men's primitive impulses involuntarily aroused. This attraction stems from women's deep-rooted desire to reproduce.
Second, I especially want to attract others' attention.
Women dress themselves up to attract the opposite sex, so why are some people "dressed up" when they are already "taken"? Because they especially want to attract the attention of others, this "other" may be their own partner or someone else.
One is that women want to lock in their spouses so that they will not suffer setbacks in the growth of future generations because they love the new and hate the old.
The other is that the relationship between the woman and her spouse is unstable. Once her spouse leaves her, she can still attract the charm of other men so that future generations can survive.
Third, the heart is extremely unconfident.
Some women are not confident about their personal charm, and always feel that they can't do it here, and there is no beauty. Driven by this insecurity, they will try their best to find something to rebuild their self-confidence, and they will always pin too much hope on beauty makeup, even plastic surgery.
Fourth, follow the trend.
Some women don't wear makeup before, but when their friends around them are beautifully dressed, or when people around them (such as neighbors, husband's colleagues, their colleagues, etc.) are beautifully dressed, they will feel envious on the one hand and a little jealous on the other. Out of the instinct of competition, many people also began to dress up with the wind. Zhang San bought a flowered skirt yesterday, which is very elegant, so I want to buy a green skirt today, too. Li Si made a double eyelid surgery last week, so I'm going to make a white one this week. ...
Five, empty mind, pass the time.
Some women have plenty of time, dressing up can kill time and make themselves more beautiful, killing two birds with one stone. In a talk show, the host asked a housewife, "Your husband and children are not at home. What do you like to do every day? " "Change the way to get delicious food and wait for them to go home and eat together. And I like to learn makeup. Think about it alone when you are free, so that you can play time and make yourself more beautiful, killing two birds with one stone. "
Women love to dress up after marriage, why don't men like it?
As we all know, most men like beautiful girls. But after marriage, they don't want their wives to dress up too beautifully or too sexy.
First, the psychology of ugly wife
Generally speaking, young and beautiful girls are more attractive to men, which can be said to be an evolutionary inheritance. In addition, only when you catch up with beautiful women will you have face, and vanity has also played a lot of roles. So they will spend a lot of time chasing beautiful girls, praising them for their beauty, and even buying clothes generously to please them. At this time, from the connoisseur's point of view, men feel that women are just like a delicate work of art, pleasing to the eye, with unparalleled attraction and charm.
But once a man marries a beautiful girl and goes home, his vanity will be satisfied, and his sense of security will rise to the dominant position. Being plain is a blessing. Some people say that there are three treasures at home, and "an ugly wife with a thin field and a broken cotton-padded jacket". If you don't dress up or embellish, it means you feel insecure. "A glass of wine can relieve worries, and ugly women can grow old." These proverbs also illustrate the same truth.
Second, married men are more realistic and want their partners to be more practical.
After marriage, a man's psychology of dressing up his wife will change imperceptibly. Just as all the advantages before marriage become disadvantages, it is not behavior but psychology that changes. But men are often afraid to admit their worries and vulnerability. When they feel unsafe, they seldom communicate honestly with their wives to gain inner peace. On the contrary, they will treat their wives with neglect, dissatisfaction and even blame, hoping that she will no longer attract attention.
In addition, married men generally turn from romance to reality and pay more attention to family expenses, which has also become a reason for them to prevent their wives from spending a lot of money on dressing up. Moreover, in the eyes of men, a married wife who can't settle down to educate her husband and children doesn't meet the standards of being a good wife and a good mother after all.
Married women like to dress up. Married women love dressing up more than young girls. The pursuit of beauty is only the appearance, and the deep reason is moving.
Beauty is in the bones, and dressing up is not a patent for young girls.
I bought a steamed stuffed bun at work one morning, which was recommended by the girl at the front desk. As soon as I got out of the elevator, I saw her coming out of the bathroom with a big brand of lipstick in her hand. When she saw the steamed stuffed bun in my hand, her eyes lit up and I asked her if she wanted to eat it. After all, she recommended it. As a result, she waved lipstick and said, "Oh, you are so annoying! I bought my favorite steamed stuffed bun, but I couldn't eat it. I just finished applying lipstick. "
It seems that in front of food and beauty, food is really candidly admit defeat. She is beautiful and single, so she dresses herself up well every day. Let's just say that I can see at least three sets of different styles of clothes every Friday, sometimes one set a day. There is a woman who is nearly 40 years old sitting next to me. I always thought that beauty belonged to young girls, but she subverted my imagination.
It is said that a mother whose son goes to primary school is mostly daily necessities, but I saw her coming back from lunch, sitting there and starting to put on makeup, opening the jewelry box and applying lipstick, and often discussing with young girls online which clothes look good and whether to lose weight. At this point, I can understand what my friend's wife is wearing.
The pursuit of beauty is a woman's life. No matter how old you are, the pursuit of beauty is endless. Otherwise, how can there be so many cosmetics in short supply? Even if it is only a hydrating function, women will not hesitate to buy it as long as it is easy to use. However, women's pursuit of beauty is only superficial, but its deep meaning is touching.
In order to make progress in my career, I have to bear the pressure of family life.
Just because a woman gets married doesn't mean she doesn't have to work anymore. Even so, she needs to be a full-time wife at home. After all, few people marry into the rich, so most of them still have to work, not only to share the family burden, but also to realize their own life value, and also to affirm women by society.
As we all know, the actor Yan Ni became popular because he played Tong Xiangyu in The Legend of Wulin. However, before she filmed this TV series, she divorced her husband. She said it was a doomed marriage, so she divorced and she lived with her daughter. After the fire, Yan Ni worked harder because she had to bear the pressure of the whole family.
In my impression, she said that she was on fire when she was only 32 years old, and there was no hope, but she was on fire, and what was even more on fire was her figure. In 20 18, her image in front of the public suddenly took on a new look, from a middle-aged woman to a sister in the same box as her daughter, and she looked as good as a young actress. Behind this is her efforts and her respect for the profession of actors and the audience. She made herself more beautiful in order to have better roles to break through, not just for those female roles before.
Yan Ni did not enjoy the state after the fire, but let the audience see a more beautiful self. This is not only a personal breakthrough, but also an inspirational performance of all women. I can still be so beautiful. As an actress, she lives by her face value and acting skills. Yan Ni first proved herself with strength, and then made her career more successful with beauty, which is also a testimony of her efforts.
For the sake of family harmony, create a happy home for children.
Family and marriage are not maintained by one person, but run by two people. Men can't bear all the pressure alone, but women should take responsibility to grasp the direction of marriage and have a happy family.
20 17 There is a hit drama "My First Half Life", and the marriage and family life of Luo Zijun and Chen makes people cry. In the TV series, Luo Zijun plays an authentic Shanghai woman. However, after ten years of marriage, she is not happy. Because of the role of a housewife, she gave up her job and didn't care about her daily clothes. Facing her husband's successful career, she began to think, and finally her dream came true and her marriage failed.
But her opponent is a woman whose beauty and family background are not as good as hers, and she also carries a drag bottle. Why did she lose? It's actually quite simple. Luo Zijun lives a life without touching water with his fingers. Said to Chen Lai, such a woman makes him feel a sense of novelty and crisis. After living together for a long time, he is left old and disgusted.
When she divorced Chen, why did another man take a fancy to her and give up the excellent one? Because in the face of life, Luo Zijun has to support her family alone. Her talent and spirit of struggle moved her congratulatory letter. At the same time, we also see that Luo Zijun abandoned the pampered lifestyle and began to dress himself up and make himself full of charm. The end of the TV series indicates that Luo Zijun will have a good development, and the congratulatory letter is also in her city. It's only a matter of time before we meet.
Luo Zijun interpreted the sad side of women, but sounded the alarm for many women, especially married women. When facing life, don't think that life is doomed when you get married and have children. In fact, this kind of relaxation is only the beginning to ruin your happiness, so you need to dress up not only your appearance, but also your ability. If she worked harder and dressed herself earlier, her family life with Chen would be happier, and the children would not have the psychological shadow brought by their parents' divorce. So many women dress themselves up with Luo Zijun as a mirror.
For a wonderful life, marriage is not a stop, and the rest of my life is still long.
In addition to the two women mentioned above, there is another woman among my colleagues. They pay attention to practical results and are unrealistic. They dress for practicality, and don't care whether they look good or not. Everything is family-oriented. This is actually a wrong idea. Getting married and having children is not the whole of life. The rest of their lives are still very long, and the excitement has just begun.
In the American drama The Great Mrs. Mather, Mrs. Mather is a very delicate woman. During her marriage, she kept her figure unchanged for ten years. She measures her figure every day to keep fit, even when giving birth. In order to let her husband know her beauty, she always waits for her husband to sleep before taking off her makeup. When he didn't get up, she began to make up. Although she met love rat, she did not stop, but re-entered the society.
The biggest difference between her and Luo Zijun lies in two points: first, she has done her homework in dressing up and always looks good; Second, she was not defeated by the failure of marriage, nor did she compete with Xiao San like Luo Zijun. Instead, she immediately joined the society, began to make friends and began to work. During the day, she works as a cosmetics salesman in a shopping mall and as a talk show actress in a bar at night. She is fighting for economic independence for herself. Although she has not been recognized by her parents, she is still realizing her value and working hard for her life. Finally, her life was brilliant.
Although Mrs. Mercer has experienced a failed marriage, her thoughts are moving forward, not staying in the sad past. The life of struggle is really beautiful. The change of thought is the beginning of a woman's diligence, which doomed her to have a wonderful life.
Yan Ni's success lies in her persistence in her career. What makes her more beautiful is her professionalism and a model of self-discipline in life. Luo Zijun's decadence lies in thinking that marriage is everything and neglecting his own promotion. Even if he wants to have a happy family, it is impossible. Mrs. Mercer's free and easy benefits from the change of thought. Only by living exquisitely can life be wonderful, and everything else is sidelined.
Love dressing up is not a mere formality. The pursuit of fashion beauty is superficial and will eventually become a slave to beauty. It is really beautiful to define one's life style and life track ideologically, shape one's image from actions and show the charm of women. Women should get extra points for dressing up, not trying to dress up for extra points. It is better to be appreciated by others than by yourself.
Women should learn antiques. Antiques are beautiful and valuable, not vases.
Married women's psychology of dressing up 3. First, married women suddenly love to dress up.
1, just like others.
As the saying goes, "women like their faces", once they have the right person, they will pay great attention to their dressing. So I met a tomboy who used to wear a neutral coat and trousers and went out in plain clothes every day. We say every day that her dress is useless. Then, one day, I suddenly noticed her dress. After our repeated questioning, we finally confessed that we have someone we like. Now, she has a boyfriend, goes out in makeup every day and wears a skirt that she has never worn before. The whole person has changed. It seems that love is really a good medicine to change people.
2. Become mature.
In fact, many women like to dress up at first, which is mainly influenced by the surrounding environment. Nowadays, many women will be laughed at if they don't wear makeup, and even teenage girls have begun to dress up. Therefore, in order to integrate into the surrounding environment, many women began to learn to dress up.
3. Job requirements.
As we all know, many professions now attach great importance to dress. A job like an airline attendant requires you to wear a uniform to work and make up. Imagine, imagine, seeing an exquisite stewardess or a poorly dressed stewardess on the plane. I think most people will choose the first one. Everyone says that going out to make up is a kind of respect for others. A good image will not only give you extra points, but also bring appropriate help to your work.
4. You can make yourself confident.
A lady and a married woman suddenly love to dress up! In fact, exquisite makeup can make you more confident. I exude a temperament of "I am the best and I am the most beautiful". Many beautiful women we see in street shooting are like this, confident and beautiful.