We fought all the way, not to change time, but to stop the world from changing us.
If a person still has some self-esteem, then he should start by getting rid of his hot temper. If the lotus is soft, if the lotus has passed. -Master Yancan
Living in the present, we seem to be born dissatisfied with everything. I've always wanted to improve my condition. When one wish comes true, the next one naturally emerges. -"Love at sunset and dusk"
What is true freedom? Maybe you can only get it if you have more courage, more giving up, more actions, more attempts and more energy.
Loving someone will help him deceive himself. Even though I knew it was a lie, I tried to convince myself to believe it. It's not that my IQ is getting lower, but that I'm too afraid of losing. -I know it's wrong, but I still can't bear to let it go. -This is the most affectionate and heartless place of love. -Su Qin
If a person lives according to his own heart, he will either become a madman or a legend. Ka Kui Wong; Koma
Smart men treat women as prey, while stupid men treat women as pets. Smart men say to keep half, smart women turn a blind eye. -"The Man of Dios"
Life is like drifting water, rising and falling, sometimes floating on the surface, sometimes sinking at the bottom. Although it sometimes makes us sink to the bottom of the water, doesn't this mean that we will surface at any time?
God made Adam's rib his lover. Why? Because we should love the person who is most like ourselves. -"The Man in the Love Book"
Fortunately, separated people will meet again in the forest one day. What you miss will eventually be compensated in another way. There was chaos in the world, and Wan Li passed by. The scenery was quiet and the clouds were light. -Bai Mei
I think everyone exists for a reason. Because of you, I believe that everything I encountered did not stop me from moving forward, but made me make up my mind. -"Flying Against the Light"
People living in the world, the first important thing is to be a human being, know how to love and respect themselves, so that they can have an open and full soul, be able to withstand the blow of fate and deserve the gift of fate. If you can do this, you can become the master of your own destiny. -Zhou
I will never see you again in my life, just to see you again. It's not you anymore You will never appear in my heart again, just some vicissitudes, the sun, the moon and the fleeting time. -Xi Murong
Only modest people have the best chance to see the truth of the world. If a person doesn't want to climb higher, he is not afraid of falling and doesn't have to crowd out others. He can keep his innocence, become natural and concentrate on what he can do. Yang Jiang
A bosom friend is like a mirror, reflecting the most beautiful part of our nature. -Zhang Ailing
Good morning: We read the world wrong, but say it deceives us.
1. You believed all the lies I told. Quite simply, I love you, but you don't believe me.
2. There are no ugly souls in love, only silly people.
3. Tagore: We read the world wrong, but say it has deceived us.
4. The person who takes a straight detour is smart, and he has found a shortcut; People who take detours and go straight are open-minded and have seen more scenery.
5. Learn to be yourself and gracefully let go of everything that doesn't belong to you.
6. Memory has three faces, your side, my side and the truest side.
7. The most uncomfortable missing is not that the other person doesn't know your missing, but that he knows but doesn't care. Some people, no matter how good you are to him, will not pay attention, because in his life, you seem so insignificant.
Some people say that life is like a bitter gourd. Even if soaked in water, fed in the temple and put in the mouth, the bitterness will not decrease. This is the essence of life's bitterness. Some people say that life is like a glass of boiled water, honey is sweet and salt is salty. In fact, the bitterness and joy of life come from one's own heart. The heart is bitter, and life is like an endless sea of suffering; The heart is sweet, and life is full of beautiful scenery.
9. Every rose has thorns, just like everyone's personality has parts that you can't tolerate. Caring for each rose is not to eradicate its thorns, but to learn how not to be stabbed by her thorns and how not to let your own thorns hurt others.
10. Nourish your stomach with simple meals, wash your lungs with fresh air, bask in bright sunshine, find a group of friends to get drunk, sleep like a cat, and forget the fatigue of crossing the world.
1 1, life is not about getting, but about letting go. Life is a process of giving up and renewing. Remember those who have been moved and abandon those sour pains. Therefore, a diligent life can be brilliant, and an open-minded life can be happy. Let's go on with our lives and live happily!
12, I used to think that as long as I worked harder than others, I would be better than others one day. But after experiencing many things, I began to find that Excellence is a different standard, which is only related to your positioning and expectations of yourself. So I began to look for answers from my heart and no longer cared about other people's comments.
13, you think the people you know are like that, but after a while you find that the people you know are different. When you accept that person, you suddenly find that the person you once accepted is another person you don't know at all. Finally, you find that you don't know that person at all. In this materialistic age, one should not only shape his appearance.
14, a strong heart is often defeated by a simple comfort. If you really love, neither time nor distance will be an obstacle. Don't envy what others have. It's better to be honest with yourself. Don't always evaluate your position in the eyes of others. To live in the eyes of others is equivalent to losing yourself.
15, cherish the happiness around you, everyone's life can't be perfect, and the more extravagant, the less happy; Always make all kinds of measurements in material things, but rarely make comparisons in happiness. Some people are rich, but they are not happy, just because they have an insatiable heart. Some people live an ordinary life, but smile on their faces, just because they look at gains and losses lightly!
16, when I say "let nature take its course", how much despair and unwillingness is involved, if you understand. The best life: nothing more than talking and laughing during the day and having a good sleep at night. The advantage of being young is that you can do spontaneous things before you see the world clearly. Ridiculous or ridiculous, it is youth without regrets.
17, between people, is a kind of fate; Between heart and heart, it is a kind of communication; Between love and not love, it is an emotion; Between love and affection, there is a sincere heart; Between wrong and wrong, it is a kind of forgiveness. Life is such an association. Everyone has self-esteem, difficulties and their own ideas, practices and ways of living. Different ideas, different practices, different ways of living, no need to change others, just be yourself.
Wechat Morning Talk: If you can't change the world, don't let the world change your innocence.
1. If someone leaves you, you should be grateful that he is still here after all. If something depresses you, you should thank it for letting you try. If a wish never comes true, you should be grateful for it, after all, it has excited you. Thank you we don't have anything like that. It is this nothingness that makes any little gain so gratifying, and one day you will realize the preciousness of this nothingness.
If you can't change the world, don't let the world change your innocence.
Giving up is not a whim, all kinds of disappointments accumulate together and finally erupt in silence. There was no sound or noise, so I gave up quietly.
4. Not because of holding grudges. With the growth of age, people will always become more and more tolerant. The reason why we don't resolve those misunderstandings between us is because we think that even if we resolve the misunderstandings, we are no longer friends. After a long time, some people will become indifferent.
5, the dream of the upper body and the reality of the lower body, not everyone can understand!
6. Planned things may not always happen; Time, as expected, slipped away a little; Only waiting is so far away.
7. There will always be some lonely and difficult moments. At that time, I thought the trough was over, but in fact, we all survived. There are no tricks, no shortcuts, and everyone is slowly getting through it. It is because I have experienced countless such moments that I have learned to be calm and know how to face the difficulties that may follow. There is no specific medicine, only that we can't be afraid, and the future may not be better, but we won't know until we go and have a look.
8. The best way to make a person grow is not to let him do what he is best at, but to do what he is worst at. Not to make him smooth, but to make him carry a heavy load.
In any case, don't base your life on others, or your life will collapse as soon as that person leaves. You must have your own things, and no one can take them away to support your life.
10, some things should never be used to, such as obedience, such as inferiority. Go to hell with people bossing you around and being sarcastic.
1 1, when you are old, you will easily let go of some things, forgive someone, be too lazy to care, despise being angry, and bury a lot of things you want to say in your heart. On the other hand, moderate innocence, impulsiveness, saying stupid things and being stupid are the most powerful proof that you are still young. Never demand your own growth. It is natural to grow up, and sometimes it is more important to forgive yourself than to forgive others.
12, if a person affects your mood, your focus should be on controlling your mood, not the person who affects your mood. Only in this way can we be truly confident.
13, everyone will have extremely difficult times, life is embarrassed, work is frustrated, academic pressure is great, and love is endless. If you survive, your life will be suddenly enlightened; You won't succeed. Time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don't have to be afraid.
14. Let me choose a person to grow old, a city to grow old, in a warm place.
15, the key factor that can make a person mature and wise is not how much suffering he has experienced, but how much he has learned after experiencing everything. Epiphany, it is these two words that determine one's growth.
16, no feelings that don't hurt people's hearts, more or less, big or small, will leave scars on your soul. These scars will be exchanged for emotional joy at the expense of scars and scars. In this world, there is no feeling of not going back. Even if you really go back, you will find that everything has changed beyond recognition. The only thing I can go back is the memory in my heart. Yes, we can't go back, so we have to go straight ahead.
17. If you don't work hard today and tomorrow, then your life is just a repetition.
18, at what stage, people do things at that stage, and don't think too much about what they should say at this stage. Great. Both ideals and dreams need a foundation. Only when you make this stage perfect can you get in touch with the people in the next stage and have a clear, real and tangible future for the next stage.
19, youth is a book that can't be closed when it is opened, and life is a road that can't be turned back when you set foot on it.
20. A smile is an arc, but it can smooth everything.
2 1, I miss you, but I try not to care anymore.
22. Only when things have changed can people know how to miss; It is always when we least understand that what we miss is the most real. The missed years bloom colorful flowers in loneliness, but they are barren in the spring and summer of reincarnation.
23. Unknown thoughts are worth missing.
24. No matter how hard you work, no matter how excellent you are, you must meet someone who knows the goods and make good use of them. Even if you pay and sacrifice again, you will meet people who cherish and appreciate. Sheep know how to kneel, and crows know how to feed back. If you can't see the light ahead, it's better to turn; The other party doesn't know how to cherish fate, if you don't give up. For life, knowing how to accept is the gentleness that can touch the soul most.
25. You will meet someone in your life who will break your principles, change your habits and become your exception.
26. We finally reached the age of our dreams, only to find that some people are engaged, married, going abroad, living smoothly, sticking to their dreams and doing nothing. The blue sky when they graduated has long since disappeared, and the person who asked you to walk into the future together on the playground has long since disappeared. Looking at the sky outside the window, it suddenly darkened, feeling like our youth, and suddenly it was gone.
27. Learn to laugh it off, be detached, forbear and forgive, and let yourself grow in tolerance.
28. The way I have always been good at self-protection is to consciously retreat once I feel the other person's attitude is cold, and I never want this relationship to heat up. Just like pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages, I just want to be close to warm people.
29. The real generosity to the future is to give everything to the present.
30. In times of loneliness and difficulties, everyone felt that the trough was over, but in fact, we all survived. There are no tricks, no shortcuts, and everyone is slowly getting through it. It is precisely because we have experienced countless such moments that we learn to be calm and know how to face the difficulties that may follow. I have no specific medicine. All I know is that I can't be afraid. The future may not be better, but you have to go and have a look to know.
Good morning Xinyu: I don't want to change the world, I just want to live a wonderful life.
In the future, if you want your long hair to grow to your waist, you don't have to worry about being in a bad state. I have a stable job to support myself. I have time to go shopping with some friends. If you have nothing to do, just read at home and bask in the sun. When I am in a bad mood, I will take my best friend to sing and go to the gym twice a week. No worries, no ideological burden. This is the life I want.
"For unreliable people and unreliable promises, it is nothing more than two things. The second trust is not to give them a chance to resurrect, but to give themselves a reason to die completely. You give more opportunities, the other party will not think you are kind, but will think you are gullible. Give up while your life is still alive. "
When a person has negative emotions, all the pressure will be amplified, the unknown will become negative fear, and he will not speak when he is in a good mood or bad mood. Read books, listen to songs, talk to someone, take a deep breath and find your own way to vent. Life is not so good, but it's not so bad. People can't be defeated by their imaginary fears, nor can they be afraid of what you don't know. Only by mastering all the known can we move towards the unknown in the future.
"You seem to have lost weight, your hair has become longer, and your back is strange. It feels like I met you in the last century. Then you call my name, and I want to laugh, as if I had just finished school and only waited for you at the entrance of the building for five minutes. " -an inexplicable tearful sentence.
"When you have no money, give up your diligence and the money will come-this is called Heaven's reward; When you have money, give it away and people will come-this is called gathering people with light wealth; When there are people, give up your love and your career will come-this is called carrying things with kindness; When you succeed in your career, give up your wisdom and joy will come-this is called virtue in the world. If you don't give up, there will be no gain! "
"The most regrettable thing about growing up is not that dreams are getting smaller and smaller, that you are not learning to compromise slowly, nor that you are gradually willing to be ordinary. But to say to yourself in the past: I'm sorry, I didn't become the person you wanted to be. "
"Destiny is predestined in previous lives. It was the persistence of looking back 500 times in exchange for the passing of this life. It is the constant waiting for thousands of years that has led to the silence of this life; Happiness has a shape, you put it in your heart, it is the shape in your heart; If we put it outside, it will be illusory, and the company in this life will make us grow old forever. Happiness is so dull, what matters is not having everything, but having what you want around! "
The first prerequisite for people who are comfortable with each other for a long time is "kindness". An inhuman person, no matter how disguised, can never remember to take care of others' feelings forever. The society is already very complicated, and it is those who are clean at heart who retain the last trace of warmth and dignity. Maybe we have no future and are a little stupid. It doesn't matter. But please remember to be a kind person all the time. -Lu leisure
"There are no two people who are destined to be together, and there is no life that has been smooth sailing. It takes two people to maintain a love. If you know how to give in, she won't delve into it, be tolerant and loyal to each other, fearing that one mind is delicate and the other doesn't like to explain. After a long time, contradictions and misunderstandings accumulated, and finally her feelings and energy were polished. In fact, it is a very happy thing to make a little change for the person you like. " share
"A person's best state of life, there is one thing he likes to do, there are people who love you, and he can raise his own home, his parents are in good health, and there are not many friends but a few best friends. Hello, thank you, sorry, goodbye, I often talk about it. I see excellent people appreciate it, and I don't despise people who are down and out. I have my own small life and no taste, so I often laugh at myself to help people out. I don't want to change the world, I just want to live a wonderful life. "
The person you love is mortal. It was your eyes that plated him with gold. So I always feel that people who love are more blessed than those who are loved. The magical person is you, and it is your yearning that makes the world warm. -Ni Yining
"To deal with hypocritical people, don't scold ta, don't expose ta, but let her continue her pathetic hypocrisy and then pretend that she doesn't know anything. Then slowly, many people will take the initiative to tell you how hypocritical ta is. When dealing with selfish people, don't hate ta, not ignore ta, but gradually get away from ta, from the bottom of your heart, and then pretend you don't know anything. If ta goes to find someone else, then you will find that many people are far away from ta. "
Why do people envy you? Not because you did it well, but because they couldn't. So I have to envy, suppress and slander you, and I'd better stop you and become like them. Jealousy is a virus. The more you care, the weaker you will become. So if someone is jealous of you, please take it as a compliment. I would rather live in my own world than in someone else's mouth.
"If you are not good enough, contacts are worthless. Not pursued, but attracted. Only equivalent exchange can get reasonable help-although it sounds cold, it is true. "
Life is only seventy, except for ten years of ignorance and ten years of infirmity, only fifty is left. ..... The 50, divided into day and night, only 25. ..... In case of wind and rain, illness, danger and running around, how many good days are left? -it is better to laugh in front of you. -Li Bihua's The Temptation of Monks