When I was in the flower season, I looked at the 40-year-old mountain and thought that it must be the fatigue of "Chai Men smells dogs barking, and the night snow returns to people"; Standing at the age of 30, I guess 40-year-old's heart should be "helpless, deja vu". Now, at the age of 40, "suddenly looking back, that person is in the dim light" is a surprise.
At the age of forty, I stopped worrying about the future. It is not that I have achieved financial freedom, but that my mind has become transparent and I am no longer sad about what I can't get. I began to appreciate the happiness brought by the warmth of my family, rather than demanding wealth. I tried to stop my hurried footsteps, take a look at the swaying flowers on the roadside, smell the breath of the four seasons in the wind, and be proud of my still light footsteps. The amount of material no longer affects my nerves. Simple tea and simple rice can be obtained, and simple clothes and plain clothes can also be worn. The future has its own future. As long as I live a down-to-earth and conscientious life, I will be innocent.
At the age of forty, I am no longer sad about spring and autumn. It's not that I became dull, but that I learned to be calm and saw the thickness of life. There are four seasons in life, and each season has its beauty. When you see the flowers falling, you should also think of the sweetness of the fruit. If you can't stand the heat, how can you appreciate the beauty of summer flowers? The sadness of fallen leaves is to lighten the burden of big trees; The bleak winter is a good day for quiet study.
I didn't really understand the meaning of the word "adult" until I was forty years old, that is, pay, bear and bear again! In the unit, do your best to do your job well, worthy! Return to the family, take care of the children's growth education on one hand and the parents' big events and small feelings on the other! No time to worry, no mood to dream, life becomes full and busy, full and satisfying, busy and healthy! When I think of my parents in the past, it is my own time, and I understand the helplessness arranged by my parents, and I am relieved. I no longer hate the past, but look to the future and go into battle lightly!
Forty years old, I finally stopped arguing with my husband about a trivial matter! I finally understand a man's mind, learn to protect a man's face, and realize the true meaning of "rare confusion". From then on, everything was happy. Of course, I am no longer eager to stay up late, sticky, and men are destined to travel outside. I also found my own sustenance, for example, writing.
Forty years old, the most important job in my life has taken shape! Her emotions, her words and deeds worry me! This work is a daughter! After eleven years of nurturing and companionship, a smart girl who likes reading thrives. I'm glad my whole-hearted efforts have paid off! Most importantly, my daughter gave me a chance to grow up again. How many nights, rain or shine, recite poems and words with my daughter, enriching my increasingly dry mind; When the weather is sunny, my daughter and I wander in the park, and our stiff limbs become flexible; There are clouds on cloudy days, and I am immersed in the dream of fairy tales with my daughter and relive my childhood reverie! My daughter honed my patience and stopped complaining about a little disappointment. My daughter softened my heart, and I can't stand the suffering of the weak from now on! ? My daughter makes my life complete and meaningful. From then on, I am no longer afraid of the growth of age, just waiting for another youthful bloom!
When I was young, I was always reserved. I want others to take the initiative in everything. I have always wanted to get the essence of the word "Leng Yan". Now I have to laugh at my heart first, at that childish arrogance. How calm and active I am now, being a trustworthy sister, caring and imparting experience, and having a warm tone in life!
Forty years old, go ahead happily and cheer for yourself!