The habit of drinking iced tea has changed from listening to pop music to listening to classical music, from not eating fat to having a bad metabolism to controlling the calories emitted by each meal. I watched "The First White Hair" and stayed up for a week, which slowed down the decline of alcohol consumption and dared not raise glasses frequently. I used to be angry about things I didn't like, but now I don't care, and I'm becoming more and more self-disciplined. When others were still wearing shorts, I silently added long pants, worrying about unmarried men and women around me ... I wonder if you have your own answer now. Just at the beginning of this month, Xiao S admitted in Weibo that he was getting old, and that he had been "constantly finding fault with himself" before, but now he has figured it out-it is normal to be old and not as beautiful as before, as long as he is young! In fact, Xiao S turned external attacks into self-attacks and turned to medical beauty for help, but the effect was not ideal, so-does she really care about other people's opinions, or can she only keep her mouth shut in the face of reality? In June 5438+February last year, Xiao S posted a blog post to remind everyone: Don't fight a bunch of Botox and hyaluronic acid to become young and finally become a zombie face. Although she was shouting and trying to "love herself and accept the changes in her face", it is not difficult to see her entanglement between the lines. After posting a blog post half a year later, it can be seen that she has been fighting for herself for such a long time, hovering between giving up or saving herself, repeatedly. For stars, the image of youth is capital, which can help them win many opportunities, so there are Zhang Ziyi who only eats four mouthfuls of instant noodles, a small S who struggles with whether her eyebrows are symmetrical, a big S who takes anticoagulant for whitening, Angela Zhang who gives up most sugar, and Tamia Liu who only drinks fruit and vegetable juice before fitness ... Female stars compete one by one, and they pay too much for their impeccable appearance. What keeps female stars from getting old? Recently, Xiao S participated in the variety show "We Are Real Friends" with her sister Da S and her friend Aya, and lost her girlhood baby face and youthful shyness. A 40-year-old woman exudes another charm, mature, steady and indifferent. What Pocky sees is the beauty between sisters, but in the eyes of harsh netizens, this is a PK contest that is not old. Small S collapsed, big S regressed, Aya became fat, and Mavis Fan didn't change at all. As an audience, are we asking too much of female stars? If they want to be young forever and can't be adjusted by obvious micro-shaping, they can only rely on "natural beauty" until the day when their faces naturally collapse ... Normal is definitely unrealistic, but the audience thinks that "they are stars, different from ordinary people, so they should look good"! Qin Lan, 38, also said in Woman 30+ that she was always the second woman before playing the role of Fu Cha Rong Yin-who would want to see a woman in her late forties fall in love with Xiaorou? Last year, Zhou Xun was criticized by netizens for her scene in "The Best Palace Love", saying that her face was too stiff to watch, and she had no girlish feeling at all. Different from the situation of foreign actresses, female No.1 in domestic scripts is always a young and beautiful lady. Through the quick and effective way of medical beauty, female stars over 30 are forced to remain beautiful and become young, not to mention their extremes, because otherwise they will face the dilemma of not receiving the play! If you can't get the play, then take the endorsement. I don't understand. In the face of consumer culture, only young, beautiful and shopping women are queens. In addition to high traffic and small fresh meat to stimulate consumption, female artists show their persuasiveness through appearance-fans don't pay the bill, and brand fathers don't spend a lot of money! Therefore, the sadness of female stars is that they dare not grow old in front of reality, whether they want to stay in the ultimate beauty or not! In fact, have you ever thought that the experience of tucao female stars is something we will experience in the future-the skin begins to go downhill, go to a beauty salon for medical beauty, and find that the face is stiff; Insisting on applying lady brand skin care products has not improved significantly; Even my husband says you are not as beautiful as before after giving birth. What should you do? Only by learning to reconcile with ourselves can we accept that the imperfect body will always decline, and we feel that the aging that was once far away from us is eroding us unconsciously with the passage of time. In fact, for women, it is more important than dressing up to reconcile with themselves. Everyone will grow old and accept your own state in each period. Mary said in "Woman 30+" that because Yan value almost missed "Goodbye Mr. Loser", she became very inferior. She thought it would be great if she had a particularly beautiful face, so she lost weight crazily. But at 32, she suddenly figured it out. Why do you have to wear size s clothes? Thin is not good-looking. Wu Zhihong, a famous Chinese psychological writer, wrote in Thank You for Imperfection that "the key to cure psychological problems and gain growth is to dare to embrace the real pain and accept the real imperfect self". In fact, everyone is imperfect. If you want to get real happiness, you must first accept your imperfections, and then you can really accept yourself. I recommend you to read this book, and you will be suddenly enlightened ~ Milk Tea Rene Liu once wrote in "Dead Woman": "Many people know that not living for others is the happiest thing, but this statement is only half right. It is important not to care about others' comments, and it is also important to know how to appreciate yourself. Only by accepting your own imperfections, or fully acknowledging that there is no perfection, can you see your own beauty. If we are all busy growing up when we are young, what we should learn after 30 or 40 years old is to accept the imperfect parts of life: the imperfect appearance, the imperfect family background, the imperfect personality, the imperfect marriage and love, and the most inevitable problem we must face-aging. Whether it is excessive plastic surgery or the beauty filter is wide open, those beautiful women who struggle with time always make us feel distressed and embarrassed more than those who naturally age. Instead of fighting a losing battle with time, just because of the praise of "like a girl" in the news announcement, wearing a stiff face without wrinkles and losing the opportunity to get a gift of time, is it not worth the candle? There are still many people, because they are no more than 20+ girls anyway, who are lucky enough to break the jar and make concessions on the issue of anti-aging, so that the emotional pressure and the hardships of life are written on their faces. Be beautiful for yourself, work hard and enjoy the results. When you really understand aging, you are no longer beautiful for others. Just please yourself and stop taking extreme plastic surgery. Haste makes waste, and excessive beauty is really not beautiful! Try to reconcile with yourself, work hard on maintenance, and the traces of time will always be kind to you. Jenny in the second season of My Wife's Romantic Travel, her skin is good enough to squeeze water, white and bright! You can't tell at the age of 32! Looking through her little red book, it is not difficult to find that she is a very maintenance-oriented person. After the fire was caused by soaking feet in traditional Chinese medicine, she constantly recommended creams, whitening essences, masks and hair dryers that she felt were easy to use. I can see that she is a hard-working and exquisite pig girl. To Pocky's surprise, her chin almost fell off. Zhang Junning is actually 37 years old! As an athlete, she has always been in good condition, and she can't see the traces of time without makeup. Exercise is a preservative for women and delays the pace of aging. Exercise is the most test of willpower. It takes great efforts for Zhang Junning to stick to it and fall in love with it! To resist aging, we must first understand the causes of skin aging. Appearance: Some people are born skinny and beautiful, but they will look older than a baby face. Of course, they can't give up on themselves, and they can make up for it. Age: As we get older, when the number of new cells in our body is less than the number of dead cells every day, our body begins to age. Expression: Some girls who love to laugh should pay attention. Expression lines won't be polite to you. Too rich expression will make wrinkles climb on your face in advance. Outside * * *: With the deterioration of the environment, we are facing more harm to the skin from ultraviolet rays, free radicals, smog and electric radiation. Eating habits: irregular diet, love to eat greasy food, smoking and drinking will affect the skin. Stress: Frequent staying up late and work stress lead to emotional instability, which can cause skin problems. So there is no frozen beauty, but it is well maintained. If you don't resist aging, you will be really old! Now that we have found the reason, we should prescribe the right medicine. Pocky has collected some anti-aging products, why not try them quickly? Guerlain, the emperor? Gold recovery honey * RMB670/30ml is a used essence, which combines the advantages of essence dew, nourishing oil and toner. Its texture is light as water, delicate as honey, and its touch is not greasy. Skin looks elastic, smooth and rich, full of vitality to support youth. Chanel upgraded eye care set RMB 1350/ 1 pce The most popular part is the eyes. Push this eye care set and you will glow in two simple steps. First roll around the eyes with spherical essence, then apply the essence eye mask and stay for ten minutes. Lancome new style? Jing Chunzhen Cream Nourishing Edition RMB2680/60ml Celebrity Cream The first favorite bottle. Anti-rejuvenation free radicals, promote collagen egg synthesis, deeply repair muscle base, and make skin as full and moist as pearls. CHANTECAILLE Diamond Essence+HK$ 2,550 /30ml (about RMB 2,242) recommended this essence, which combines anti-wrinkle peptide and plant stem cell essence, to Computer Mobile Party, especially for the aging problem caused by frequent contact with electronic screens and blue light. Clarins double-extracted skin-rejuvenating essence lotion RMB650/30ml, which can't be stopped after using the golden double bottle. With the unique double-bottle technology, the essence of water and oil is combined into one, simulating the natural water-oil ratio of cells, deeply acting on cells in a more intimate state, and releasing twice the youthful energy in one drop. Finally, what Pocky wants to tell you is that every woman should learn to discover her own beauty, accept the gifts of years, believe in her own uniqueness ~ don't live for others, but become a better self. May women of all ages enjoy the present and bloom in different colors! Author /Pocky Design/ Yuan Long Distance Network Disclaimer: The above content comes from the network, and the copyright belongs to the original author. If there is any infringement of your original copyright, please let us know and we will delete the relevant content as soon as possible.