Female leaders are the object of fear for many newcomers in the workplace. They always feel that there is no easy-going male leader, and they are more careful than male leaders, and they love to find faults. I'm sympathetic when I'm okay. A female leader in her fifties sounds even scarier. You have no good prejudice against people, and you are naturally uncomfortable when you get along. Then you added a virgin bitch as a modifier. Boy, it sounds like you are going to shake three times and suddenly hide. I hope this leader will never say a word to me again.
First of all, I declare here that not all female leaders are terrible. The last paragraph just tells you that you think your leader is a virgin bitch. Is it possible that you don't like female leaders and have prejudice against them, so the more you look at them, the more you hate them. Finally, I couldn't bear it, and I was upset when I saw it? If so, it is good for you to adjust your mentality. Female leaders of this age may be lazier, kinder and kinder, just like smiling aunts in the street, very amiable. Having said that, I just want to tell you that it is very important to keep a correct attitude.
After carefully ruling out this possibility, let's assume that your leader is really what you described, then I'll give you an idea.
In fact, there are all kinds of wonderful people in this world, and the best way is to have nothing to do with me. Colleagues, as long as it doesn't affect the cooperative work, can completely ignore it. Don't listen to her remarks from the moral high ground, just ignore them and ask you, huh? I didn't hear you clearly! After a few times, she doesn't want to discuss it with you. As for her discussion with others, you can take her as the aunt you met on the bus. It's none of your business anyway. After a long time, she will hypnotize herself successfully. We must understand that everyone's growth process is different, education is different, expression is different, and inner thoughts are different. Respecting everyone who is different is what we should do.
If you can't stand it, I'll give you some more advice.
Move the station away, block the circle of friends, out of sight, out of mind, if there is no condition, pretend to be super busy at work and have no time to talk to her, so as to reduce the time to talk to her. It's good to listen to music with headphones. Anyway, I play dumb. I can't hear you when I read it in my mind ten thousand times.
Finally, I'll cook a chicken soup for you:
The female leader is a virgin bitch, but fortunately she is not your relative, so you don't have to endure it all your life; Fortunately, she is not a workaholic and keeps you working; Fortunately, she is not your mother-in-law. She needs a smiling greeting and good service. You can use her character to lead a better life. She is willing to stand at the highest point of morality and sympathize with the weak. Why not pretend to be a vulnerable group and let her sympathize with you, care about you and give you more care? Happiness depends on misfortune, and misfortune depends on happiness. Not sure if this is a blessing or a curse. Just be optimistic.