On March 4th, the activity theme of Growth College 1 Group was communication and unity. Thank you for your guidance and wonderful lecture, and for your free hosting and sharing with all the teachers! Seeing my own shortcomings from everyone again has benefited me a lot!
When communicating with others, you should learn to express gratitude, give encouragement to the other party, know how to be sincerely sorry, create a pleasant atmosphere, have creative communication skills and interact accurately, so that the other party can feel your positive language. There is temperature and love. Learn to be aware, be able to present something objectively, without negative expression, and truly achieve the purpose of improving life in the way that the other party likes.
Communication is the premise, and work and life are inseparable from communication. When there is a communication obstacle, if you can't do it yourself, you can take the initiative to quit and let others do it. Find the reason from yourself first, and if you have emotions, find the root of your current emotions. Sincerely express, confirm in time, strengthen feedback and listen to the response.
? Teacher Qiu talked about communication routines: first, words, as long as we express them sincerely, will gain something from them and get answers; Second, put it down and ask yourself, has the problem been solved? Use less energy, be smart, don't push too hard, and learn to let go; Third, just respond to each other, don't talk about each other's problems; Fourth, guide and respond to each other's current situation. In many cases, the answer is more than that. Master communication routines and apply what you have learned, and understand the goals, orientations and methods of communication. The achievement of the goal is success, so that the other party can understand and be practical. Your ability determines how happy and successful you feel. The premise of communication is to communicate with yourself, learn to encourage, and encourage with language, body and eyes. It feels good to use routines, and it will have every effect every time. It is also equivalent to a hoop and a spell. If you express it, you will feel it. Let the other side benefit, improve and warm. Communicate with your child with a direction, aim at separation, support separation, and support him to successfully separate from you. Family communication should be relaxed, effective and flexible, and communication strategies should be changed. Communicating with people younger than themselves is also based on supporting separation. It really can't be built, we must learn to push it out and have inner tolerance. He will go up soon, and the other party will thank you for a lifetime. That's what we have to do. Communicate with peers, be kind, friendly, realistic and kind. Objectively speaking, there is no shortage at home. When interacting with people who are longer than themselves, people are absolutely respected, pay attention to age and rank, learn to ask questions, please each other, and take growth as the keynote. People are most afraid of being respected. As long as we respect each other, there is no one who can't handle it. You should have the capital to respect him. If you want others to know, unless you don't. The keynote of communication with leaders is to do practical things fairly, provided that there is no communication idea.
The goal and principle of communication is not to make directional mistakes, and it is the other party who ultimately decides the communication result, and it is clear about the demands of the communication object and its own bottom line. The result of communication depends on each other, and the effect of unity depends on oneself. The level and ability of unity are related to vision, wisdom and pattern. Unity should have a bottom line. No matter what kind of leaders you meet, you should perform your duties well. Anyway, don't give up on yourself, don't give up on psychology, protect yourself, love yourself, grow up and learn to be kind to others. When seeking more benefits and fairness, we should know our own level and increase the burden on others. What will others do? Based on mission and responsibility. Doing a good job in macro-control, communication and unity have the same effect. Good communication and unity, good interpersonal relationship and good interpersonal relationship will solve most of our problems!
Effective communication is very important to everyone, so we need to strengthen the training on how to achieve effective communication, master communication skills and strategies, and do a good job of communication and unity with wisdom. The most important thing is to use and practice, master it as soon as possible, and reach a handy level!