What you can't say on a blind date. When we are dating, there are many taboos in what we say, because you may accidentally mention other people's sensitive points. I collected and sorted out the information about blind date for everyone. Let's have a look.
What you can't say on a blind date 1 1. What is wrong with me?
As long as many people face the situation of being "broken up" or being single for a long time, their minds will begin to think, "Am I not good enough? Denying your own thoughts is like a negative energy wrapped around your body, which is difficult to get rid of easily. If you always hold this idea, the magnetic field emitted by your body will be very unhappy, and no one will want to make friends with someone who looks gloomy. So please believe that "you are very good! "You have your unique advantages, otherwise the final object will not develop relations with you. Don't deny yourself because of the failure of a relationship, just as many divorced women are always full of uncertainty about pursuing a new relationship, feeling that they are not perfect and miss their boyfriend who may just be "him" in vain. Look at Faye Wong, invincible forever. Divorced twice, she never gave up the opportunity to pursue love. And bravely reunited with 12 year old boyfriend. Even if there are still netizens who are not optimistic, she looks very good now, and it is very important to have confidence in herself!
I will never meet love again.
Most people who can say this sentence have not come out of the shadow of their last relationship. You have been stuck in the story "Only what you have experienced in the world is unforgettable" for a long time. You are walking down the street, looking at a couple who are well matched, and thinking that maybe this sweet date has come out of my life. When you think about it, you will close your heart. When you close your already dark heart, how to take the first step to accept love again? But it's normal to cry with friends just after a relationship, but don't keep talking, it can really be an insulator of love!
He is the only true love in my life.
Usually, a girl blinded by emotion will keep repeating this sentence to her friends, no matter what the reason for your separation is, but you have not forgotten him. You don't have a man like him in your heart, and your friends are tired of listening to you: "He is tall and handsome, and he is very kind to me. He knows all my hobbies and takes care of my family." In short, you just haven't got over the shadow of your last partner. Even if he is really that good, you must bravely accept that this relationship is gone. What you can do is to keep this love that has passed the fresh-keeping period in mind and start your own new path. Life is so long, you never know who is "true love" until the end!
4. Am I not thin enough, fair enough and attractive enough?
Many girls point out that the problem of not conforming to the object is that the appearance is wrong and the appearance is absolutely correct. It is true that people are visual animals, and their pleasing appearance can easily attract the attention at first sight, but there are not so many beautiful people in the world. Besides appearance, personality is the first element of a long-term relationship. If you are busy losing weight or micro-shaping, but you don't make your personality more attractive for the shortcomings that can be improved, then you will never meet a good relationship. The appearance is temporary, but the inside will not deteriorate with time. We often think that we must be thin enough and sexy enough to be loved, but don't we often see many girls with a gentle boyfriend who is more sensual? Take a closer look. Is that girl full of smiles, which makes people feel very comfortable? It is difficult for people to be perfect, so we must accept our imperfect appearance and sincerely believe that we are beautiful girls.
I don't believe in love anymore. Love is so boring.
You must have been hurt a lot by saying that. When someone you love and treat wholeheartedly finally leaves you, you will really have the symptoms of "lover phobia". You are afraid of failing again, and you can't bear the pain of the second time! It's like you fell into an endless black hole. You're trapped inside and don't want to come out. You look at the unhappy couples coming and going and think about what it will always be like in the future. There is no such thing as forever! Come to think of it, only a few lucky people have never suffered from lovelorn love, but everyone has a time limit for healing. When time passes, you must believe that love really exists and is very interesting! When you gradually forget the pain of breaking up, think of the sweetness of love and the temperature of two people embracing each other, love again bravely and diligently!
6. My life circle is too small.
Love is not really like a movie. A very simple thing, you accidentally bumped into each other at the corner and fell in love with each other. That probability is very low, so if you just want to wander around the company and home, then love will definitely not find you, but love needs some help from fate. Of course, you have to go out of the house unless you want to fall in love with the noodle vendor in the corner. Go to more parties, attend more classes, meet some new friends, and new relationships will follow!
What you can't say on a blind date 2 1. You look more beautiful than yourself.
When you say this, you will only be willing to praise girls for slapping. But in the eyes of girls, what does he mean by this sentence? He thinks I'm ugly and says I lied with photos? I hate just saying, why innuendo in the Ming Dynasty.
2. Which girl do you think likes watching it better?
When dating, it is really dead to ask a girl if other girls are good-looking. This obviously shows that you have not seriously communicated with each other and paid attention to others. This simply shows that you think the other party is not good-looking.
3. What's your salary?
Income from work is sometimes considered as a difficult problem in privacy protection. If you want to ask, you have to change your method, and don't be so immediate. For example, what are your personal hobbies? Going home to visit relatives and friends and buying tickets can't help? Asking such a difficult question can help you master each other's level of food, clothing, housing and transportation without losing grace.
You have had many boyfriends before.
Unless two people come with the purpose of getting married right away, you can directly say this question, but if you want to communicate first and then talk, then I suggest you don't be so impatient. Who hasn't had several sad stories during love? Ask this question right away, remind the other person of sadness and kick you away in a rage.