However, such a mother is "disgusted" by her children!
(1) A "giant baby mother" without housework, children, husband and grandchildren.
"Mother who doesn't do housework"
Chunping is an intellectual young woman. At that time, her family conditions were good, and her parents were princelings! Chunping was naturally spoiled like a "princess" by her parents when she was a child! Later, when I grew up, I met my current husband, and my family conditions were relatively poor, which was considered a high climb. Therefore, I always listen to Chunping at home and never dare to let Chunping do some housework! Later, when she had a child, Chunping didn't care about the child for almost a day except for a little suffering! Almost all of them are brought by her husband!
Then the child grew up and got married! After leaving home, Chunping lived in seclusion at home and still acted like a "princess". She usually does nothing but go to the gym to do aerobics!
"regardless of the husband's mother"
However, something unexpected happened. Her husband was ill!
This disease, my daughter is unlucky!
Her daughter said that since my father was ill, I have to go to the hospital to take care of my father and children every day. The most important thing is that I have to go home and cook for my mother. Her self-care ability is really poor, she can't do anything! My father used to do everything, but now he is fine. Father is ill, and all the pressure is on me! Even if there is separation, I am too busy! Let my mother go to the hospital to take care of my father. She said no, it would be a mess if she went! Let her cook and eat at home. She said she couldn't. Your father used to do it. I can't even find the bowl. Besides, I won't do it if I find it!
Her daughter said that once she went to the hospital and came back in traffic jam, she didn't have time to go home and cook for her. She didn't even buy instant noodles to eat, and she was still alive waiting for me to cook for her! Seriously, I really hate my mother! She's not like a mother! She's here to be the Queen Mother! Our whole family is like her slaves!
When I was a child, my father often told me that both men and women should be independent! However, my mother's character is completely spoiled by my father! My dad always said, his wife, he is in favor! That can't be helped, just let him spoil himself! As a result, what kind of pet? In the end, it became a "drag" for the family!
"regardless of the grandson's mother"
I didn't feel anything at first! Later, I gave birth to a child myself. I thought someone else's mother could help take care of the children, but my mother said she still needed someone to take care of her, so don't think about letting her take care of my children!
Later, my father was ill, and then my father died again! Only my mother is left, I really feel so tired! I have to take care of a baby and a giant baby every day! Mother's family and husband's family run on both sides! Find a nanny, and she won't do it. I have to say, I had to take care of her when she was a child! Let her live with us. She doesn't want to. Just a question. I really don't know how to evaluate her! But she's my real mother. I can't help it I don't care about her, so nobody cares!
Chunping's daughter always talks about this and feels very angry! She said that other people's mothers can help with children, housework, cooking and cleaning at home! Look at my family, I am really sad to have such a "mother"!
When I was a child, she never touched me. Forget it without me! Growing up has brought me so much trouble! I feel that a thousand hands can't serve Guanyin! All day long, I just dress up and play around, never thinking of others! Cooking for her, she also dislikes my poor cooking, which is not as delicious as my dad used to cook. Let me know more! Let her learn to cook by herself! She said that she is so old, it is time for her children to be filial to her! Let her learn to help with the children. She said she didn't bring her own children, so she didn't have time to help us!
If she goes on talking, she will say, that's because her life is good! I was born well when I was a child, and my parents loved me. My husband was good when I got married, and I was spoiled by my husband! Now the children are grown up and sensible, and there are children to spoil! Then I have nothing to say!
After all, I am my own mother, and I have to wait for the service, but, to be honest, I am really tired.
(2) But is such a "giant baby" mother really good?
Nowadays, many people flaunt that raising girls requires money! When I married a girl, I said: The girl I raised with so much money and energy asked others to be "princesses"! However, if every girl is so "spoiled" that she doesn't do housework, take care of children and others, is it good or bad?
Before my friend got married, I met a "giant baby mother-in-law" when I got married in the past!
She said that her mother-in-law usually does nothing but go out to dance square dance. If the broom at home falls down, I won't hold it! After dinner, put it on the table and go out! The child cried, and she not only refused to take it, but also scolded the child for crying all day, which was so noisy! Then let them move out early!
She said that with such a mother-in-law, she also fell ill for eight generations! I don't know how their family can stand her!
In fact, everyone is equal! However, there are always some people who, under the banner of "giant baby", evade their responsibilities and throw the pot to others!
Marriage, say 1000, say 10000, is still a cooperation! Meeting a giant baby is a "disaster"
Any man or woman who admits before marriage that "his fingers are not touched by spring water" after marriage is "selfish" in plain English! I don't know how to make sacrifices and dedication for my family!
(3) Why is the divorce rate so high now?
Isn't it related to the existence of "giant baby"? Too many women dream of the princess every day and want to marry a rich man, but they never look at themselves. "Why?" Your stupidity, your stupidity, your stupidity? Still "nothing"! An empty fool's face?
A girl once said that men are "smarter" than men before! Bought my own house, bought my own car, and saved the rest of the money! Dig search and make your little life prosperous!
Unlike many women who earn 3000 yuan a month, they have to buy 4000 yuan of skin care products, and they have to ask stupidly why men don't want her! I will tell you why! Because you can't even manage money! Marrying back is a "loss" business!
There is also a woman, earning 20 thousand a month, and buying a dress costs 30 thousand! To put it bluntly, this kind of woman is not stupid, who is stupid? But can anyone with a little basic knowledge of "financial business" spend it like this?
Life is true, but life also needs to be "managed"! If you wear a credit card, you have to "face-lift", that is, turn that face into a flower, which also looks "stupid"!
As a "smart" financier, how can you look at a "stupid" silly girl? Are they crazy?
Therefore, I advise you "silly white sweets" to stop daydreaming! If you don't do housework, don't manage money, don't take children, just want to do beauty all day and drive a luxury car, hoping to catch a "rich husband" in the moonlight or in debt every month, I'm afraid it can only be in the "turtle pond"!
Of course, there are many "giant babies" men! Just like those men who obviously have no money in their bags and want to buy a car with a down payment, they are as stupid as others!
And the world of "giant baby" will collapse completely one day!
Those comforts that I longed for when I was young will definitely be "doubled back" when I am old!