The TV series "In the Distance" Mei Ting was different from others as soon as she appeared. She plays Liu Ailian as a "middle-aged woman", but you don't hate her so much, even though her smile is harsh.

Three years later, Lu Xiaoou saw the words "remote express" in her mother's shop. She sounded familiar, and then eagerly chased out. Lu Xiaoou remembers "remote express delivery", which is the name she gave Yao Yuanqi and belongs to both of them. Lu Xiaoou studied in Yao Yuan for three years. Day and night, she finally received a letter from Yao Yuan.

Yao Yuan is really irresponsible. He left without even saying goodbye. On the contrary, Liu Xiaoou tolerated him. Perhaps, he didn't love Liu Xiaoou so deeply or so boldly. Being able to endure not contacting Liu Xiaoou for three years, Yao Yuan may have chosen to leave and put it down.

Lu Xiaoou chased the logistics company in Yao Yuan. She thought she could meet the man who missed him very much, but the door opened and out came a woman she had never seen before, Liu Ailian.

What's it like to meet the new and the old? Supposedly, two women fought directly, but neither of them belongs to that kind of unwise woman, and their level is very high, especially Liu Ailian.

Liu Ailian, played by Mei Ting, is Yao Yuan's childhood friend, and they are still classmates. In fact, she didn't marry Yao Yuan, but she wasn't going to tell Liu Xiaoou because she loved Yao Yuan and secretly loved Yao Yuan. Liu Ailian has an ex-husband, but this man has been missing for three years. After three years of missing, he can go to court to sue for divorce. It is also for this reason that she and Yao Yuan never got the certificate.

What does it matter if you don't get a license? Liu Ailian climbed to Yao Yuan, a man who valued friendship. As long as she doesn't cry or make trouble and is a good housekeeper with high emotional intelligence, Yao Yuan will never let her down.

Although Lu Xiaoou studied psychology, Liu Ailian may not even have attended high school, but I dare say that Lu Xiaoou's EQ is really inferior to that of Liu Ailian.

Today, we will use the TV series "Far Away" to let Liu Ailian, played by Mei Ting, tell you how a woman should treat her husband's unforgettable predecessor.

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Yao Yuan loved Liu Xiaoou, and he must have the position of Liu Xiaoou in his heart. He also had a crush on Liu Xiaoou. Liu Ailian is very clever. She never wanted to compare with Liu Xiaoou, nor would she force Yao Yuan to forget her, but she did exactly what Yao Yuan wanted. Your predecessor is your past, and I will not interfere but choose to respect it.

Liu Ailian's high EQ lies in her understanding of men. I dare say that if there is such a powerful woman in reality, you really can't stand it. Her heart is too strong, she hides it well and doesn't care about anything. What are you going to fight with her? She will only hold her man tightly. Liu Ailian knows Yao Yuan too well. They grew up together. She knows that Yao Yuan is a person who values friendship. Plus, she is very similar to Yao Yuan in all aspects, so there will be no sense of distance.

Senior position 1 of Liu Ailian: I am passionate about your predecessor, not as an enemy.

The appearance of Liu Ailian is the end of the world for Lu Xiaoou. At that moment, Xiaoou's heart was cold, especially watching Liu Ailian lead a child over two years old.

"What are you shouting? Is he not here? " Liu Ailian's appearance is unusual, and he is indifferent to taking the children out.

When Liu Ailian saw Liu Xiaoou, he was not very angry, but very enthusiastic: "Ah, you are Liu Xiaoou. I often hear Yao Yuan mention you. " This sentence is deliberately involved in her relationship with Yao Yuan. I often hear Yao Yuan mention you, which shows that Yao Yuan has told Liu Ailian about his past with Leo. Whether you told her or not, Xiao Ou knew how close she was to Yao Yuan as soon as this sentence came out.

Liu Ailian is very enthusiastic about Xiao Ou. Also called her home for tea, let her daughter call her "aunt" and treat Lu Xiaoou as an old friend. On the surface, it seems that she is fighting for nothing, but in fact she is fighting for herself. This woman is really smart. The more so, the more men can't live without you, and the more men's predecessors are afraid of you.

Liu Ailian high 2: exhausted Lu Xiaoou.

"You are so beautiful. No wonder Yao Yuan can't forget you. "

After Liu Xiaoou entered the room, Liu Ailian smiled and said this sentence with her daughter in her arms. There is no jealousy, only envy. Xiao Ou is a little embarrassed, but she also understands that her subtext is that "the part between you and Yao Yuan is a thing of the past". Liu Ailian is generous to Xiao Ou, just like an old friend telling her the truth, you will be taken away by her unconsciously.

This woman doesn't play cards according to common sense, and the average woman should be disgusted with the woman her husband likes. If so, it will be easy to handle. But Liu Ailian is warm and generous, but you don't know how to deal with it. You can only be defeated and follow her.

"I heard from Yao Yuan that you have been to our stupid school before."

Yao Yuan told Liu Ailian everything, and when Xiao Ou heard this sentence, he could judge the importance of Liu Ailian to Yao Yuan.

"You see, we are decree by destiny. We have never met, so you have been to my school. "

Liu Ailian smiled with her daughter in her arms, which was beautiful, while Liu Xiaoou was just embarrassed and expressionless on the surface, but her heart was so desolate that she was suddenly disturbed.

"Daughter, Yao Yuan loves her the most, just like her heart."

Especially when Leo asked Liu Ailian's daughter's name? Liu Ailian suddenly smiled. "Who else may be the initiator? His 250-year-old father. "

Liu Ailian this woman is too smart, just a few words to close the relationship between himself and Yao Yuan, plus a daughter beside him, Liu Xiaoou also gave up. Xiao Ou is a kind woman. Even if she falls in love with Yao Yuan again, it will be too late. She won't hurt Liu Ailian.

Liu Ailian's high-level position 3: The place is not chaotic, and Lu Xiaoou is generous.

When Yao Yuan and Liu Xiaoou met again, they looked at each other at that moment, and their hearts were extremely bleak. The past is vivid, but the reality is cruel. Seeing this situation, Liu Ailian shouted directly, "Yao Yuan, you are so stupid. What are you doing? Come here. "

She spoke in a gentle tone, without any anger. Even if the man she likes meets his ex, she won't make herself angry. I may have been confused inside, but I can't show it anyway.

After that, she said naughtily, "The food is burnt." This woman is so cute.

When he mentioned Homey, Liu Ailian knew everything. Lu Xiaoou was surprised: "My brother told you everything."

Referring to the watch in Yao Yuan's hand, Liu Ailian said a little sourly: "I don't know which little lover sent it."

Tone is very important. Liu Ailian's words won't make people feel angry, but they will embarrass the client.

Later, when Yao Yuan sent Liu Xiaoou back, she was not angry at all. Being angry with her ex is a man's greatest fear. Moreover, she pulled the topic to other topics and completely ignored Liu Xiaoou.

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In real life, how do many women react when they meet their husbands' predecessors? Most of them are furious and even play with men directly. Even if it doesn't matter, just send a text message or make a phone call, and women will explode directly. It is unwise for women to do so, and it will make men hate you very much.

You should first find out what kind of relationship your ex has with your husband, and then prescribe the right medicine. Don't be indiscriminate, and then rush up eagerly. Don't treat your ex as an enemy, and don't force yourself to forget. It's not necessary. Choose respect, what happened is what happened, but that was before, so you should grasp the present.

How to deal with the ex that the husband can't forget in a high position?

Don't cry, don't make trouble, let yourself be calm and comfortable, and at the same time understand that your ex is such a woman and what your husband thinks of her. Don't show your inner jealousy if you don't take your ex seriously.

Look at how Liu Ailian dealt with Liu Xiaoou, and you will understand where she won, but it is impossible for Xiao Ou and Yao Yuan.

Don't treat your husband's predecessor rashly at any time, which will only make you lack emotional intelligence and make men bored. If your husband is a good man and has several exes, it is normal to respect and accept them and choose corresponding strategies to deal with them. You will have the last laugh.

Learn more from Liu Ailian. How many men can handle a woman like her?