All sentient beings come into this world, from the point of view of species, for the continuation of life, and from the point of view of each individual, just to live better, just like Fu Gui in To Live, through all kinds of hardships of life, trying to live. Perhaps there is no so-called good or evil in The Beginning of Life, because we are not angels sent by God, nor demons left by Satan, but only the desire for life, the desire for a better life and the corresponding struggle. The goodness and likes and dislikes shown between them are only the demands of life itself, "the nature of destiny." I'm afraid that's the truth!
? Our exploration of human nature is like a blind man touching an elephant. There are few generalists but many magicians, thinking that knowing a certain aspect of human nature will be of great use. Since ancient times, people who have achieved their goals by enslaving, trampling and deceiving human nature abound. Most of the stories in Thirty-six Strategies are about attacking the weakness of human nature to achieve success.
In management, many managers are also very good at using the weakness of human nature to exert their skills of controlling people. Although on the surface, managers' executive ability has been improved and their quality has been enhanced, their humanity has been distorted, which will be more serious in sub-health state, especially in military management.
Modern people are under great pressure, and often when they need to achieve a certain goal, they can't care about others. Few people think, "Are you destroying his humanity?" A gentleman does something and doesn't do something, and some things can't be done. On his deathbed, Zhang Zhidong said, "I have been a pedant all my life.
Nine times out of ten, the walker is no more than four or five, but he is fortunate to have a big heart. "When Chen Ping helped Liu Bang attack Xiang Yu, he had to use psychological warfare. What others think is the best policy is really the worst policy for him. He also said: to do such a thing is to lose your life!
If goodness is like water, then human nature is like water, static and dynamic, cold and hot, clear and turbid. If you suppress it for a long time, it will deteriorate, and if you stagnate for a long time, it will erupt. Therefore, we must conform to human nature, guide him and inspire him in order to make it full of vitality and vitality. Guan Zhong's skill as a herder is nothing more than this: "The granary knows etiquette, food and clothing know honor and disgrace, and clothes are solid." If the four dimensions don't open, the country will die. Ordering food is like the originality of running water, making it popular. "As a result, Qi ruled.
The beauty of human nature is the most attractive. In front of him, clothes, looks, manners, temperament and self-cultivation are eclipsed. Healthy human nature has natural vitality, such as willows in the spring breeze, brilliant as summer flowers, comfortable as wind, and moist as jade, which makes people unconsciously want to be close.
There is always a saying in Hu Xueyan's business: For thousands of years, everything has changed, but human nature has not changed. In the vast history, homosexuality, bloodthirsty, necrophilia, incest ... what didn't happen? Reading the Book of Songs, the long-standing bud, is still clearly felt today. Even today, with the rapid development of science and technology, isn't the story of pulling out the seedlings and stealing the ears staged every day?
Whenever I encounter something unacceptable, I always try to understand, understand and know. It is said that the most beautiful thing about a man is his mind, which is full of tolerance. When you are full of the world, you can really feel the world.
Therefore, I always think that I can find some convincing answers to those extreme things in human nature, instead of simply sneering at them as Wang Anshi said in his poem.
"All beings create evil, and they also have the opportunity to draw." Pushkin, a great Russian poet, said that when he opened a woman's leg, he saw God's face, and he died in confrontation because of God's face. Just like a girl in "masters of sex", her parents asked her to have a vasectomy because of moral corruption, but the doctor Bill strongly disagreed. He knew it was a disease, and she was also a victim. Others may not be able to imagine that kind of "itching like a skin disease", and of course they can't understand what kind of suffering they are suffering.
Nowadays, homosexuality has been legalized in many countries. Some people blame this phenomenon on excessive openness and promiscuity, but they don't know that it has existed since ancient times. Long Yangjun's hobby, the sex slave in Spartacus, Qu Yuan's dying, and even Bai Juyi have heroes ... Human nature is like Artest's Tai Chi Yin Yang Tu, with yang in the yang and yang in the yin, just like men have a weak side and women have a bold side.
? This concept gives me a brand-new perspective, and deeply analyzes the roots of various social phenomena from a historical perspective. I'm afraid many people have such an understanding that all kinds of phenomena, chaos and wonders are the products of this era. It is undeniable that this era has provided a hotbed for the breeding of some phenomena, but the fundamental reason is that people themselves have these genes and cast the essence of these phenomena.
In ancient times, women's sweet shoulders and jade hands were enough to arouse men's infinite reverie. In modern times, the new generation who grew up eating milk powder likes breast enhancement, while the traditional men in China do not have this hobby. Breast originally belonged to children and should be synonymous with mother, but it was turned upside down by modern people and turned into a sex organ. When I was a child, I couldn't get it. When I was older, I took something that belonged to my child. Therefore, the natural function of breast gives way to modern psychological needs.
In primitive tribes, the so-called old people are menopausal women and leaders. Their vigilance, doubt and stubbornness in menopause are natural leadership qualities. When this quality is useless, it is manifested as menopausal symptoms today. Now menopausal women generally receive medication because doctors tell them it is a disease.
Gong Zizhen wrote an article called The Story of the Sick Plum House. Those who are arty and self-righteous simply straighten, delete and straighten plum blossoms to meet their psychological needs. Aren't some so-called dog lovers like this now?
"The king of Chu has a thin waist and starved to death in the palace." In order to pursue beauty and cater to men's eyes, women have never stopped self-destruction. They are skinny, wrapped around their feet, and continue their beautiful career with pain and happiness. They don't think about how many toxins are in cosmetics and what effects high heels will have on physiology. ...
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Times are changing, but the essence of human nature has not changed. The elder who wants wood must be rooted, and the one who wants to flow far must be rooted. Only by proceeding from the essence of human nature can we jump out of the suffering of reincarnation and get the happiness of self.