We often think that it is normal for men to chase women, but it is not normal for women to chase men. After all, girls often belong to the passive side in their feelings, so they should pretend to be reserved and wait for boys to chase them. If you take the initiative to chase boys, you will often not be cherished.
In fact, this is our ideological limitation. Emotionally speaking, whether a man pursues a woman or a woman pursues a man is a matter for two people. Since boys can pursue girls they like, so can girls.
A hundred years ago, it was difficult for women to have the right to actively pursue happiness. Even the words of choosing a husband and parents' life matchmaker have become a stumbling block. But nowadays, it is no longer a problem for women to be brave in pursuing their own happiness, so when they meet a boy they like, they must first change their pretentious and reserved heart.
Make yourself more feminine
Men are all visual animals. If a woman's posture is more feminine and softer, then the possibility of a man having a good impression will increase.
For example, do a manicure to make your fingers slimmer and sexier. Put on delicate light makeup to make yourself look sweeter and cuter. Choose a few clothes that show skin, such as blue clothes, it is easy to look white, and one white covers all the ugliness. Get a haircut, slim down and make yourself look more attractive.
A woman's first impression often determines whether a boy regards her as a lover or a friend. After all, the girl's face value is only one aspect of the investigation, and the most important thing is the feeling that the whole body gives people. Like walking posture, body odor, clothes collocation, and the feeling of chatting, these will all be used as indicators for investigation. When you make boys feel more feminine, few men will be indifferent to you. This is why some girls eat little when they go out to eat, but they have a big appetite at home. Pretending to be reserved is just to show your little woman side.
Give boys a chance to show off.
Boys have always had heroic dreams, and saving the United States by heroes is a necessary bridge worth looking forward to. Being able to show his charm as a man at the right time is one of the key points for men to love women. This is why coquetry women have the best life.
When you are on some dates or alone with boys, let boys have a chance to show you. For example, can you help me open the bottle cap? Can you help me lift this heavy object? If you encounter some irresistible external factors, you can also hide behind boys like naive girls.
Give boys more opportunities to show themselves, not pretend to be soft girls. But let yourself know more about men's hearts and know when to stimulate men's desire for protection. A girl who can be protected by men will have a little affection in men's hearts. If a man doesn't even want to protect, it's basically gone.
Make some small encounters
Men are visual animals, and sometimes they prefer to shine at the moment. If we can create some small encounters, such as elevator encounters, shopping encounters, downstairs encounters, etc. At this time, you should show your feminine charm and make proper physical contact. Let a man's heart move with you, but you can retreat quietly.