Besides, one of my little sisters, Xiao Song, is 52 years old this year. She lived with her employer for seven years. She said that she wanted to quit her job every year. Because she can't read, she read the first grade, and her heart is quite kind. She came to her employer's house more than two months after the baby was born, and the baby has been sleeping with her, because Ma Bao gave birth to three babies, and her grandparents have been living in her employer's house, taking care of the three babies by the way. Special economy. I can't bear to cook something at noon every day, just eat leftovers from last night and morning. She often doesn't have enough to eat at her employer's house. Sometimes she buys some snacks and puts them in her room. When she is at work, grandma always chats with Sambo, saying that she is chatting. In fact, she has been supervising her work. Wherever Song goes, Grandma follows, which is very uncomfortable. Wipe the table. Grandma had to tilt her neck and look at the floor from the side. Grandma will walk around in white socks to see if the soles are dirty. Song said that she needed three towels to mop the floor to satisfy her grandmother. Sometimes she really doesn't want to do it. Every day, her voice is buzzing in her head.
Song considers resigning every year or even every month. She has worked in her employer's house for almost seven years, and her salary is only 6000 yuan per month. In this big city of Shanghai, her salary should be relatively low. Song has never had the courage to resign. He always thinks that he has no education, and he may not be able to find a high salary if he goes to find it again. Now she should be a little educated to take care of the elderly, unless she takes care of any culture, but she has an unspeakable fear when she sees the elderly.
Until one day, Xiao Song had a rest and went to the housekeeping company to play, just when someone came to recruit a nanny, a family of three, and took their children to and from school. The house is 80 square meters and the salary is 6500. He was in a hurry, so Xiao Song tried to work. The young couple are very satisfied with Song and can't wait to sign a contract with Song immediately. Xiao Song told the young couple truthfully that she was still on the list. Can she wait until she resigned?
Song resigned after he returned to his old club. The club was surprised and did a good job. Why not? Xiao Song said that there was something at home, and the owner did not keep her and settled her salary.
She went to the couple's house to do it. After sending the children to school, the couple said to her, "Aunt, our house is 80 square meters, and there is not much work. You can find an hourly worker for two hours during the day, which can raise your salary. " Children don't have to sleep with you at night. "In fact, the young couple also know that the salary of nanny 6500 is below average in Shanghai.
Hearing this, Song is really great. You don't have to take your child to bed. The great thing is that she slept with her children for seven years and never slept well. She also worked as an hourly worker in a processing factory in the community for two hours, one day and one month in 60 yuan 1800 yuan, plus 6,500 yuan from her boss, 8,300 yuan a month, 200 yuan more than the original boss.
Seeing Xiao Song again, I saw that she looked better, and she gained a little weight. It turns out that she is less than 65,438+000 Jin. Maybe she is in a good mood and looks better.
Xiao Song is right to change his family. You should know why nannies don't like being nannies with old people now, right?
Just arrived at Uncle Liu's house as a nanny and walked into the community. As he ran in front, he looked back, his expression triumphant, which meant challenging the aunt behind him: demo, if you can catch up with me, you will be tired to be a dog.
The aunt who was chasing behind, while running, asked passers-by for help and said, Hey, help, you old tiger, I'm afraid of an accident.
There are still many good people in the world!
A middle-aged man listened to the aunt's call and quickly helped chase the uncle. However, this uncle is quite witty. He dumped the middle-aged man and the man came back with a helpless face. Self-mockery: uncle's speed is the speed of the wind, and no one can catch up.
Aunt was tired and panting when she slept, sitting on the side of the road panting. Then, her trembling hands took out her mobile phone from her pocket and began to call her daughter, asking her to drive to the bank and stop her father.
She saw me dragging my suitcase and stopping in the community, looking around as if looking for something. I guess I guessed a few points, so I asked, Boss Y, who are you looking for? I said: I'm the nanny of Mr. Liu's family. It's my first time to go home ... Before I finished, the old lady gasped and said: Boss Y, you found it. The employer is our home!
I recall the scene just now. The uncle who ran away without a trace, that is, her father mentioned by the employer's daughter, suffered from Alzheimer's disease.
I gave up thinking, worked as a nanny for so many years, and never took care of Alzheimer's patients. It seems that Uncle Liu's condition is not optimistic, so he ran out. You have to be faster than him to keep up with him. Fighting for physical strength, speed and endurance is a hard job!
Shortly after my aunt and I got home, her daughter and her father came back. Under the severe pressure of my aunt, my uncle took out a left pocket and a right pocket, all of which were hundred-dollar bills. My aunt was in a hurry, and one counted, 2 100 yuan. Then she opened the passbook and saw that it was obviously 3000 yuan. Where did the 900 yuan go?
Her daughter said: she met her father on the way, and she was going to go back to the bank to ask, but the bank has regulations that she is not responsible for leaving the counter.
I don't understand thinking about her father like this.
Asking her father for money, her father covered his pocket to keep his daughter away.
Aunt scolded uncle like a child who ate Baba; You dead old man. Come on, where's the money?
Grandpa has been smirking, laughing enough, and then fiddling with his hands with his head down, like a wrong pupil.
Suddenly, he suddenly raised his head, looked at me for a while, pointed at me and said with a smile, I gave her the money.
I just met you. Did the money fly into my pocket from grandma's back garden?
I thought to myself, I turned my pocket upside down. menstruation held my hand and said with a smile, Don't turn your head, I'm not stupid.
Uncle, this man is talking nonsense to this extent. Can I take care of him? What should I do? The agency fee has been paid, and the gold medal nanny has been famous for so many years. You can't just say no and quit.
Besides, the girl asked me by name from the housekeeping company and said it was word of mouth. They all say that I take care of the elderly carefully and don't play tricks at work. I'm a little flattered.
Fortunately, my aunt is a considerate advocate. She doesn't act as the shopkeeper of cutting. My uncle will do me a favor when I take care of her.
To tell the truth, severe Alzheimer's disease is not as easy to take care of as bedridden elderly people.
This uncle sleeps, so you have to stay by. Maybe when he turns over, he will roll underground.
My uncle and I share a room. He sleeps in a big bed, I sleep in a small bed, and my aunt sleeps in another bedroom.
In the evening, grandpa put slippers under the pillow. He stayed up all night, singing songs that no one could understand. When he is tired of singing, he chats with me.
My uncle and I are the closest in this family. Maybe my aunt often scolds him, so he bears a grudge.
If there is something delicious, he will give it to me behind his wife's back. I wonder how he knew to give me something to eat. Sometimes he calls me big sister, and sometimes he calls me big sister. He said that day: Sister, you should eat more so that you can have twins. Then, I'll look after the children for you.
Mama ah, this day by day, I was dumbfounded by my uncle.
After I worked here for half a year, my uncle's condition deteriorated. He has to be fed like a child because he can't chew, and he has to eat liquid food.
Uncle's girl is in the seafood business and her family is well-off. Uncle eats sea cucumber every day and makes sea cucumber porridge with a wall-breaking machine. He only sleeps and eats during the day, and doesn't eat at other times.
Besides, he has no fixed time to sleep. As long as he sleeps, I will stay in front of the bed and put all kinds of liquid food in a thermos.
He woke up, equivalent to a bugle call. I raced against time to feed him in the same way, watching his satisfaction after eating, and the feeling of relief was the feeling that my daughter felt for her father.
I worked as a nanny at Uncle Liu's house for half a year, and I lost 10 Jin. I offered to resign several times, and menstruation and her daughter begged me for a raise again and again. And often send some precious seafood to my hometown.
To tell the truth, I'm not threatening them to give me a raise and ask others for something on the grounds of inaction.
I can't do it. Then my uncle went to the kitchen to relieve himself. As soon as he takes off his pants, he poops. Then, when you cook, he pours urine into the pot as water.
Later, my father fell ill and went to the hospital. I took care of him in the hospital and had to resign.
After my dad was discharged from the hospital, my aunt called me and wanted me to go back to work.
I told my aunt: I really can't.
I will never take care of the elderly again.
Question: The nanny is looking for a job in a housekeeping company, why not go to a home with an elderly person?
I replied: caring for the elderly not only tests your character and physical strength, but also can imagine that if you face such an Alzheimer's patient every day, you will be nervous and afraid of accidents to the elderly. Not only people are tired, but also their hearts are tired!
Seeing this topic, I feel really great, because I have been working as a nanny in a family with old people, and I am quite happy. Am I different from others?
Grandparents compete with me for jobs.
From 6: 30 to 8: 30 in the morning, I work part-time at Miss Chen's house. I was very busy in the morning before my grandparents came. Sometimes I bake bread. When the young lady asked me to help the children dress, my husband asked me to clean the treadmill. Every morning, like a war, I'm so tired that I'm sweating.
Since grandparents came, grandma bakes bread, grandma helps children dress, and grandpa sometimes helps. I am much more relaxed. I just need to clean up and talk to my grandmother sometimes. It's really good.
Grandparents are reasonable.
9: 00 am-12: 00 am to work part-time at Miss Chen's mother-in-law's house. Grandparents are reasonable. They don't have much work at home. The main thing is to cook a meal and clean some simple hygiene. If I can't finish my work, grandma will let me get off work on time. I will do the unfinished work the next day.
Sometimes when I am tired from work, my grandma will let me have a rest and then bring me something to eat. People in their family often send them fruits and snacks. The two old people can't finish eating, and they often let me take them home to eat.
In the afternoon, I became friends with my grandmother.
From 3 pm to 7 pm, I worked part-time in another house, and my grandmother was very kind to me. Don't say anything to me. While I was working, I chatted with my grandmother. The four-hour hourly work was finished quickly and I didn't feel tired at all.
Sometimes employers are very picky, and grandma is always on my side. Once my employer gave me trouble, and my grandmother ignored her daughter for several days. Since grandma has always been on my side, I will do well and try not to embarrass grandma.
The subject asked: Why do nannies now go to domestic companies to find jobs, rather than go to homes with elderly people?
My answer is: because these nannies don't know the situation, they don't really communicate with the elderly, they only consider their own interests and don't put themselves in others' shoes. Families with old people actually have many good old people. As long as you really get along with them, you will get sincerity after a long time. Families with old people are actually not bad.
Finally, don't forget to pay attention to the friends who like aunt Wang's question and answer!
There are two old people living next door to my house. The man is over 70 years old, seven or eight years older than the woman. The old man suffers from severe Alzheimer's disease, and his body is very fat. He can hardly take care of himself. He often pees in his pants, has to be led by others when he walks, eats all over his body and likes to yell at others.
The hostess herself can't wait on people, and she doesn't like to wait on people. She likes to go out and dance square dance. Always lock men in the house, whether they ask for it or not. When I came back from the dance, I saw a man's pants stained with shit. They beat or scold, making men cry, and they are not black and blue. Their daughter was very distressed after seeing it, so she hired a full-time live-in nanny for her father. At that time, the nanny heard that she was unwilling to take care of the elderly with dementia, so she was introduced to do it by an acquaintance. The nanny is a woman, about forty or fifty years old. She works very neatly to keep the old man clean.
After about half a month's work, the nanny cried and quit because she was tired of taking care of the elderly. The old lady likes to make trouble. At one moment, she said that the rice cooked by the nanny was salty or weak, and it was not delicious. Another moment, she said that the nanny was too water-consuming to wash clothes and didn't want to use the washing machine to wash them by hand. She often knocks on the nanny's door in the middle of the night to see if she is asleep. She doesn't want the old man to spend money on diapers, and she is always wary of the nanny like a thief. The nanny offered to resign because she couldn't stand it any longer. Her daughter has all her sweet words to say, at the same time, she raised her salary and quarreled with her mother. It was silly to keep a nanny, but she worked for a while and then left. Her daughter had no choice but to send her father to a nursing home.
The old lady downstairs is over 90 years old and looks very kind, but her words and deeds at home are miserable.
The old lady can always see an aunt around her. At first, I envied my aunt for having time to take care of her mother and having such a filial daughter (daughter-in-law).
Later, I learned that my aunt was a nanny invited by the old lady, and the nanny herself was an old man in her sixties. ...
When chatting, I learned from my aunt that this old lady is not as kind as she looks, not only stingy, but also big-tempered!
In hot summer, not only the air conditioner is not allowed to be turned on, but even the electric fan is not allowed to be used; In winter, even the electric blanket is not plugged in, let alone the heating, so wrap yourself in several quilts.
What's more, the old lady's temper, as long as she is awake, aunt must accompany her. If aunt didn't respond to the old lady's call in time and grabbed something and threw it around, it would be too ugly!
I put forward my own question: since it is so difficult to serve, why not go home to support the elderly? I am so old.
It turns out that my aunt's condition is not very good and she wants to earn more pension money, but no one wants to go out and look for a job at this age. Just as the old lady was looking for a nanny, she came to have a try.
It was really unbearable before, and I resigned. It was the old lady's children who begged me to stay. This old lady's family is also a distant relative of the aunt, so it's hard to refuse again.
Before she came, she was angry with the old lady for how many aunts she had found.
It's not that people don't want to work in nursing homes, but that the old people nowadays are really difficult to serve, with a big temper and many things.
There is a great demand for nannies in the market now, and there is a lot of choice. Who wants to find himself guilty unless absolutely necessary?
Looking for jobs in domestic companies, there are also many employers with elderly people.
It should be said that what no one wants to find is done by families with old people at home.
It's really hard to do it with an old nanny at the employer's house.
I'm a nanny, too. Let me talk about the family I used to work for.
I work as a day nanny from 8 am to 4 pm. There are six or seven people in my employer's family, and there are at least a dozen or twenty clothes a day, not including quilt cover, socks and shorts. Before washing clothes, I must check them carefully, and I must deal with the stains in advance. Most clothes are washed by hand. The room is nearly 300 square meters and has three bathrooms. The furniture, mirrors and walls of the room are very sanitary. The sanitation of the kitchen and dining room should be delayed three times a day. I'm going to cook a lunch for three people, usually four dishes, and I'm going to cook a dish for them at night. From entering the house to getting off work, I only have about ten minutes to sit and rest, and the rest of the time is busy, not to mention playing with my mobile phone and making phone calls.
But my employer's mother-in-law still feels that she has done less because she has never done it herself. She doesn't know how much she can do in a day. She thinks we are superman.
I kept doing it for 36 days and then resigned. I will never do it in a family with old people again. It's too difficult!
Older people have a lot to wait on and stare at you all day. Most of them are eccentric and unsanitary, and they are in a bad mood in such a family.
My sister is a housekeeper, a villa, high salary, good food and an old man. The two old people wiped their excrement and urine all day, didn't have enough food and didn't let them sleep at night. The two old people slept several times during the day and tossed about at night. Who do you think is willing to serve the elderly?
Seeing this question, I remembered an old couple who had served. It's not that I don't want to go to a family with old people. Old people are really troublesome.
It was the daughter of an old man who asked me to go, and I found it in a housekeeping company. At that time, it was agreed to do hourly work, three hours, two thousand a month. Cook a meal for the two old people and clean up. I'm about her daughter's age, and her daughter calls me big sister. Before arriving at her house, the old man's daughter said to me, "When I come to my house, my mother will ask you how much it costs in January, and you can say 1000 yuan a month." I said, "okay".
When I first went, the old woman was sick and a little picky about food. Old people can only eat rice and fry two dishes every day. Old women want to eat noodles, or steamed bread porridge, and like to eat hand-rolled miscellaneous grains noodles. Maybe it's because she has a bad appetite Sometimes she doesn't eat it when it's ready, and she cooks several meals every day. Sometimes she has an intravenous drip in the hospital, and I take my food to the hospital. She couldn't eat with a needle in her hand, so I fed her.
Slowly, the old woman recovered from her illness and was able to walk around the house. She went to the kitchen to watch me cook. Just watching, she always said, alas, the dishes are not chosen like this, not cut like this, and the pots and pans are in the wrong place. Cooking is not like this. In fact, she doesn't know how to cook at all I don't listen to her and do it in my own way. When I finished, I asked her if it was delicious. She said it was delicious, and that the braised chicken legs I cooked were better than those in the restaurant!
These are nothing. What saddens me most is that I once cooked braised pork ribs. Originally, I ate very little food at her house, so I basically didn't eat her meat dishes. At that time, I wanted to try braised pork ribs, so I put a piece in. The old woman saw it, and then gave the old man the remaining two pieces and put them all in her bowl, apparently because she didn't want me to eat them. Just a piece of meat. Can you eat her? That's why no one wants to go to a family with old people. It is stingy with many things.
If the old man doesn't do it, whose family can he do? No matter how hard and tired our children are, they will take care of themselves and will not hire a nanny. Then wait for dry rice!