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The collapse of adults always comes quietly, just like maggots in tarsal bones. You won't notice it on weekdays, but at an insignificant moment, your mood is like a breakwater.

There is a line in Dead Poets Society: Most people live in quiet despair.

Some people say that life is an abyss, but there are still people who can step on it and let the barren land blossom and bear fruit.

Two days ago, there was such a news: Hangzhou guy collapsed and cried after being stopped by cycling retrograde.

The thing is this: On March 3rd1,a young man riding a bicycle in Hangzhou, Zhejiang Province was stopped by the traffic police. After answering the phone, the young man suddenly collapsed and began to cry.

In the video, the young man said this after being stopped by the traffic police.

I'm crazy. I work overtime until eleven o'clock every day. My girlfriend doesn't have a key and wants me to give it to her. I'm really annoyed. I just want to cry.

It turned out that the young man was under too much pressure and accumulated too much resentment in his heart, so he couldn't hold on at that moment.

We know the hardships of life in other people's truth, but what we didn't expect was that life would make us "fragile", so fragile that a little thing could crush us.

Many times, faced with the hardships of life, we have all been frustrated in life.

Sometimes, such small things as biting our tongue and touching our toes on the legs of the table will make us emotionally collapse.

Actually, it's not that we make a mountain out of a molehill, but that's the last straw to crush the camel.

The collapse of adults has always been forbearance.

After this matter was put on Weibo, the Hangzhou guy was comforted by 40,000 netizens.

In fact, those words were not just to comfort the young man. We use those words to comfort the young man and comfort ourselves who are on the verge of collapse in life.

We comforted him because we saw the hardships we faced in life.

In the movie This Black Boy is Not Too Cold, the little girl asked the hero Leon, "Is life always so hard, or will it be better when I grow up?"

Leon calmly replied, "All the time."

When we were young, we could choose to cry when we were unhappy, but when we grew up, we gradually learned to face every collapse with silence.

The world of adults has long learned to clean up the feelings of collapse, just like a camel that is about to be crushed by straw. It always gnashes its teeth and says, I was fine until the last moment.

I remember last June, a migrant worker in Zhengzhou, Henan Province was sitting in the street crying. Only after asking did I know that this man is 32 years old and has a father with cancer at home. After four times of chemotherapy, there is no sign of improvement. The burden of life is all on him, his wife, children and his seriously ill father. ...

He said frankly: No one at home today, so I dare to come here and cry.

After crying bitterly, he stood up casually and walked home peacefully.

You never know how many times an adult is on the verge of collapse. Because even if they don't want to live, they dare not die easily.

Many times, when we face the disappointment of life, we are mostly helpless and sad.

I have seen such a picture on the Internet before:

In the picture, a well-dressed man is sitting in the heavy rain, drinking wine and crying. The heavy rain soaked his clothes, but everything around him seemed insignificant compared with his inner pain at the moment.

I think everyone who has experienced the hardships of life will feel sad when they see this photo.

No one knows why he sat there crying alone, but he can deeply understand. Because everyone who lives in this world has no burden to carry forward.

But even so, we are still alive and strong.

In the face of the hardships of life, we have all cried with our mouths in the middle of the night, and we have all thought about giving up in the night when no one is around, but life is always beautiful, life is always difficult, but everything will be fine.

The Hangzhou guy gave a positive response afterwards. Facing the hardships of life, he said that his girlfriend is his pistachio, and life is not so boring because of her ... The boss is also very good.

After experiencing the hardships of life, we can still see how beautiful the hope of life is.

There is no word "easy" in adult life, but if you stick to it, you will get different results.

In the movie Chasing Happyness, the master and his son lead a wandering life. Although life is very difficult, the master still has hope for life, and persists hard, and finally leads a happy life.

Isn't the story in the movie the real us?

In the face of life, there are such and such sufferings to be dealt with, and we need to persist under the weight of life.

We have all looked for our own value in this society and tried to live a happy life in the quagmire of society. We have been trying to live like masters in movies.

Life may be difficult now, but the meaning of life lies in persistence, no matter what tomorrow looks like, no matter how difficult life is. Stick to it and you will have a happy life.

In the movie, the protagonist asks himself this sentence: "Why do I look unhappy?"

Life is always so hard, but everything will be fine.

Murphy, the host of the popular dating show "If You Are the One" a few years ago.

In the past, Murphy only had a high school education. When he just graduated, he worked as a printer in Jiangsu Radio and Television Newspaper Printing Factory.

Later, when interviewed by People on CCTV, he said: In fact, I didn't know at that time, it was the lowest valley of my life, only knowing that life would pass.

I once heard a saying: Many times, in the face of the hardships of life, when we passed that hurdle and looked back, we found that everything was just that.

In fact, many times, in the face of many hardships in life, stick to it and one day it will pass. Life is about continuing to experience.

In the torrent of life, we may not have a firm foothold, but we have enough courage to face, persist and find our own happy life in this world.

Life is always unhappy, and there will always be suffering of one kind or another. When we can't take the next step, why not stop and try to slow ourselves down?

No matter what life is like, we must continue, and one day we will get through those hardships. Stick to it, and life will always usher in sunshine.

Faced with all kinds of difficulties in life, we are all people who have been working hard. We are all trying to persist and live hard.

I hope everyone who works hard will live affectionately in this changeable world and finally usher in a happy life.