1, avoid the first day of the first month.

New Year's Day is a holiday for family reunion. According to traditional customs, many places prohibit married daughters from returning to their parents' homes on the first day of the New Year's Day. Because in the concept of people in these areas, married daughters are like spilled water, and they need to get together with their in-laws during the New Year. If you go back to your parents' home for the New Year, it will lead to the situation that your husband's family can't get together.

The implication is that the married daughter is already someone else's daughter-in-law, and there must be many people in her husband's family coming to pay New Year greetings during the Chinese New Year. Daughter-in-law wants to help bring tea, so she can't go back to her family on the first day. On the first day of New Year's Day, the married daughter goes back to her family, which means that she has to eat poor at home, so she can only go back to her family on the second or third day.

2. It is not appropriate to go back to your mother's house on the day of sacrifice.

In Henan, because women don't sacrifice to the stove, it is not appropriate to go back to their parents' home on the day of sacrifice. Generally speaking, the bride should not stay at her parents' home for too long. If she stays too long, it is the fault of her husband's family and the fault of her parents' family. The married daughter is a guest, and it is inevitable to take it seriously.

What should my daughter pay attention to when she goes back to her family for the New Year?

1, you can send a red envelope to your parents to show your heart. My daughter returned to her parents' home with dignity, and her parents were happy, not because they were greedy for the red envelopes and gifts her daughter brought, but because they felt that her daughter could live well and have the money to honor her parents. Only when the daughter has a good life can she be comforted.

As a daughter, you should be considerate of your parents. If your daughter goes back to her parents' home to help them prepare meals and clean, their parents will feel the warmth of a small cotton-padded jacket, feel happy in their hearts and appreciate the joy of the New Year.