Self-esteem is a very important basic moral quality for successful women. This kind of moral character will make her deeply understand herself and feel her value and strength.

"You know what? I like myself, I really like myself, no matter what my parents say or what I think. I am very happy that I am myself. I am willing to be myself, not someone else in any era in history. " This positive self-suggestion is an important part of cultivating self-esteem.

Successful women need a strong sense of self-worth and self-confidence to survive. They are not born with this feeling, but learn to like themselves in life like other habits.

There is a phenomenon that very good offspring become losers. They can't inherit the family business or career of their ancestors, can't be accepted by society, and remain unknown for life. This may be because they have superior living conditions and no sense of urgency. Another kind of people is just the opposite. They came from humble origins and lacked self-confidence in childhood, but later they were very successful. It can be seen that every step of life should strive to climb up, overcome the harsh environment and get out of adversity in order to succeed. An important reason for the slow progress of some women is their poor self-esteem.

Successful women have strong self-esteem and can see their progress.

Many women are vague about personal development: on the one hand, they look for opportunities, on the other hand, they give up opportunities. Although they know that they can succeed if they seize the opportunity to overcome difficulties, they dare not imagine that such a thing will happen in their lives. They are afraid of being losers in the competition of life. They just look forward to opportunities, or simply stay away from any troubles in life. Women who live a mediocre life are used to focusing on negative factors such as marriage failure, which makes them artificially expand the scope of failure and be controlled by the environment. Some women always have high goals, but they are unrealistic. When their goals fail one after another, they have a subconscious negative attitude towards their goals. In other words, they fixed the mindset that "survival is an illusion" in failure.

Women who talk big in life will shout loudly to attract others' attention. They need help because they lack confidence in themselves. In fact, they shouted: "help me, please look at me!" " "They are all fragile women. They don't believe in their own abilities and others. Because they are afraid of failure, they always treat themselves and others with a defensive attitude, trying to make themselves no longer suffer from blows and pains. They simply don't believe that they can survive and succeed. For them, this is just a dream.

Many women suffered setbacks. Women who fail will blame their frustration on "unfair opportunities", so they are always angry and easy to get angry. Such people feel that they are not worthy of respect, doubt their abilities, and even doubt the coming opportunities. Jealousy and many marital disasters are mostly due to the fatal weakness of self-doubt. And those successful women with strong self-esteem are friendly to others, never impose on others, and can clearly and objectively understand the reality.

Now there is a tendency among women to pay attention to clothes and appearance, which is like bragging to others. In fact, women who love to dress up have low self-esteem. Their self-esteem may be much less than their own clothes and cosmetics. Only people with high self-esteem can show their calmness, modesty and courtesy to the society.

The word "respect" itself has the meaning from consciousness to value. To know that man is a great creator of life, we can think, experience and change our environment and love. Never lower your value until you know yourself fully and effectively.

Self-confidence is the paving stone for survival. When a woman begins to do something, she should have confidence, and then she will experience the feeling of success. Just like learning to ride a bike, ski, figure skate, fly at a high level and become a leader. Success brings real happiness. Successful women will soon forget past failures and remember past victories. They think that making mistakes is an opportunity to learn and then put them behind them.

A failed woman always remembers past failures and forgets past victories. Moreover, they will not only remember the failure, but also integrate it into their own thoughts and feelings, and sometimes condemn themselves. In this way, their self-esteem gradually disappeared.

Successful women know that it doesn't matter how many times they have failed in the past. It is important to remember your success, deepen your impression and study it carefully.

To enhance self-esteem, we must concentrate on survival. Regard failures and disappointments in life as feedback to achieve goals.

You should fully understand yourself from the aspects of ability, interest and goal. In this way, from the beginning, we must make purposeful efforts to make our life move towards high-level goals. To improve self-esteem, we should pay more attention to rational action, decision-making and thinking, which is much more important than just relying on feelings. Emotion is a natural and subconscious reflection, which has little to do with our success in society. In the daily experience and the influence of life, feelings are just useless brain activities. Surviving women are also immersed in how their feelings overcome the psychological impact of success-just like children testing the depth, excitement, joy and sympathy of love. But in the end, they still use logic and conventions to judge their lives. The relationship between marriage and love generally deteriorated. One of the important reasons is that women put too much emotion into marriage and love. After losing their self-esteem and self-reliance, they demand more dependence and protection from men.

To improve and enhance self-esteem, we need to find fun in our daily work, find something to be proud of, and constantly tap the "diamond" in our hearts. Secondly, efforts should be made to change the inner reaction, which is much stronger than looking for external simulation in a new environment. Constantly looking for opportunities to grow. It is also in this process that successful women with self-esteem show themselves. Since we haven't discovered the perfect human nature. There will be obstacles and gaps in our life, so we should learn to tolerate ourselves and others.

A very important aspect of self-esteem is self-acceptance-being yourself willingly. Shakespeare explained: "All this is true for you; After the day is the night-for anyone, this can't be false. "I believe you will succeed. If I keep hinting at myself, I will succeed. In the research on the influence of language and the speculation on the function of human imagination, we can see that language has amazing power. Through biofeedback instruments, it is proved that language can control people's functions.

Because imagination can make people's body temperature rise or fall, it can help secrete hormones, relax muscles, give people the power to overcome death, expand or narrow blood vessels, speed up or slow down pulse beating, etc. Therefore, you should learn to control your thoughts and know the language you use. Successful women should know how to use positive self-suggestion methods. The common expressions of successful women are: "I can …" "I'm looking forward to …" "I believe I can do well next time …" "I feel good." The loser seems to fall into the trap and always says, "I can't …" "I can't …" "I hope …" "Yes, but …" Successful women can accept compliments calmly. However, a failed woman seems to lack self-confidence at this point. When others see her value, she underestimates herself.

Taking humility as the reason for the failure of failed women is untenable and an excuse for inferiority. In fact, they always listen subconsciously, understand those negative and harsh words and store them as facts.

Successful women only say "thank you" when they are praised. They all accept the attention that others give them.

Studying those successful women, we can see that strong self-esteem is their common feature. Many of them didn't realize their self-worth when they were young. Really successful women have their own unique views in sports, business, art and other fields of life. They want others to know themselves and take it as something meaningful. They will naturally attract friends and supporters. They are not alone.

Successful women can realize their potential. They like themselves because they have a deep understanding of their own value, and they are eager to love others like themselves.

Successful women have a profound experience of self-worth. They know that they are different from others, and self-acceptance and self-help do not need to be inherited from smart parents. Many great men in history came from poor families. Successful women don't lose their direction. They know their own advantages and will go further. Although they also have many fears and worries, they will not give in to these feelings. The failed woman said to herself, "I wish I were someone else." Successful women hint to themselves: "I do things well because I am such a person." It is not selfish to realize that you are a correct, imperfect, changing, growing, valuable and different woman. In addition to being proud of your achievements, it is more important to be interested in yourself as a unique person. You know, although I was born with different conditions, I was born with the right to feel excited and enjoy a better life. Most successful women believe in their self-worth. When they have no achievements, they can strengthen their confidence even in their dreams. Healthy self-esteem is the gateway to a successful and happy life.

Keen self-awareness ability

Successful women are ambitious people and can see many choices in various environments. They value the connection between things more than the things themselves.

To succeed, on the one hand, they need to make more and more arduous efforts than men; On the other hand, they must have certain psychological quality.

Self-awareness is the true feeling that every survivor has experienced. Self-awareness enables us to understand our potential abilities and enrich our knowledge. So far, humans have only used a small part of the brain, so everyone has great potential.

Self-awareness makes us understand that we should look for new things in our life every day and be ready to make the right choice at any time to open the road to success. Nowadays, women are no longer women with little feet, machines for giving birth to children, and accessories for men. They have as developed brains and sound minds as men, and have as great lives as men. But such a life must be based on truth and loyalty, and modern women should show their strength and strive for final success. In any case, women who survive should have the ability to adapt and always examine themselves: "Is this true?" If you think about what you want to do very realistically, what you want to do will become reliable.

Successful women are very sensitive to what they need to do, but they are different from others. They always realize that the clock keeps turning and their lives are constantly losing. They know that they must hurry for success.

Successful women know who they are, what they believe, the role they play in real life, their potential abilities, the role they will assume in the future and the goals they will achieve. They constantly learn and deepen their understanding of themselves through experience or insight, feedback and judgment. In short, they don't just rely on their hands and feet to do things in life, but use their brains and give full play to their wisdom. They are used to identifying everything in an honest way. They don't deceive others or themselves.

Learn to observe what happens in life, find out the possibility of achieving your goals, and adjust your mentality and lifestyle at any time according to your own changes. In this way, your environment will become better. We should know our strengths and know our differences from them. We should learn to cope with all kinds of tense situations freely, change everything that can be changed in a good direction, change the negative effects that can be changed at present, and adapt and adjust the negative factors that cannot be eliminated.

Active self-control

The self-control of successful women is active, while the self-control of failed women is passive.

In the psychological category of studying survivors, self-control and self-determination are synonymous.

Successful women will take full responsibility for their actions. They believe in the "causal" relationship, that the program of life is designed by themselves, and that self-control is to choose personal freedom and control one's own destiny.

A failed woman believes in fate and luck, and that life is determined by environment, fate and opportunity. They succumb to difficulties and worries, give up their subjective initiative and creative potential, and they will not survive. Most indecisive women who are afraid of making mistakes cannot get close to their goals. In fact, they have long put themselves in the ranks of losers and struggled to live in mediocrity.

Every woman is just herself, because there are always individual differences between women and each has its own model. Congenital factors and living environment give them initial influence, but these influences do not determine whether they win or lose in the competition of life.

Therefore, no matter how humble your present position and situation are, you should encourage yourself and try to find your own advantages and values.

The self-control of successful women is manifested in their 100% sense of responsibility for life. Successful women realize that their control is the key to their physical and mental health, and self-control can keep their bodies in the best competitive state. The failed woman said, "I don't understand why life arranged for me to do this." A successful woman said, "I believe that everything I do is what I must and should do."

Carefully analyze yourself and determine your position, and you can start to control yourself in many ways. Learn how to successfully answer and adapt to the pressure in life. With a sense of responsibility for yourself, your loved ones and society to achieve your goals; You have the key to your action, and you can deal with those who want to disturb you. The essence of self-control is to understand that everything in life requires perseverance and patience. Each of us will face many choices, more than we expected. Successful women can make wise choices at any time and influence the occurrence and development of what they choose.

Act like a winner.

Successful women show the appearance of success: they understand the role they play, imagine according to the pictures they see, the feelings they experience and the language they hear, and thus shape their desired self-image.

Although there are many contradictions between personal behavior and real life, what individuals have done or are eager to do is based on self-image.

Self-image is the basic way to understand human behavior. If you change your self-image, you change your personality and behavior. The great plastic surgeon Dr. Maxwell Motz said in Psychocybernetics: "The most important discovery of psychology in this century is self-image."

Every one of us has been weaving a web of self-image since childhood: from childish ideas in childhood to the accumulation of every experience, from humiliation to the joy of survival, we are enriching and creating self-image everywhere.

In social life, women are often dominated by the restricted self-image, which makes them think they are weak, powerless and unresponsive, thus forming a subordinate subconscious.

Nowadays, the trend that women want to be independent has become a social movement. The so-called "women's liberation" should be called "women's reform" When women's self-image is improved, their behaviors and goals are also improved.