But there are also very few people whose physical gender does not match their psychological gender. Zhang is such a person. Because of physical and psychological differences, he has been living in great pain, so he boldly chose transsexuality and became the first man in China to try it.
Tomboy Zhang
Zhang's family conditions are good, but his parents are also thrifty people. He has five brothers and 1 sister. He is the seventh child, and his brothers refuse to wear clothes that his sister cannot wear. At that time, he was still young and had no gender consciousness at all, so he often wore clothes that his sister didn't want.
Although a person's gender is innate, his understanding of his gender is acquired. At the age of unknown gender, Zhang's parents did not teach him relevant gender knowledge, but dressed him according to the girl's appearance.
Children in many families used to be like this. When they grow up and have more contact with their peers, this kind of gender awareness will be developed, and it is estimated that they will be excluded from wearing girls' clothes like Zhang's brothers.
But until Zhang grew up, the most playmates around him were girls. He has been playing all kinds of games with girls of his own age, but these girls didn't know anything when they were young and didn't have gender consciousness, so they wouldn't avoid doing things.
Children of this age imitate and imitate the ways of people around them. Zhang often plays with girls of the same age, and naturally he will be influenced by these girls and imitate their behavior.
Under this long-term influence, Zhang even squatted and urinated, and all kinds of behaviors tended to be girls. Even in his own cognition, he is a girl, so he refuses to pay attention to his hair, so he has long hair and wears a whip like the girls around him.
When he was young, he had nothing. Children don't care if they go to the ladies' room with other girls, but it's different when they are older.
When I was in high school, everyone had a strong sense of gender. Zhang objectively understood his gender, but in his mind, he was still a girl, and being with boys would make him uncomfortable, let alone going to the men's room.
Zhang's abnormality was soon discovered by the teacher, and he talked to his parents. Young Zhang couldn't stand all kinds of strange eyes around him and chose to drop out of school and stay at home for a while. He accidentally found a chance to really become a woman, so he started the next life.
Become a woman
Zhang accidentally learned that someone in this world has successfully changed sex. Although there is no such precedent in China, as long as he finds a hospital big enough, there is still great hope to fulfill this wish.
Zhang was born in a military family and was most familiar with the military. The best hospital he knew at that time was the General Hospital of Guangzhou Military Region. In order to get close to this hospital and realize his wish, his first step was to become a soldier.
During Zhang joined the army, he still didn't have a chance to wait for him. He lived with a group of men for three years, which made him very painful. The only thing that makes him feel gratified is that in recent years, he has secretly taken a friend and injected him with a lot of estrogen. Now he is more and more feminine.
After leaving the army, Zhang has always insisted that he is a woman, which has caused great trouble to his life, because men can't suddenly become women, many formalities can't be left, and jobs have never been settled.
Finally, with the help of relatives and friends, he successfully entered a toy factory, which is a Sino-foreign joint venture factory in Dongguan. Zhang entered as a woman, and no one found his abnormality.
Although he is a woman on the surface, Zhang's primary sexual characteristics have not changed. From a biological point of view, he is still alone. Zhang is still thinking about ways. It was not until this winter that he read the newspaper and learned that he was a "gender identity disorder" and realized that he needed the approval of the higher authorities to change sex.
Zhang's family conditions are good. Under the operation of all aspects, he finally had the opportunity to do such an operation. For the first time in China, this operation was done with a research attitude. The operation process was also sealed as research data, but it was a big event at that time, and many people in Shiliba Village still knew about it.
Zhang's operation was very successful. He became a woman and changed the name of Sha to Sha. From then on, she lived as a woman.
After Zhang's successful transsexuality, he got a job. Many people are curious about what transgender people look like, so they often bother her. Her first boyfriend, who didn't mind her transgender identity, broke up with her under the pressure of her family, which made her suffer greatly.
At this time, Zhang remembered Xiao, a Hong Kong shareholder who liked her when she was working in a toy factory.
Transgender people also have human rights.
Zhang was hit, so she wanted to live in a place where no one knew her, so that she wouldn't be influenced by other people's strange eyes.
So she found Mr. Xiao and married him. Zhang made it clear from the beginning that she wanted to live in another place. Mr. Xiao didn't care, just liked her, but Mr. Xiao didn't know her transgender identity.
After marriage, she followed Mr. Xiao to live in Hong Kong. At first, Mr. Xiao wanted her to be a full-time housewife, but Zhang didn't want to go out to work, so Mr. Xiao had to follow her.
Zhang is beautiful, and his Mandarin is good. Many people like her and her career is getting bigger and bigger, but God played a joke on her again. The reason why she wants to change local life is that she doesn't want to see people's strange eyes again. However, it happened that she met her hometown in Hong Kong, and the hometown threatened Zhang with her identity. In the end, Zhang gave his hometown 300,000 yuan.
Later, Zhang, my mother, died soon after her husband's death. The successive deaths of two close relatives have dealt a great blow to Zhang. She decided to summon up courage, write her own experience, awaken everyone's conscience and let people know that transgender people also have human rights. She doesn't want another person like herself to live as sad as herself.
She wrote an autobiography called A Woman's Dream. Now her deeds are known by more and more people, and more and more people pay attention to her existence. People's views on transgender people are not as strange as they used to be.
When facing people who are different from us, everyone will subconsciously show contempt. If this person is different from all of us, then this look is likely to turn into ridicule, but we must understand that everyone has their own unique places that we need to accept. The world should allow differences, which is the embodiment of the progress of our social civilization.
Zhang's gender cognition is different from that of most people. She is different from us, but she has the courage to be herself and bear strange eyes.
Not to mention the theme of transsexuality in the last era, even though the society has developed to the present, many people still can't accept it, but Zhang did it. She changed many people's views with her example.
Zhang is not the only transsexual in China now, and people's recognition of transsexuality is also increasing, which shows that social civilization has made great progress, but there are still some discriminatory phenomena, which should not appear, and there is still much room for progress in our social civilization.
On the other hand, the appearance of transgender people is the mismatch between their physiological gender and psychological cognition, in other words, the lack of sex education. It is necessary to do a good job in sex education for children when they are young, so that children can have a clear understanding of their gender from an early age and match their physiology and psychology.
Transgender people should get legal support, and the state should protect them from the legal level. Then more of us will accept them more and let them have a normal life, without accepting other people's strange eyes. Everyone should be brave enough to be who they really are.