Therefore, you won't be happy with such a husband, because he doesn't care about you at all, doesn't love you and is not suitable for you. So there is no dutiful son in front of the hospital bed for a long time. After a long time, your husband has shown you this bad nature.
This essence cannot be changed. Because a leopard cannot change his spots, he may change his love for you, or he may change his view of you because there is someone else outside.