Chen Taiqiu went on a trip with his friends. Taiqiu gave up before the middle of the day. After you go, forget it.
Fiona Fang is seven years old and playing outside the door. Chen Taiqiu's friend asked Fiona Fang, "Is your father there?" ? "Hui Yuan replied," My father waited for you for a long time, and you left before you arrived. The friend got angry and said, "No humanity!" Walk with people, walk with people. "Fiona Fang said," if you and your family don't meet at noon, you will break your promise; It is impolite to scold your father. "
A friend is ashamed and gets off the bus. Anyway, Fiona Fang started.
Translation:
Chen Taiqiu invited friends to go out and meet at noon. It's past noon, Taiqiu left without waiting. Only after Qiu left did the talents come. Chen Yuanfang, the eldest son of Qiu, was playing outside the door when he was seven years old. The man asked Fiona Fang, "Is your father at home?" Fiona Fang replied, "If you haven't come for a long time, he has already left." The man lost his temper and scolded, "What a shame! I asked someone else to go with me, but I left without them. " Fiona Fang said, "You have an appointment with my father to start together at noon. If you don't arrive at noon, you will not keep your word. " It is impolite to scold your father for your son. The man felt ashamed. He got out of the car and tried to shake hands with Fiona Fang, but he walked into his car door without looking back.
2. Don't give up in a hurry
Translation:
Hua Xin and Wang Lang both took refuge by boat, and one of them wanted to attach it, but it was difficult to attach it. Lang said, "Fortunately, it is still wide. Why not? " After the thief chased him, the king wanted to give up his man. Xin said, "That's why I became suspicious." Now that you have accepted it, why not rush to abandon evil and do good? "So I saved my life as before. The world used this to judge the merits and demerits of China and the king.
Hua Xin and Wang Lang took refuge together by boat. One of them wanted to take their boat, and Huaxin was embarrassed. Wang Lang said, "Fortunately, it is spacious on the boat. What's the problem? " After a while, the bandits caught up with him, and Wang Lang wanted to leave the people who had just boarded the boat. Hua Xin said, "That's why I hesitated just now." Now that we have accepted him aboard, how can we leave him because of an emergency? "So I continued to take him on the road. The world also judged the merits and demerits of the two kings.
2. Are there any ancient poems about honesty and etiquette? Hello ● Only sincerity is the ability in the world.
Only the most sincere heart in the world can influence the people in the Book of Rites. ● Honest people, heaven also; If you think sincerely, you will learn from others.
Mencius on Li Lou is sincere, which is the principle of nature; Sincerity is the principle of being a man. A gentleman keeps his word, and his deeds will bear fruit.
"Book of Changes Family" said: Talk. Material: actual content.
Good: behavior. Constant: perseverance.
A gentleman speaks with facts and works with perseverance. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it, and a villain talks and doesn't do it.
"Confucius Family Language Yan Hui Confucius Language" A gentleman speaks with actions, but a villain only says and does not do it. Treat yourself, things and situations sincerely.
Xue Ming Xuan Du Lu should be based on sincerity when evaluating himself, obeying superiors and leading subordinates. ● In ancient times, people who were sincere would be successful.
Tang Hanyu's Original Moral Honesty: Purify the mind and be sincere in thought. Will: I will.
Youwei: Make a difference. You must be sincere if you want to make a difference.
● Writing is behavior-oriented, honesty first. Liu Tang Zongyuan's book "Reporting Yuan Jun and Chen Xiucai to Avoid Teachers' Names" is based on moral behavior, and honesty ranks first in virtue.
● If you want to cultivate yourself, you should be upright first; If you want to be right, be sincere first. Tang Hanyu's "The Original Road" Those who want to cultivate their self-cultivation must first purify their thoughts.
To be pure, we must first make our thoughts sincere. ● If there are words that can push to the heart of sincerity and never stop, then the world can move and the stone can move.
Su Songzhe's "Respecting Evil and Righteousness" is written with sincerity and care, so that rock-solid things can undergo earth-shaking changes. ● Sincerity opens the stone.
"Miscellanies of Xijing" Volume 5 Sincerity: Great Sincerity. Stone clears the way: something as solid as stone is also moved.
It is said that sincerity can infect people most. ● Sincerely add that the stone is a loss.
Wang Hanchong's "On the Sense of Deficiency in Balance" Honesty: Honesty. Loss: loss.
As long as you work sincerely, any difficulty can be overcome. ● Sincere feelings, moving everywhere.
Song and Wu Chuhou's "Green Room Miscellaneous Notes" are sincere: sincere. Feeling: feeling.
Sincerity can touch everything. People's behavior is honest.
Song words and deeds: ethics. Honesty is the highest quality of a person.
Being honest and able to survive is the source and foundation of all good deeds. Song Zhuxi's benevolence practice has preserved a sincere heart, which is the source of a better life and the foundation of a better action.
● Integrity is the foundation of self-cultivation, and kindness is the foundation of integrity. Song Zhuxi's Notes on Four Books and Notes on Mencius take honesty as the criterion, which is the key to self-cultivation.
● In case of fraud, be moved by sincerity; If you meet a violent person, steam it with kindness. Ming Hong Zicheng's Caigen Tan touched the deceiver with sincerity and influenced him with kindness when he met a rude and perverse person.
● Gold will not be refined if it is mixed with copper and iron; Virtue is not pure if it is adulterated with falsehood. Xue Mingxuan's experience of reading records means that selfish thoughts have influenced people's purity of virtue.
● I believe that the reason why heaven and earth are endless, the reason why the country is established, and the reason why the sages' virtues can last for a long time are sincere. The thief of Zeng Guofan's Congratulations to the Couple Geng Zhongcheng in Qing Dynasty: Modesty refers to personal opinions.
I think the key to the continuous operation of heaven and earth, the establishment and consolidation of the country, and the development and persistence of the moral cause of outstanding people lies in sincerity. If you forget everything, you will lose everything.
Ren Yun, written by Qinggutu River, may fail after careful consideration, and it will not succeed without sincerity. ● God is indifferent to sincerity.
There is nothing more sacred than perfect sincerity in Zhang Song's "Su Shu". ● An honest man is the foundation of a saint and the source of a hundred lines.
Song and Zhou Dunyi's "General Book" is sincere, which is the foundation of outstanding people and the source of prosperity of all industries. Line (háng): occupation, affairs.
● A gentleman does not bully. Song and Zhou Dunyi's "Gan Kun" chapter 3 1, hard work: self-improvement.
A gentleman strives for self-improvement to achieve sincerity. ● Touching and unpretentious.
Mr. Bao Fang's complete works are sincere: sincere. False: false.
Touch others with sincerity rather than hypocrisy. ● Self-cultivation is nothing but sincerity.
Zhu Mingzhi's "Two Poems of Honesty" cultivates oneself with sincerity, treats others with sincerity, and handles the relationship between good people. ● Sages know everything, and if they are dishonest, they cannot be popularized.
Xunzi's sage is omniscient, but he is not sincere and can't influence all people. ● A gentleman is not good at honesty.
The most important thing about Xunzi's self-cultivation is personal sincerity. ● Sincere and interest-free.
There is no end to sincerity in The Doctrine of the Mean. Always encourage yourself with sincerity.
● If you don't study honestly, you will learn miscellaneous things; If you don't do things honestly, you will fail. Song Chao Shuo-zhi's "Chaozhou Hakka" course: discussing knowledge.
Miscellaneous: chaos. Doing things: doing things.
● Being mean doesn't make money, and being honest doesn't lose money. Feng Ming magnum "wake up, keep the promise, sell the flower base without lang" means: heartless.
Honesty never hurts, but meanness never benefits. ● Do things in a down-to-earth manner and don't show your face.
Feng Ming magnum's "warning the world, the situation is too defensive to die" is down-to-earth: a metaphor for doing things down-to-earth and being serious. Fame: the reputation of a bear.
Do things seriously and don't pursue the reputation of being a bear. ● Thick people don't destroy others to benefit themselves, and benevolent people are famous for not harming others.
Du Qing Wen Lan's "Old Proverbs" implies that people do not harm others but benefit themselves, and seek fame without harming others. Honest people hate greed, and believers are sick.
The Biography of Chen Ziang in the New Tang Dynasty is clean and honest. Greed: corruption.
Faith: sincerity. Illness and falsehood: hate hypocritical behavior.
Disease: hatred, disgust. Clean people hate greed, honest people hate hypocrisy.
● Heaven cannot be faked. The hypocrisy of Shi's "Chaozhou Chinese Temple Monument" is intolerable to God.
● Sincerity is better than hypocrisy. Yan Zhitui's "Yan Jiaxun Shi Ming" in the Northern Dynasties is not as clever as sincere and frank.
Low flashy, empty and useless. Everything is wrong, but it seems vague and unrealistic because of its gorgeous appearance and lack of actual content.
● Do not listen to false words, do not listen to floating techniques, do not use Chinese names, and do not falsify things. Han Xunyue's Shen Jian Custom does not listen to rhetoric, does not believe in unrealistic methods, does not seek flashy fame, and does not do hypocritical things.
Adults are flashy, and gentlemen are pragmatic. Fu's "On the Latent Husband" Excellent people don't pursue superficiality, while cultured and prestigious people are committed to reality.
● Since ancient times.
3. Are there any ancient poems about honesty and etiquette? Hello ● Only sincerity is the ability in the world.
Only the most sincere heart in the world can influence the people in the Book of Rites. ● Honest people, heaven also; If you think sincerely, you will learn from others.
Mencius on Li Lou is sincere, which is the principle of nature; Sincerity is the principle of being a man. A gentleman keeps his word, and his deeds will bear fruit.
"Book of Changes Family" said: Talk. Material: actual content.
Good: behavior. Constant: perseverance.
A gentleman speaks with facts and works with perseverance. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it, and a villain talks and doesn't do it.
"Confucius Family Language Yan Hui Confucius Language" A gentleman speaks with actions, but a villain only says and does not do it. Treat yourself, things and situations sincerely.
Xue Ming Xuan Du Lu should be based on sincerity when evaluating himself, obeying superiors and leading subordinates. ● In ancient times, people who were sincere would be successful.
Tang Hanyu's Original Moral Honesty: Purify the mind and be sincere in thought. Will: I will.
Youwei: Make a difference. You must be sincere if you want to make a difference.
● Writing is behavior-oriented, honesty first. Liu Tang Zongyuan's book "Reporting Yuan Jun and Chen Xiucai to Avoid Teachers' Names" is based on moral behavior, and honesty ranks first in virtue.
● If you want to cultivate yourself, you should be upright first; If you want to be right, be sincere first. Tang Hanyu's "The Original Road" Those who want to cultivate their self-cultivation must first purify their thoughts.
To be pure, we must first make our thoughts sincere. ● If there are words that can push to the heart of sincerity and never stop, then the world can move and the stone can move.
Su Songzhe's "Respecting Evil and Righteousness" is written with sincerity and care, so that rock-solid things can undergo earth-shaking changes. ● Sincerity opens the stone.
"Miscellanies of Xijing" Volume 5 Sincerity: Great Sincerity. Stone clears the way: something as solid as stone is also moved.
It is said that sincerity can infect people most. ● Sincerely add that the stone is a loss.
Wang Hanchong's "On the Sense of Deficiency in Balance" Honesty: Honesty. Loss: loss.
As long as you work sincerely, any difficulty can be overcome. ● Sincere feelings, moving everywhere.
Song and Wu Chuhou's "Green Room Miscellaneous Notes" are sincere: sincere. Feeling: feeling.
Sincerity can touch everything. People's behavior is honest.
Song words and deeds: ethics. Honesty is the highest quality of a person.
Being honest and able to survive is the source and foundation of all good deeds. Song Zhuxi's benevolence practice has preserved a sincere heart, which is the source of a better life and the foundation of a better action.
● Integrity is the foundation of self-cultivation, and kindness is the foundation of integrity. Song Zhuxi's Notes on Four Books and Notes on Mencius take honesty as the criterion, which is the key to self-cultivation.
● In case of fraud, be moved by sincerity; If you meet a violent person, steam it with kindness. Ming Hong Zicheng's Caigen Tan touched the deceiver with sincerity and influenced him with kindness when he met a rude and perverse person.
● Gold will not be refined if it is mixed with copper and iron; Virtue is not pure if it is adulterated with falsehood. Xue Mingxuan's experience of reading records means that selfish thoughts have influenced people's purity of virtue.
● I believe that the reason why heaven and earth are endless, the reason why the country is established, and the reason why the sages' virtues can last for a long time are sincere. The thief of Zeng Guofan's Congratulations to the Couple Geng Zhongcheng in Qing Dynasty: Modesty refers to personal opinions.
I think the key to the continuous operation of heaven and earth, the establishment and consolidation of the country, and the development and persistence of the moral cause of outstanding people lies in sincerity. If you forget everything, you will lose everything.
Ren Yun, written by Qinggutu River, may fail after careful consideration, and it will not succeed without sincerity. ● God is indifferent to sincerity.
There is nothing more sacred than perfect sincerity in Zhang Song's "Su Shu". ● An honest man is the foundation of a saint and the source of a hundred lines.
Song and Zhou Dunyi's "General Book" is sincere, which is the foundation of outstanding people and the source of prosperity of all industries. Line (háng): occupation, affairs.
● A gentleman does not bully. Song and Zhou Dunyi's "Gan Kun" chapter 3 1, hard work: self-improvement.
A gentleman strives for self-improvement to achieve sincerity. ● Touching and unpretentious.
Mr. Bao Fang's complete works are sincere: sincere. False: false.
Touch others with sincerity rather than hypocrisy. ● Self-cultivation is nothing but sincerity.
Zhu Mingzhi's "Two Poems of Honesty" cultivates oneself with sincerity, treats others with sincerity, and handles the relationship between good people. ● Sages know everything, and if they are dishonest, they cannot be popularized.
Xunzi's sage is omniscient, but he is not sincere and can't influence all people. ● A gentleman is not good at honesty.
The most important thing about Xunzi's self-cultivation is personal sincerity. ● Sincere and interest-free.
There is no end to sincerity in The Doctrine of the Mean. Always encourage yourself with sincerity.
● If you don't study honestly, you will learn miscellaneous things; If you don't do things honestly, you will fail. Song Chao Shuo-zhi's "Chaozhou Hakka" course: discussing knowledge.
Miscellaneous: chaos. Doing things: doing things.
● Being mean doesn't make money, and being honest doesn't lose money. Feng Ming magnum "wake up, keep the promise, sell the flower base without lang" means: heartless.
Honesty never hurts, but meanness never benefits. ● Do things in a down-to-earth manner and don't show your face.
Feng Ming magnum's "warning the world, the situation is too defensive to die" is down-to-earth: a metaphor for doing things down-to-earth and being serious. Fame: the reputation of a bear.
Do things seriously and don't pursue the reputation of being a bear. ● Thick people don't destroy others to benefit themselves, and benevolent people are famous for not harming others.
Du Qing Wen Lan's "Old Proverbs" implies that people do not harm others but benefit themselves, and seek fame without harming others. Honest people hate greed, and believers are sick.
The Biography of Chen Ziang in the New Tang Dynasty is clean and honest. Greed: corruption.
Faith: sincerity. Illness and falsehood: hate hypocritical behavior.
Disease: hatred, disgust. Clean people hate greed, honest people hate hypocrisy.
● Heaven cannot be faked. The hypocrisy of Shi's "Chaozhou Chinese Temple Monument" is intolerable to God.
● Sincerity is better than hypocrisy. Yan Zhitui's "Yan Jiaxun Shi Ming" in the Northern Dynasties is not as clever as sincere and frank.
Low flashy, empty and useless. Everything is wrong, but it seems vague and unrealistic because of its gorgeous appearance and lack of actual content.
● Do not listen to false words, do not listen to floating techniques, do not use Chinese names, and do not falsify things. Han Xunyue's Shen Jian Custom does not listen to rhetoric, does not believe in unrealistic methods, does not seek flashy fame, and does not do hypocritical things.
Adults are flashy, and gentlemen are pragmatic. Fu's "On the Latent Husband" Excellent people don't pursue superficiality, while cultured and prestigious people are committed to reality.
Help me find some articles or fables about honesty, the more the better. After being thrown into the water by the "smart" young man, Honesty swam desperately and finally came to an island.
"Honesty" means lying on the beach and resting, planning to wait for a passing friend to allow him to take a boat to save his life. Suddenly, Honesty heard waves of cheerful and relaxed music in the distance.
He immediately stood up and looked in the direction of the music: he saw a ship coming this way. There is a small flag on the boat with the word "Happy" written on it. It turned out to be a happy ship.
"Honesty" shouted: "Happy, happy, I am honest, can you pull me back to the shore?" Hearing this, "Happy" smiled and said to "Honest": "No,no.. Once I am honest, I won't be happy. You see how many people in this society are unhappy because they tell the truth. Sorry, there's nothing I can do. " Say, "happy" is gone.
After a while, "status" came again. Honesty shouted: "status, I am honest." Can I take your boat home? " "Status" rowed the boat away and said to "Honesty": "No, Honesty can't take my boat. My position is hard-won! With your integrity, I am unlucky, and even my position is hard to keep! " Looking at the back of "status" honestly and disappointedly, my eyes are full of incomprehension and doubt, and I continue to wait. With a rhythmic but discordant voice coming, "competitors" came by boat, and "Honesty" shouted, "Competition, competition, can I take your boat?" The competitor asked, "Who are you and how much benefit can you give us?" I don't want to say "sincerity" for fear of being ignored, but "sincerity" is sincerity after all. He said, "I'm honest ..." "You're honest, aren't you willing to give us any trouble? Now the competition is so fierce, how dare we' unfair competition' ask you to be honest? " Said, and roared off.
Just when honesty was almost desperate, a kind voice came from a distance: "son, get on the boat!" " A white-haired old man is at the helm. He said, "I am an old man of time." "Then why did you save me? The old man smiled and said, "Only time knows how important honesty is!" On the way back, the old days pointed to the "happiness", "status" and "competition" that fell into the water and said meaningfully: "Without honesty, happiness is not long-lasting, status is false, and competition is also a failure. "
5. I am anxious for an honest composition, not the kind of ancient prose. Thank you. When it comes to honesty in ancient and modern times, I remember Confucius once said, "You keep your word, but you are a villain!" I don't agree with this.
Sometimes I wonder, is it because the disciples misremembered the teacher's words when compiling The Analects of Confucius? If Mr. Kong was on the boat, he would never leave his backpack "honestly". I believe.
China has a tradition of "keeping promises", perhaps more trustworthy than the Germans. There are many examples of the Warring States policy, not to mention the extreme example of "the tail is too big to fail".
Enough to make the younger generation proud! But strangely, on the contrary, the subsequent evolution was unexpected. First of all, everything is done by Han Feizi in order to dispel "sincerity"; Later, many strategists took Confucius' original doubts as the standard.
It is no wonder that Kang Youwei wrote a book "A Study of New Learning and Pseudo-Classics", saying that the Analects of Confucius was forged by later rogues. There are many examples of this change in literary works.
In Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Lu Su's honesty is obvious to all, and finally ends with a comment by Mao Zonggang: Loyalty is a useless alias. A little sad.
Who are you sorry for? Lu Su or Mao Zonggang? I may have gone a little too far, but I'm really disappointed. The new culture movement swept away all these bad "cultures", which is a great good thing and deserves applause.
The next task we face is to advocate the fine tradition of "honesty-oriented" and "keeping promises" and practice it. Let me say one thing here, which may be worth pondering.
Freshmen report to Peking University. There were many things that day, such as getting a meal ticket, getting a student ID card, making the bed, buying a thermos bottle ... Freshman was carrying heavy luggage and didn't know what to do. It happened that an old man crossed the street. When I was a freshman, I thought I was a workmate, so I asked the master to look after my luggage, okay? The old man agreed.
Later, the freshman went to work. From morning to night, freshmen suddenly remembered that their luggage was still being watched by the old man at the school gate.
He ran to the school gate full of guilt and didn't hold out much hope. Who knows that the old man is still waiting for him in trembling, and his white hair is floating in the wind.
Tears of new life suddenly flowed out. At the entrance ceremony the next day, the freshmen realized that the old man was Ji Xianlin, a famous scholar and vice president of Peking University.
A few years later, the freshman also graduated, and the old headmaster may be showing the luggage to a person who just reported for duty. The new student is my brother, and his eyes are still shining with tears when he said this.
What a good example the older generation has left us! Most of the old dross has been eliminated, and new fashions are taking shape. What we young people should do is self-evident.
When writing this article, Kant's famous saying echoed in my mind: "The starry sky overhead and the moral law in my heart also make us feel awe." Of course, we can't forget the silver thread that Ji Lao fluttered in the wind ... the story of five Brightheart. In the storm, three old people huddled in an umbrella, pale with cold.
Although they sat under the eaves, the rain kept hitting their faces and bodies. At this time, their clothes were soaked.
However, they don't care about themselves. Three pairs of eyes are staring at the square in front, where two bicycles are parked and they are wearing their only raincoats. The owner hasn't come to pick up the car.
"May be trapped by the rain?" They said, but no one wants to go first. The cold wind blew in waves, and it rained again and again. However, none of them got up, and three pairs of eyes were still staring at two bicycles not far away.
Are they only a few cents? Story B: He is sitting in front of the TV with two lottery tickets in his hand. He bought this this afternoon, but one of them was for their section chief.
He has marked it. It's time for the lottery.
He looked at the lottery ticket in his hand with rapt attention: "One digit, two digits, three digits … Ah, none is bad!" " "However, for an instant, he was silent again, because the winner was the one marked. He lowered his head and covered his face deeply with his hands.
He thought of his home: his wife was laid off, his son was in the third year of high school, and his life was not affluent, which could even be described as poverty; He remembered the section chief again, and their home was magnificent; He also thought about how to spend the money ... However, in the end, he picked up the lottery ticket and walked out of the house firmly ... Story C arrived at the wholesale station, where he skillfully parked his motorcycle and entered the gate. Before coming to the wine bar, he smiled at the smiling face of the wholesaler: "As usual, bring me a batch of goods."
The wholesaler still smiled: "I'm not talking about you, Lao Li. The last shipment was snapped up as soon as it arrived. I specially left some for you, you don't want it. " Well, just some water. What are you afraid of? Now I have a new batch here.
Do you want it? ""thank you, I still don't want it. " His voice is small but firm.
The wholesaler shook his head and looked helpless. Three stories and five sincere hearts are not touched, but true feelings.
Isn't that what people live for? A dime and "sincerity" A philosopher once said that the realm of human beings can be divided into five kinds, and the pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty is the highest realm. Among them, "truth" is "sincerity".
In the seven life backpacks of health, beauty, honesty, alertness, talent, money and honor, we can discard beauty and lowliness, money and poverty, honor and ordinary, but we must never discard honesty. Honesty can be emotional.
Boya, Zi Qi, a violinist and a listener, dressed in elegant clothes, the wind is clear and the clouds are light, so they became familiar with each other and solemnly agreed; Later, my old friend passed away and there was no bosom friend. Boya would rather break the piano. This kind of "agreement" and "broken piano" is the integrity of friendship.
Honesty may also be a reason. Fang Zhimin, a selfless clerk, has a simple and touching suicide note: "I have handled millions of money, but I know that it is the hard-earned money of ordinary people and is used for the revolutionary cause." I believe these words will make today's "outstretched hand" ashamed.
This suicide note reflects the sincerity to the people and the revolutionary cause set in the oath of joining the party. Thousands of dollars are hard to spend! Maybe you will say: I understand the honesty of my confidant and career; But after all, it is too noble to reach! If this is true, then you can at least embrace honesty from "a dime" ... once upon a time there was such an old lady who was as poor as a church mouse. She pieced together something.
6. There is an urgent need for a historical story about honesty. It should be brief It is best to be Yan Shu, a poet in the Northern Song Dynasty, who has both classical and vernacular Chinese and is famous for his honesty. At the age of fourteen, he was recommended to the emperor as a prodigy. The emperor summoned him and asked him to take the exam at the same time with more than 1000 Jinshi. As a result, Yan Shu found that she had just practiced the exam ten days ago and truthfully reported it to Zhenzong. And asked to change other topics. Song Zhenzong admired Yan Shu's honesty very much, so he was awarded the title of "Scholar". Yan Shu took office at a time when the world was at peace. Therefore, Beijing officials, large and small, often go to the suburbs to play or hold various banquets in restaurants and teahouses in the city. Yan Shu was poor and had no money to go out to eat, drink and have fun, so she had to read and write articles with her brothers at home. One day, Zhenzong promoted Yan Shu as the official of the Oriental Palace who assisted the prince in his studies. Ministers were surprised. I don't understand why Shinchan made such a decision. Zhenzong said: "Recently, ministers often play and dine, and only Yan Shu is studying behind closed doors, so he is a suitable candidate for the East Palace official." Yan Shu thanked her and said, "I am actually a person who likes to play and eat, but my family is poor." If I had money, I would have taken part in the banquet tour. " These two things made Yan Shu establish a reputation in front of his ministers, especially Song Zhenzong. Ceng Zi's wife is going to the market. Because the child was crying, Ceng Zi's wife promised to help him kill the pig when the child came back. After Ceng Zi's wife came back from the market, Ceng Zi caught a pig and killed it. His wife stopped him and said, "I'm just joking with the children." Ceng Zi said, "This is not a joke with children. Children don't understand. He listens to his parents and their instruction in everything. Now you coax him, that is to teach children to lie. " Honesty and trustworthiness are the basic principles of being a man. If you don't kill the pig, the pig at home will be saved, but it will leave an indelible shadow on the mind of a pure child.