After watching "The Way of Heaven", we feel particularly sorry for Rui Xiaodan's death. How much I hope she can start their new life with Ding Yuanying again!

However, the ideal is perfect, but the reality is very skinny. Even if Rui Xiaodan does not die, she and Ding Yuanying will not be together.

Why do you say this?

First of all, Ding Yuanying is a person who is separated from the secular world. His way of thinking and behavior are contrary to ordinary people. In Xiao Yawen's words, he talks nonsense and does ghost things. Like to stay alone, for a woman, this means being passive and not enterprising. Only people who know him well, such as his good friend Han Chufeng, know that it's not that he likes to be alone, but that he can't find similar people. Ding Yuanying was once married, but it only lasted for half a year. His ex-wife ran away because she couldn't bear it anymore.

Ding Yuanying said that women are a model of formal logic, but an obstacle to dialectical logic, so he will not quarrel with women. Of course, Rui Xiaodan is not Ding Yuanying's ex-wife. Different people have different ways of thinking and values. Just like when Xiao Yawen faced Ding Yuanying, he knew that he was not the same kind of person and rationally chose to "watch from a distance and not play with it", but Rui Xiaodan knew it was hell but still wanted to taste it.

Through the bet with Han Chufeng, specifying stocks for Ouyang Xue, and asking Wang Mingyang to speak, Rui Xiaodan deeply understood that Ding Yuanying could not only pull coins, but also pull souls, and there was a long distance between him and the other party. This distance is also a potential obstacle for two people to get along.

Secondly, the purpose of proposing the gift of Shinhwa to Ding Yuanying was to make him stay with her longer, but Rui Xiaodan did not expect to last forever. Xiao Yawen said that as long as a woman is greedy, angry and foolish, Rui Xiaodan is not an ordinary woman. Like Ding Yuanying, she could not see the smoke and smoke of the secular world from her body. She does not ask for eternity and is willing to live up to her sincerity. In Jerusalem, she once said that she can accept existence and eternity. Throughout "The Way of Heaven", her eternity seems to be more important than existence.

"Look, the night is so beautiful. Then I will lie in your arms and listen to music, and listen to you telling me about heaven and hell, and then I will die quietly in your arms, my The grave is full of tiny forget-me-nots. On a drizzly morning, you come through the winding road and stand silently in front of my grave with a flower in your hand. Ah... I will live with you forever. in my heart."

——"The Distant Savior"·Chapter 18

Ding Yuanying is not suitable for the life of a short-term family, as her sister Ding Qiuhong said: "You should live alone. , no woman can stand you." When the brother and sister met in the Zhengtian Hotel in Beijing, Qiu Hong said: "You are tired of talking to you and we are tired too." It can be seen that Ding Yuanying is indeed not suitable for living in the secular world. It can also be said that the short-term secular life of his parents is his fatal shortcoming.

When Ding Yuanying first faced Rui Xiaodan's disguised confession, he said that what you see is not necessarily the same thing, and God knows there will be no results. Because he understands himself, dealing with and dealing with secular life is not his strong point, and married life is secular. Therefore, even if Rui Xiaodan took off all his weapons, Ding Yuanying said that he had no confidence.

Finally, after the metrical poem incident, Rui Xiaodan adopted Ding Yuanying's advice, and she also understood that the real gift Ding Yuanying gave her was not "myth" but enlightenment. If there was no love story with Rui Xiaodan, Ding Yuanying's final destination would be to live abroad and stay alone, because he is not obsessed with getting ahead and just needs to have food to eat.

If Rui Xiaodan had not died and she had chosen Ding Yuanying's suggestion, she might have finally resigned from her career as a criminal police officer and gone abroad with Ding Yuanying. Although they are both people who are separated from the fireworks of the world, any kind of living environment is inseparable from the world of mortals. Since they choose to live together, they still have to face the daily necessities and sophistication of worldly life.

The sum of imbalance and disequilibrium may create a balance; but the sum of balance and balance may lead to loss of balance accidentally.

Both Ding Yuanying and Rui Xiaodan are people who deviate from the world. These are two kinds of balance. And two such seemingly "like-minded" people living together may not necessarily be able to have everything stable. When the passion and freshness pass, Finally, they had to return to their mundane life. At this time, the previously established balance will be shaken. This is not a problem that can be solved by falling in love.

Rui Xiaodan smiled at this kind of top-notch logic and top-notch love, took a sip of tea, put down the cup and said: "Who are you? Who am I? I have also thought about these questions. The two of us can't live together. Same, I live a very simple life, your life is too complicated, they are not two parallel lines, they are crossing each other.

——"The Distant Savior"· Chapter 22

This passage gives a good explanation of whether they can be together. Rui Xiaodan does not live a simple life, but lives freely and casually. She lives according to her heart. This is true for life, and so is love for Ding Yuanying. And almost everyone in life has some kind of entanglement and restraint, and everyone wants to live in harmony with their hearts, but few can do so. p>

If you obey your heart, you obey your true nature and your soul. It is precisely because of this that Ding Yuanying, who was reluctant to accept it at first, was moved. The encounter between the two people was actually a naked collision of two souls.

The collision of souls is destined to be earth-shattering, destined to be cremated and scattered, but it is also destined to be short-lived, like a meteor streaking across the sky.

If Rui Xiaodan and Ding Yuanying went abroad, they would only get along for a short time.

Xu Zhimo, a talented scholar of the Republic of China, once wrote a poem: I am a cloud in the sky/Occasionally projected in the center of your waves/You don’t have to be surprised/Let alone be happy/I disappear in the blink of an eye/ You and I meet on the sea of ??darkness/you have yours/I have mine/direction/you may remember/it is best that you forget/the light that shines on each other when we meet!

This is a love poem written by Xu Zhimo to Lin Huiyin, but it is also a true portrayal of Ding Yuanying and Rui Xiaodan. Ding Yuanying and Rui Xiaodan are like the light that shines on each other when their souls meet, and they are also a cloud floating in the sky. They occasionally cast themselves in each other's waves, but they will eventually disappear in an instant.

If Rui Xiaodan had not died, he might have been with Ding Yuanying, but it would certainly not last long. On the contrary, if Rui Xiaodan dies, he can be with Ding Yuanying forever.