Perhaps because of the talent and cuteness of acting, Sister Ping's daughter pays more attention to her appearance than her peers. Sister Ping's friendly communication with her daughter several times had no effect. Instead, she changed her daughter from aboveboard makeup to furtively dressing up with foundation lipstick, which made her very angry and helpless.
Other colleagues who have daughters at home say that the same is true of daughters. Girls of this age like to use their mother's cosmetics, and there are not a few who wear their mother's clothes. Everyone advised Sister Ping not to be too restrained, which would only cause the child's rebellious mentality.
Everyone suggested that Sister Ping said, "Cosmetics for adults are not good for children. It is best to prepare some mild cosmetics for children. "
"... if you are worried that she will spend too much time on' smelly beauty', ask her to use cosmetics every day or teach her how to make up correctly and quickly. "
? "... you should first get into the habit of making up quickly, clean yourself up, set an example for her, and let her know that it doesn't take much time to love beauty. "
Even if everyone advised, Sister Ping still looked reluctant.
In fact, in foreign countries, children make up themselves when they are very young! Many mothers will prepare their children's cosmetics and skin care products when they are still in kindergarten, and will also teach their children how to use cosmetics correctly.
The love of beauty is the nature of most girls. The so-called' blocking is better than dredging', the more parents keep their children out of contact, the greater the temptation of makeup to children. It is possible that a little temptation from others will make her deviant in the future. This result is definitely not what parents want to see.
It is better to give a child what she wants than to expect to leave a hidden danger to her child. At first, it was just to set the rules, or as a reward. Give the child a correct aesthetic education, let her get what she expects, and have some self-discipline.
Parents will subconsciously feel that their world outlook, outlook on life and values are correct, and guide their children to learn and live according to their own lifestyle. For example, letting children learn piano and dance lessons is just to cultivate sentiment. Few parents are willing to let their children make a living by it, hoping that their children will be admitted to a good university and find a good job in the future.
Please allow me to change my mind and understand Xu Xiaoping's "fashion" as "love of beauty". In the love of beauty, many post-70 s and post-80 s with hard work as their first goal in life are typical negative cases. When I was a student, most people were taught to study hard. Even if they wear lace skirts, they may be criticized by the class teacher. Which key middle school, county-level middle school, is even worse. The uniform like sportswear has stifled many students' pursuit of beauty. Most of the generation who grow up in this way will be an "aesthetic disabled person"
Fortunately, times have changed and we can receive more and more different information. In a group of mothers, Sister Ping saw another mother doing obstetrics and gynecology, and sent a video of her daughter "painting yellow in the mirror" in the group. This made her rethink whether it is appropriate to control the child's love of beauty.
Just as adults always think that children are picky eaters, in fact, they just don't consider that children may just have different tastes from their parents. It is natural for girls to love beauty. Nowadays, there are more opportunities for them to get in touch with beauty in an open society, which makes them awaken their aesthetics ahead of their parents.