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What "foresight" should middle-aged women over half a century have?
Hua Ping is an old reader of mine. She has been an old friend for two or three years since the official account of WeChat. To tell the truth, I appreciate her attitude towards life. Pinghua and Haifeng have been married for five or six years and have no children. Flat weakness, thin uterine wall. Every time I get pregnant, I have a bed problem, which quickly flows away. Hua Ping likes children very much, but the difficulty of pregnancy makes her doubt life. Isn't it natural to have a baby? Why are there so many obstacles?

Married at the age of 28, almost 36. Although there are no children, in recent years, Pinghua has tried to divert attention and focus on making money. She has a better brain than Haifeng and is particularly sensitive to money. When people reach middle age, women with vision are never afraid of divorce. At the age of 24, Pinghua had 20 thousand yuan, all of which she saved. It happened that there was a shabby bungalow for sale near her home. The house is very old, almost uninhabitable, low and humid, and the area is not large.

Huaping borrowed 30,000 yuan from his parents to buy it. Haifeng didn't understand at that time, but told him everything. But Pinghua didn't cost him money, and Haifeng couldn't say anything. At the age of 27, the bungalow moved, and a two-bedroom apartment added tens of thousands of dollars. At that time, it was a remote suburb and the house price was not high. Pinghua wanted to buy another one, but Haifeng disagreed and gave up. In this way, Pinghua got her own suite before marriage. When I got married, my mother-in-law said Pinghua had a strong personality and didn't dare to live before marriage. She was afraid that Haifeng couldn't keep it, so she mortgaged a patchwork two-bedroom apartment.

No children after marriage. Haifeng is an honest man and has never thought of divorce. But the mother-in-law is getting restless. The thought that Haifeng has no daughter and a half, and she is old and helpless makes her want to cry. There are no children to rely on, only money. Pinghua was the first batch to start purchasing. She goes out every month, dragging suitcases and carrying big bags and small bags to and from other countries, which is very hard. Sometimes I feel sorry for myself by flying and taking the train, holding something heavier than myself, and I don't know why I am desperate. Later, when the customers were stable and the stable supply was determined, it was not so difficult. With help, business has stabilized.

My mother-in-law sold the two houses she bought and bought two mortgages with extra money, one for her own use and the other for rent. At the age of 36, Pinghua made a test-tube baby for the third time and succeeded. Turns out to be twins. Life really shouldn't be too pleasant. For elderly women, Pinghua no longer runs around, and basically keeps a remote control at home. After the baby was born, Pinghua became a full-time mother. The two children weighed more than 4 kg when they were born, and their ears were a little deformed. Fortunately, there are no serious problems. When they grow up, they only need a little plastic surgery.

Business in Haifeng, although the turnover has shrunk, is also a carefree life. Hua Ping and her mother-in-law take care of the children together. Some old people's ideas are always out of place and contradictory. However, it is actually more convenient for Huaping to hire a nanny, but it will be the same in order to take care of the feelings of the elderly. Haifeng approached a female assistant last year. To tell the truth, look on coldly and say nothing. Mother-in-law just speaks her mind a little foolishly. She should bring back that man's heart. Without Haifeng, Pinghua would have no job. Divorced, nothing, can't afford to raise children.

This is a bit harsh. The mother-in-law has always had confidence in her son. She has always thought that her daughter-in-law has made great achievements and picked up a treasure. However, Hua Ping said that although it seems that he earns a lot, it is not himself who is afraid of divorce. These two children were brought up by Hua Ping. When they are with their mother, they will eat, play games and sleep soundly. However, it doesn't take an hour to be with my father. My father was bombed and the children cried like wolves.