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My lover has been married to someone else for almost five years. I thought I'd let it go. After several talks, I still couldn't let it go. I often dream in my dreams.
Since everyone else is married, you don't need to take a step back for him. Of all the good people in the world, he is not necessarily the best. With all due respect, I am sorry if I offended you.

I know I'm wrong, but I still can't extricate myself. I like it, but I said no. Helpless choices are painful memories. I can't tell whether I am too cruel or the reality is too cruel! Now that you have decided, stick to it, but at least let yourself go, let go! To love someone is to keep that person in your heart. It's easy! But if you love, it will get deeper and deeper, and that person will be deeply in your heart. If you want to forget, you have to dig that person out of your heart! The heart will be very painful, so it is more difficult to love than to forget! Forget, maybe it takes a month, maybe a few years, maybe a lifetime! It depends on when your heart can let go of the past and love it! But forgetting takes time, and time has two sides. Good use is the antidote, bad use is the poison, which will only make you worse! Because I loved you, it's always hard to forget. Those memories of love, that person's smiling face and words are deeply imprinted in my heart and can only be forgotten gradually! Don't forget it deliberately, it will only deepen your memory (forgetting it deliberately, just as you can stir a pool of water, the more turbulent it is, the more ripples there will be)! Moreover, choosing to hate will only make you live more tired and bitter, and it will be more difficult to start your new life!

It's hard to forget after love, find another person to replace it, find another person to fill the inner emptiness, but still can't forget it, it will cause more harm! Why, even if you can't forget it, don't hurt others! Please cherish yourself and those who love you!

The memory of that person is hard to leave your mind. Memory loss can only escape for a while, and my heart will still hurt! Why bother! In the past, even though it will be very painful, there are still good memories worth cherishing! Face it calmly and forget it slowly! You can do it, don't choose to escape! Make it bigger! Gradually forget it! When you miss him, force yourself not to think and do something else! Look at the scenery outside the window and the sky, and you will be more open! This compulsion is not to suppress oneself to think, but to ignore one's own thoughts. It's always natural to think of it, so you need to get used to it and give it up gradually! Memory is like a bouncy ball. The deeper the depression, the higher the rebound, so be it! Forgotten, always heartache, gradually forgotten! ) listen to more songs, so that the heart is no longer wandering! Tell yourself not to think about yourself and him, tell yourself that he and I have become the past, and we will only be friends and ordinary friends in the future! Even if I can't help thinking about him, I will force myself not to think about it! Tell yourself every day that he is in the past, and his past feelings will never come back. Admit that feelings have passed, and it is most important to face life now! Don't lose what you have because of a past him! In fact, you can't forget it, but you will remember it, and your heart will be in a mess, just because you can't let go of that love, so all I want you to do is relax and let go of that love! Look at the sky more, your heart will be more open, even if you think of him, your heart will hurt, but the natural scenery will alleviate some of your pain! Listening to music will also be sad. The purpose of listening to music is to remind you of the past, have a good cry, and then slowly learn to be strong! It takes time to forget that person and get rid of that yearning, and you also need to admit that that relationship is the past, and psychological identification is useful! Love has become a habit, and it is hard to get rid of it. You love him, and you are used to loving him and thinking about him. Of course, you can't get rid of your thoughts in a short time, it takes time! Don't worry, don't deliberately, and slowly forget it! Forgetting that relationship is like solving a disease. You must face up to the source of the disease, face up to that love and face it bravely! Only by learning to face it calmly can we really put it down and really forget it! (relax! Forget there will be a new life! I wish you happiness! ————————————————————————————————————————————————

If it still hurts after reading the above content, please read the following text! It's not that simple to forget someone! Memories can't be controlled, just like that past love! We can't control it not to appear, those memories are always lingering, and suddenly appear in our minds at some point! It will make you very sad, depressed and painful! But you have to face it calmly and bravely, and you can't forget to escape. You can only choose to face it! Don't forget, don't forget that person, just forget that relationship and those memories! Maybe you don't want to admit that your relationship is over! Don't give up hope, give up! Don't dwell on the past, you should start a new life and live well! After falling in love, running away will only make you more miserable! After love, since you can't forget it, don't forget it deliberately, because the memory is still beautiful, even if it hurts to recall yourself! But there is nothing wrong with loving someone. I love that person, and I have given a lot. It's hard to give up, but I can't continue and let go! Forget, maybe just to escape love, just to avoid more pain, but I think, if you have loved, don't forget, face it calmly and smile! That person also wants to see that you can live better and find your own happiness without him! Life is not long, that relationship has been cherished, and that person has tried love. There is no need to regret it, let alone be too heartbroken! Because there is at least one him in my life, and at least I have had good memories, not a short past! That relationship was lost, very painful, but still beautiful, at least once owned, so face the present life! Don't run away, face it bravely! Bless you!