Women are the most beautiful scenery in the world.
As a woman, I feel very lucky. We can be graceful and graceful, and we can also be reserved, elegant, noble and elegant... We can wear beautiful floral skirts and grand and beautiful makeup; we can wear high heels and formal suits to dominate the workplace, or we can wear sportswear. Wear sneakers to climb mountains and climb to the top... As the saying goes, everyone has a love for beauty. Which woman doesn’t want to live a glamorous and charming life? However...the ideal is very full and the reality is very skinny.
However, when a woman (should be a girl) gets married, she becomes a woman once she gets married and has children. This woman still has all the dreams and desires of a girl. However, that beautiful flower Skirts, exquisite makeup... Completely overwhelmed by real life and daily trivial matters, the ground is full of chicken feathers...
Women trapped in marriages and families, because of getting married and having children, their beautiful faces are lost somewhere. Went. Women, we can’t find ourselves, we can’t find happiness, we can’t even find marriage... Women, how can we preserve our original beauty, elegance and womanly decency after getting married and having children?
In the years of tempering, every woman has different life situations due to different life circumstances.
A woman who lives a good life has flowers blooming all the way, is loved by everyone, speaks with confidence, and walks like a breeze. They hold their heads high and are full of positive energy, and gradually become the envy of everyone.
A woman who is not doing well and who is always running for food and clothing will feel like a dwarf in everything. She will be depressed and in a bad mood. She will be nagging all day long, complaining about everything but others, and be full of negative energy. Man, slowly turned into the yellow-faced, resentful woman that she once refused to do. It is precisely because of this sharp contrast that there is a gap between women and women, and there is a saying about living well and living poorly. Just like Luo Ziqun (Luo Zijun's sister) in "The First Half of My Life", she often has a miserable look on her face. She complains and complains whenever she sees anyone. Just like what she said to her sister Luo Zijun: "We are different. Although you are divorced However, you have been pampered and well-maintained over the years, and you look much younger than your actual age, but you are still very beautiful. But I have been tortured by life over the years, and all the unhappiness, grievances, resentment and hostility are written on my face. ”
What woman doesn’t love beauty? Those who are bare-faced and disheveled all day long do not want to live a good life, but their abilities are not up to the ambition they want.
Writer Bi Shumin said: I am not beautiful, but I have confidence. In her opinion, self-confidence is a kind of lasting beauty. When a woman has self-confidence, she has the most precious wealth in life.
Therefore, confident women are the most beautiful!
However, where does a woman’s confidence come from?
A woman's self-confidence comes from her calmness, elegance and calmness in everything. This is an irresistible personality charm and the highest level of sex appeal in a woman.
The beauty or ugliness of a person does not entirely depend on her appearance, but on how she sees herself. If a woman is ashamed of herself, no amount of magical plastic surgery can turn her into a beauty.
A person may not be confident because of his appearance, may also feel inferior because of his inability to socialize, not smart enough, or even a comment from others. And what about the women around you who exude confidence?
Confidence comes from self-acceptance.
Psychological research shows that true self-confidence comes from self-acceptance. This means you love yourself and recognize your worth and existence. Encourage and recognize yourself from within. Learn to accept yourself, like yourself for who you are, and tell yourself: This is me. Although it is not perfect, it is also unique. "I am a unique treasure created by God." A good personal image is a kind of capital that can increase one's own value and thus affect one's own confidence from the outside in. However, all of this is inseparable from self-cultivation. Learning to improve oneself is always the most important and the best way to win the appreciation of others. way.
So, before a woman goes out, she needs a set of decent clothes, a hairstyle that suits her, a unique brooch, a little light eye shadow and moist lip gloss, plus a knowing touch. A smile can give her confidence. Even if her appearance is not stunning enough, she will still show a radiant beauty. Such a woman is already a beautiful sight when walking on the road.
"Confidence" and "beauty" are not directly related, but confidence is often the best "cosmetic". There is no power that makes a woman look more beautiful than confidence. If a woman has one mission in life, it is to be confident and live beautifully.
So, for women, confidence is more important than beauty.
May all women be confident, elegant and beautiful!