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In some remote rural areas, many children have their tongue roots cut off as soon as they are born. This is the tongue root. Even children who have not cut off their tongues will be shouted by older people, saying that if they have not cut off their tongues, it will not be conducive to future speech and communication.
Is it because of an old saying that a child's tongue has to be cut off?
Although Allen's mother-in-law comes from the countryside, her mind is more open, and she is no longer "patriarchal" as in the past. After she gave birth to her daughter, the whole family loved it. Mother-in-law is satisfied with the delivery, so let her mother-in-law take care of the children.
When the baby is over one year old, she is very different from her mother-in-law, because the baby can't speak yet, and it's hard to say even a relatively single name. Allen didn't take it seriously. He thought that babies would only talk late, and sooner or later, but her mother-in-law couldn't sit still and told her that in my hometown, if you want children to talk, you have to cut off your tongue when you are born.
Cut off the child's tongue? This made Allen feel scared. She thinks that mother-in-law is an ancient feudal thought and harmful to children. But for the sake of children, Allen dare not careless. The best way is to take the child to the hospital to consult a doctor. The doctor conducted a series of examinations on the child, and learned that the child's oral development was very healthy. At the same time, he answered questions from Allen.
The free movement of the tongue is related to the root tissue under the tongue.
When looking in the mirror, you can open your mouth, tilt your tongue upward and see the support line at the base of your tongue.
From a scientific point of view, some children are born with a short tongue base, which is difficult to stand out because of the bondage of the tongue; In addition, children need to chew with their teeth and stir food with their tongues when eating, which will seriously affect their diet. Some children also have a short tongue base, which brings inconvenience to sticking out their tongues. If it lasts for a long time, it will form an M-shaped tongue. This situation needs to be solved.
Even if you encounter problems caused by this child's physical development, you should take the doctor's treatment as the premise. Such minor surgery will not be performed immediately, and most people will choose to observe it for a while.
In the process of development, some children can fill this defect by themselves, and their tongues will gradually become longer. If they are diagnosed with surgery, they will naturally not let themselves go, and they must never let their children talk and communicate vaguely in the future.
For young children, doctors usually give reasonable explanations. For the growth and development of children, it is best to wait until after the age of two to do surgical correction.
Of course, as parents, we should keep calm and not just listen to others and blindly listen to the rumor that "children are eager to cut their tongues when they are born". Even the smallest operation is risky. Maybe you just picked up scissors. , causing lifelong harm to children.
In people's subconscious, it is a sin for children not to speak or not to speak, and the root of the tongue is the biggest problem. In fact, the tongue is just an organ that helps people make sounds. Stuttering and speaking late are closely related to the living environment.
When the child has no obvious problems, don't hurt the child because of what others say. Regarding the child's physical problems, it is recommended to go to the hospital to find out the situation. Parents must have their own rational judgment and believe in science.
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