While parents and friends are busy making a living, they must spend more time getting to know and understand children, communicate with children and their teachers, and try to fully grasp the performance of children in kindergartens and families. Because the more you know, the less you misunderstand. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, he will know more about how to guide the child.

2. Absorb educational knowledge

The society is changing, and the environment in which children grow up is also changing. Then, the way of education will naturally continue to improve. As parents,

We must actively absorb new educational knowledge. In the new branch of education, in the traditional way of parental education, most parents use authority to educate their children, and beating and scolding punishment is an important method of authoritative education. Absorbing new knowledge can help parents jump out of their own growth experience and adjust their educational concepts in time.

3. Listen to the children patiently

If parents are impatient and aggressive, the most direct response to disobedient children is usually swearing. At this point, Mr. Cheng, an education expert, suggested that our parents and friends calm down first, try to be patient and ask the children this.

What is the reason for doing it? When parents' minds have been focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems, they may find that their children's behaviors are actually excusable and release a lot of negative emotions.

4. Really put down your body

Some parents always like to be dignified in front of their children and are used to treating lovely children with the above attitude. Parents really put down their bodies, respect their children from the heart, stop talking to their children in a commanding tone and respect their children as adults. Don't always say "no" to children, give them the space to choose and let them make their own decisions. If the child is old enough and there is no problem with his expression ability, he can also let the child come up with a solution or alternative.

Reasoning with children

In addition to the usual warnings, parents should also teach their children some truth in actual situations. Let the children have empathy,

Let him experience it from the perspective of others and truly understand how his actions will affect others. As for the way of reasoning, the depth of explanation can be chosen according to the age of children, especially children can tell stories.