"Red Rose and White Rose" tells the story of Zhen Bao who came back from studying abroad and got a higher position in a foreign company. For the convenience of transportation, he rented the house of his old classmate Wang Shihong. When Zhen was in school, she had a first love named Rose. He once won the reputation of "Liu Xiahui" for refusing the courtship of Rose. Wang Shihong has a charming wife, who always makes Zhenbao dream. On one occasion, Hong Shi went to Singapore to do business. After several struggles between spirit and flesh, Zhenbao was "imprisoned" by this wife named Jiao Rui on a rainy day. To Treasure's surprise, Jiao Rui gave her true love this time. When she offered to tell Wang Shihong the truth, Treasure fell ill. In the ward, Zhen Bao told Jiao Rui the real side-he didn't want to take too much responsibility for this situation. Jiao Rui wiped away her tumultuous tears, strangely calmed down and walked out of his life. With the help of her mother, Zhen Bao married a thin and quiet Meng with a sad sense of sacrifice. The bride gives the impression that she is just an ordinary white person, and can't arouse the sexual desire of Treasure. Zhenbao began to go whoring outside. One day, however, he found a dull white rose bird in his shadow and had sex with a slim tailor. Since then, Zhenbao has been playing with women openly outside, and he has been wandering around. One day, he happened to meet Jiao Rui, the "red rose" in his life, on the bus. She is already a flashy middle-aged person. The years are ruthless, and the flowers fall in bloom. In tears, the red roses and white roses in Zhen Bao have become a mirage in reality. The old kindness is approaching the treasure bit by bit. At home, after a hysterical attack, Zhenbao became a good man again. Zhenbao, who came back from studying abroad, got a higher position in a foreign company. In order to facilitate transportation, he rented the apartment of his old classmate Wang Shihong. When Zhen was in school, she had a first love named Rose. He once won the reputation of "Liu Xiahui" for refusing the pursuit of roses. Wang Shihong has a charming wife, who always makes Zhenbao dream. On one occasion, Hong Shi went to Singapore to do business. After several struggles between spirit and flesh, Zhenbao was "imprisoned" by this wife named Jiao Rui on a rainy day. To Treasure's surprise, Jiao Rui gave her true love this time. When she offered to tell Wang Shihong the truth, Treasure fell ill. In the ward, Zhen Bao told Jiao Rui the real side-he didn't want to take too much responsibility for this situation. Jiao Rui wiped away her tumultuous tears, strangely calmed down and walked out of his life. With the help of my mother, I married a thin and quiet Meng. The bride gives the impression that she is just an ordinary white person, and she can't arouse Zhen Bao's desire. Zhenbao began to go whoring outside. One day, however, he found a dull white rose bird in his shadow and had sex with a slim tailor. Since then, Zhenbao has been playing with women openly outside, and he has been wandering around. One day, he happened to meet Jiao Rui, the "red rose" in his life, on the bus. She is already a flashy middle-aged person. The years are ruthless, and the flowers fall in bloom. In tears, the red roses and white roses in Zhen Bao have become a mirage in reality.

What moved me most was Jiao Rui's words when he met Zhen Xuan many years later: "I can't predict what I will meet in front of me. I can only catch what I can. There should be other things besides men. Love was learned after I met you. When a woman is young and beautiful, she does not know what love is. Finally, she learned. Although she has suffered a little, learning is always good and always useful. " When I saw this scene, my tears streamed down my face. I really felt sorry for Jiao Rui. Finally, the person who cried sadly became Tong Zhenbao. Because in the love game with Wang, he found himself a seemingly winner, but in the end he found himself a complete loser, because he didn't learn to love and cherish the happiness in his hands, which led to his unfortunate marriage life. I think this is why Zhenbao became a "good man" after a hysterical attack. I think it may be. I'm not sure.

But I still think that Wang is still a woman with many lovely factors. She has an advantage that every woman should learn. That is to say, she cares about her appearance from beginning to end, that is, Wang in adversity can still maintain the spirit of loving beauty and still dress herself well. From Du Bao's statement that Wang is much older and more beautiful, I guess that maybe Wang's real life may be as stressful as Tong Zhenbao's. Otherwise, how can Jiao Rui be "much older"? Jiao Rui also has a lot of complaints about her other half. The pressure of life will carve many wrinkles on people's faces, but Wang finally learned to adapt to life, change his mentality, learn to love his other half, and learn to tolerate and forgive. She still tries to dress up beautifully, which shows that she still loves life, and dressing up will make her feel better. It's one thing for Jiao Rui to dress not vulgar, and it's another to care about her image. This is the minimum education for a woman. Powder can not only cover up the wrinkles on a woman's face, but also cover up the Cang Sang and pain that a woman has experienced.

Meng: I just think she is a very failed woman. She is perfect on the surface. She is beautiful, naive, quiet, taciturn, fair-skinned, innocent in history and has read books. At first glance, she is really "the bright line at the foot of my bed". I have been with her for a long time and found that she has no content at all. She Mu Na, dull, is really more boring than the sticky rice grains on her clothes. The books she read at school and the words she knew only increased the capital she used to choose a man when looking for a husband. After marriage, she didn't do any work, let alone read any books, and made no progress or even regressed at all. She never pays attention to accumulating life experience. When doing things, she never thinks about how to do the things assigned to her better and how to make herself and her family live better. A man is her day. Although she teaches children, she doesn't learn to care about her daughter's study at all. She just practiced the piano with her daughter mechanically. When the piano teacher is around, she feels that there is someone around and she no longer needs anyone to accompany her. I don't know how to learn piano from my daughter. I'm in no mood at all. When my husband reads the newspaper, he doesn't know to sit next to him to understand current events, and he never pays attention to the news that his husband cares about, and never thinks about what his husband likes and dislikes. Although she made a lot of efforts to improve the relationship with her husband, she never learned to think with her own brain before doing something, and as a result, things always backfired and got worse. So she will only serve her husband mechanically like a humble slave, without any resistance under her husband's reprimand, or with only a little stupid resistance, that is, having an affair with a wretched tailor, so she was discovered by her husband and went out for prostitution openly from now on, and she didn't know how to make her husband realize her advantages. For example, get dressed up, and then go out for an outing or a trip with friends or classmates for a while. Because I believe that women's looks are very important in life, and what can shorten the distance between beautiful women and ugly women is makeup. Although wintersweet is not yet thirty, her heart seems to be too old to learn anything new. Zhenbao lets her know about current events through the radio, but these things have become the theme of her complaining about life, and everyone will be confused and angry. Zhenbao took her out to socialize, which turned out to be an opportunity to make a fool of herself again and again and became the laughing stock of others. All this makes Zhenbao unbearable. I think many men can't stand such a woman.

As for Fumi, I think Zhenbao and Fumi have such a bad relationship that he himself has to bear considerable responsibility, perhaps 70%. I feel that Tong Zhenbao is like a male animal from beginning to end, only considering what he can get from women. Fumi has her personal shortcomings, but who doesn't? He thinks that the smoky bird has a poor figure, and if he can't satisfy it, he will go whoring everywhere, which is tantamount to drinking poison to quench his thirst. I never thought about what harm this would do to the chimney. Never consider what kind of feelings you should put into your wife except the feelings of men and women. Smoky bird has a bad figure, and she didn't mean to get bad. She was like this before marriage. If you feel bad, don't marry a smoky bird. In family life, Zhenbao has never had a good relationship with Yanbi and has not been well guided. Zhenbao always puts his position at the top, completely unaware of Yan Bi and his equality in personality. We should cherish the fate between him and Yan Bi, and pay attention to cultivating feelings with Yan Bi. Subconsciously, he unconsciously compared the dullness of chimneys with the passion and sexiness of women he experienced, which made him hate chimneys even more. He didn't consider that Yan Hu started from a small crowd, starting from a primary school with only three followers and four virtues. China's traditional education for women is like this, and it can't be changed to meet his ideal requirements at once, which may disappoint Zhenbao for a long time. I think if he is a real gentleman, he should actively and patiently communicate with Chimonanthus praecox, let him know what he needs, and patiently guide his wife to make her lovely. I believe that since Chimonanthus praecox can go to middle school, people's intelligence will not be a big problem. In the 1930s, men were illiterate, and it was remarkable that a woman could finish high school education. In the past, the conditions of smoky birds were completely compatible with treasures. He shouldn't be picky about chimneys. All Treasure did was reprimand and teach, even reprimand the ostrich in front of the servant, never considering the poor ostrich's feelings and self-esteem. I think ostriches are becoming more and more stupid and unwilling to contact with the outside world. This is not a real intelligence problem, but the ostrich has completely lost confidence in itself. She is under too much psychological pressure, naturally she is in poor health, and even becomes neurotic, and she can't hide in the toilet all day. I can't believe that I still have the potential to think. Under the long-term pressure of Zhenbao, she even felt that Zhenbao should scold her in public. In order to maintain the relative self-esteem in the family, ostriches have to take it out on their servants, who rarely stay for a month. Zhen Xuan's foolish remarks when communicating outside made Zhen Xuan even more impatient. He didn't take any measures, patiently pointed out what was wrong with Yan Bi, how to say it next time, and took a convincing attitude towards Yan Bi. Not once, not twice, not twice, not three times. Give her a chance to correct, give her a chance to learn. I think Treasure should learn from Jiao Rui, learn to change his mind and cherish the happiness in his hands. In 1930s, divorce was not popular among couples, or there was almost no concept of divorce. Once divorced, it will affect their social integrity (as well as modern society). I believe that the parents of any middle-class innocent family will not easily marry their daughters to married men with children like Zhenbao. In 1930s, women didn't go out to look for jobs and rarely went out to communicate with others. Men and women with similar conditions do not have many opportunities for direct contact. The woman Zhenbao found willing to marry him at work or social occasions may be ten times worse than a smoker (otherwise Zhenbao would have married himself without introducing him to a smoker). As the saying goes, "marriage is difficult, divorce is more difficult, and remarriage is more difficult! ! "。 Parents of innocent families generally require the man's family to know the roots, not only the character, but also the economic ability.

Treasure's family has a heavy burden. Can Zhenbao still stand in the society after such a divorce? Even if it is discovered, Zhenbao will still treat his new wife with a smoky attitude and look for his wife's shortcomings everywhere with a magnifying glass. Doesn't this mean that Bao Bao's marriage failed for his own reasons?

To sum up, no one in this world is really perfect, but from the movie Red Rose and White Rose, I feel that a woman is really sad, and Zhang Ailing's thought may have her limitations, because before liberation, in the eyes of most people, it was acceptable for men to keep prostitutes and concubinage. In Red Rose and White Rose, Zhang Ailing never criticized Zhen Xuan's behavior from beginning to end, only felt that these mistakes seemed to be all. Never ask that such a good woman is not worthy of a bad man. Anyway, women are not people. As a modern woman, red roses can't do it, nor can white roses. It's not easy to be a pink rose, and it's harder to be a woman than before. To be a woman, you should not only be beautiful and have a good figure, but also be gentle, romantic, passionate, have a diploma and a brain, and have a good job, ability and money. The supreme leader of the family and society. Only in this way can we win the respect of the world for our husbands and improve their "status" in the male world. What is more difficult is that with the development of modern science and technology, the pressure on modern women has increased, and women have to work hard to keep their looks and figure. Lose weight and have plastic surgery (some plastic surgery sounds worse than torture), otherwise women's social status and family status will be difficult to guarantee. Whenever there is a family problem, a man can confidently say that a woman "can't meet his requirements." Men can demand this and that from women, while men in this world only need to have money and a diploma. It seems that they can ignore appearance, figure and morality. Even asking them to pay a little love and patience to women has become an extravagant hope. In the final analysis, I think people's minds still need to change. People may never think that there are no perfect people in the world, and imperfect people need to be forgiven and tolerated.