Women's confidence comes from men. We all know that self-confidence is very important for a woman. In addition to the happiness given by her man, she also needs to work hard and study by herself. The following is about women's confidence coming from men. Welcome to read and share!
Where does a woman's confidence come from? 1 Self-confidence is a calm elegance, an irresistible personality charm, and the highest sexiness of a woman.
1, beautiful, why not be confident?
There is a plastic surgeon in America who is famous for facial plastic surgery. He created many miracles. Under his scalpel, thousands of ugly ducklings turned into beautiful white swans. Strangely, however, people complain to him almost every day, saying that they still feel unattractive and insecure, complaining that the operation has no effect, even though their looks have become much more beautiful from an objective point of view.
Plastic surgeons have concluded that a person's beauty and ugliness lies not in her appearance, but in how she views herself. If a woman is ashamed of herself, then no magical plastic surgery can turn her into a beauty.
A person will not be confident because of his appearance, but will feel inferior because he can't socialize, is not smart enough, and even has comments from others. However, let's think back to those people around us who shine with confidence-
Maybe a woman is not beautiful, but she can confidently associate with a man with better conditions than her; Maybe your colleague is not better than you, but he can accept challenging tasks with confidence. Where does their confidence come from?
2. Self-confidence comes from self-acceptance.
Psychological research shows that true self-confidence comes from self-acceptance. This means that you love yourself and recognize your value and existence.
Why do we have the problem of self-acceptance? Many parents of the previous generation in China believed in "frustration education" and thought that children could be proud without praise. Only criticism can inspire children's spirit of struggle.
When I was young, the external rules were like an airtight transparent glass cover, and your confusion was: I was never good enough to meet their expectations.
As an adult, those rules will be internalized as a part of yourself, and you will manage yourself instead of your parents, so you will always feel that you are not good enough, and your frustration and inferiority complex will always go hand in hand, and you will always have no confidence.
And those children who get unconditional love and acceptance in family of origin will internalize their self-acceptance into their personalities, and they will have the confidence to face the adult world. Even if things are already bad, they are still confident that they will appear and they can control the situation.
Confidence can be rebuilt through hard work and practice. Encourage and recognize yourself from the heart. Learn to accept yourself, like who you really are, and tell yourself: this is me, although not perfect, but unique.
3. Self-confidence is a woman's best cosmetic.
Chanel's perfume advertisement said: "It is superficial to flaunt the inside and ignore the outside."
A good personal image is a kind of capital, which can increase one's own value, thus affecting one's self-confidence from the outside to the inside, but all this is inseparable from one's self-cultivation. Learning to improve yourself is always the most important and the best way to win others' appreciation.
Therefore, before going out, a woman can sprout self-confidence with a set of suitable clothes, a hairstyle that suits her, a chic brooch, a touch of eye shadow and moist lip gloss, and a knowing smile. Even if her appearance is not amazing enough, she will still present a colorful beauty. Such a woman walking on the road is already a beautiful scenery.
There is no direct relationship between "self-confidence" and "beauty", but self-confidence is often the best "cosmetic".
A confident woman is not necessarily elegant and beautiful, nor is she necessarily ashamed of flowers, but it is because of that confidence that she instantly becomes radiant, elegant and noble. Enhance your self-confidence with self-confidence. I believe that you are the most beautiful and moving woman and the most dazzling focus on any occasion, and you will have a happy life.
The famous writer Bi Shumin once said, "I am not beautiful, but I am confident." Self-confidence is such a lasting beauty. With self-confidence, we have the most precious wealth in life.
No power can make a woman look beautiful like confidence. If a woman has a mission in life, it is to be confident and live beautifully.
Where does a woman's confidence come from? Many women are not confident in themselves. When encountering emotional crisis, he always feels that he is not doing well enough, and something makes him angry or unhappy. Even if they have some truth, they dare not say it out loud. In front of him, they lost confidence in Nuo Nuo's subservience to Nuo Nuo, and completely became grovelling and spineless. Especially when the marriage lights up at a red light, it is at a loss, collapses directly and fails completely. If a woman wants to become confident, she must change herself from the following points:
1, you must have personality charm.
An attractive woman should not only look at her appearance, but also exude a woman's breath and temperament from the inside out, so that outsiders will have different feelings about you at a glance, such as appearance, manners and behavior, which will leave a deep impression on people, and men will also be attracted by your inner nature and appreciate you from different angles. At the same time, attractive women will not care about trivial matters, nor will they be timid because life is not easy and hard. They are all relatively strong inside, so personality charm is the primary key to women's self-confidence.
2, must have an independent economic base.
A woman with economic foundation, she doesn't need to rely on anyone, she has the financial ability to live a chic and happy life, she controls her own life and doesn't rely on men. Some women become full-time wives after marriage and have no economic foundation of their own. They are very humble and piteously ask men for money. When they quarrel, they will not only be looked down upon by him, but also step on you. You have no confidence at all. Although some men say that they will support you for life and won't let you do anything, I think you still have to earn money by yourself. If you have money, your back is hard.
Be sure to study more and improve yourself.
A confident woman, under any circumstances, will constantly improve herself, be uneasy with the status quo, constantly' learn and progress' and change herself with knowledge; A confident and elegant woman will learn flower arrangement, tea art, cooking and yoga, and usually read books, newspapers, writing and drawing. A delicate woman can get along like a duck to water in all aspects, which can be said to have a hall and a kitchen. What man doesn't love such an educated woman?
4. Be sure to have a good attitude.
A good attitude can make people relaxed, refreshed, happy and a woman with a good attitude. Everyone is willing to get close to her and communicate with her. Kindness and tolerance are the virtues of confident women. Everyone is willing to associate with her, and men feel relaxed and happy with her. A woman with a good attitude, in life, is methodical, energetic, quick-thinking, calm and calm, and has an excellent attitude. Finding such a woman is also a blessing for men.
5. Be sure to have a social circle.
As a woman, you must have your own circle. Being with a group of like-minded and positive people will make you feel cheerful and excited. You will feel that life is full of sunshine, love and vitality everywhere, which will make your pattern by going up one flight of stairs. If the circle around you is full of negative energy people, and your parents gossip about western affairs every day, which makes you upset and worse, you will lose your fighting spirit, confidence and motivation, and even feel that life is unfair and disharmonious everywhere. If you have no willpower, the men around you will feel worse and worse, and even lose confidence and love for him.
Confident women are positive and optimistic, striving for progress, confident women are cheerful and open-minded, considerate, confident women are elegant and polite, and women must be confident and self-reliant because you are the most beautiful.