Yesterday, an accident happened in Shanghai. Child abuse on the street was epic and seemed to be regarded as a "classic".

At the beginning of the video, a woman stood beside the owner's car and kept shouting insults. Words like "Hong Kong Donkey", "Pen Yoko" and "You are devastated" keep popping out of the mouth of the woman who drives the consulate car with a Shanghai accent. I don't know if her video has been opened, but the owner didn't respond positively and kept saying, "You are happy." The woman immediately retorted, "I am happy. Are you happy to be called a Hong Kong donkey? " Then, after this woman's "Yoko pen, Yoko pen, Yoko pen" was repeated three times, with the feeling of being angry with men, I, a non-Shanghainese, deliberately looked up the meanings of "Hong Kong donkey" and "Yoko pen", which were "stupid" and "adopted son" respectively.

Well, men are very tolerant.

From the video, we don't know what makes this woman so angry, but it's easier to get away. The owner also made it very clear that "I can cross if you pour a little, and I want to pour the whole road." At the very least, there is no car behind the woman's car. There is not only a car behind the man's car, but also an honest and frank justice uncle. The road was bumpy, and he drew his sword and rushed forward, pulling out the woman who had already sat back in the co-pilot at that time, trying to argue for the man in the video. Very lively.

In fact, I usually eat melons when I see this kind of video. It can arouse people's impulse to pick up their mobile phones and shoot videos, and most of them are contradictions that have begun to intensify. When they are about to intensify, we don't know why women are so angry. Maybe men never get off to communicate. Maybe men will honk their horns crazily. Maybe the man has put his head out of the window and shouted rudely. Maybe men just wait silently.

The human body has three biological curves, emotion and intelligence. People are most impulsive and prone to accidents at the intersection and lowest point of this curve. Maybe women are angry because of something, and a little impatient Mars can ignite the flame of anger, but no matter what it is, it is always wrong to indulge emotions like a flood, which eventually hurts the innocent.

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Coincidentally, I saw another hot search. Mishka, a talking husky, died, as did the words that could say such beautiful words as "Happy", "I love you" and "Thank you". The comments are full of thanks and memories of Mishka, thanking him for his happiness and recalling those wonderful times. In sharp contrast to the Shanghai woman who was reviled for human flesh. I can't help but reflect. Dogs can talk to people, how can people forget?

When we were young, our parents taught us humility and courtesy, and taught us gratitude and goodbye. How come when you grow up, you become unreasonable and "pen Yoko"? I didn't talk much when I was a child, so I'd better talk well. When you grow up, you can't talk too much.

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I once read such a story in the article of yat sen villa, and I am deeply impressed so far. That's when she and her husband went to the leisure club to take a bath and lay in bed ready to relax. Suddenly, she heard someone shouting angrily, "Go and call your boss. If he doesn't fire you today, I won't give up with you. "

Learn from the dialogue

After the man tore up the paid note, he regarded it as a free product and put things used by everyone in his pockets in public areas. The waiter didn't dare to say that he stole it, so he had to gently remind him that he couldn't take it away, but even so, the man was furious. The whole process was abusive, as if someone owed him something. In fact, any discerning person can see that this person is untenable until someone calls out his name and asks him why he is here. When something happened, he turned and left, whispering nothing, and his attitude was 180 degrees, which surprised the spectators.

It turns out that some people can only talk well with acquaintances. The eyes of acquaintances are a moral constraint. We give the worst temper not only to the closest people, but also to the irrelevant strangers. The former loves us and won't leave, while the latter doesn't interfere with us and acts recklessly. Can we be immoral without moral constraints? We can't get better because it's irrelevant? Is morality a constraint or a sign? Is it from the inside out or superficial? Whether you can talk to everyone well is a measure.

Liu Xuan once taught his children to talk well. He said that a restaurant waiter would spit in the food of those guests with bad attitudes. Although this kind of behavior cannot be advocated, people who are not good at talking are easy to suffer.

Just like the Shanghai woman who cursed the epic, no matter what the man had done before, her bad behavior of swearing and insulting others in the video was enough to make netizens rise up and attack. It doesn't matter what the reason is, what matters is that you didn't say it well. Destroy the harmony and friendship between people.

Reminds me of two words:

"Some people are actually dead when they are alive, and some people are still alive when they are dead."

"Some dogs are dead but still alive, and some people are alive but dead."