From the age of five, Michael Jackson began to sing according to his father's instructions. The tyrannical father made the children tremble.

"My father often looks at my nose and says, God, this nose is really big. It's not from me. " Michael Jackson said that these comments made him very embarrassed. "If you want to hide yourself, you can't wait to die. But I still have to go on stage and accept the eyes of others. "

198 1 year, Michael Jackson had his first rhinoplasty operation. Since then, he has been pursuing perfection through plastic surgery.

Everyone will be more or less dissatisfied with one aspect of their appearance, but if they really want to cut, cut and repair their bodies, not many people have the courage to make such a decision.

Then, it is hard to imagine that a person who has undergone plastic surgery for more than ten times will be willing to bear the pain of plastic surgery again and again if he does not hate his appearance. Psychologists say that Jackson's tragedy is the sorrow of a family and a society. His family, together with American society at that time, created such a talented but possessed singer.

In the history of Jackson's plastic surgery, we can find that there are two places that he regarded as a thorn in his side and did not hesitate to do it again and again: the nose and the color of his skin. His nose has been operated on six times and even collapsed; His skin color changed from black to white.

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Jackson's inferiority complex about his nose has a long history. In an interview, he revealed that when he was a child, his father often satirized his nose and nicknamed him "garlic nose". So that every time his brothers make fun of him, they will inevitably move his big nose out, which Jackson said made him feel "very terrible" at that time.

To tell the truth, Jackson's nose was a little wide when he was young, but it was not outrageous. However, under the repeated ridicule of his father and brothers, Jackson's nose became bigger and uglier in his own eyes, which made him unbearable, so that at the age of 23, he eagerly performed his first rhinoplasty operation, which opened the first chapter of his long plastic surgery history.

A father who always jokes about his children's shortcomings will never be a qualified good father. The image of his father can even be described as disgusting in the eyes of little Jackson. In an interview with an American TV station, Michael Jackson once hid his face and wept, recalling his childhood. He said that his father Joseph was very rude and autocratic, and he asked Jackson to obey him absolutely. He not only verbally humiliated his son, but also used violence. He often throws something at him when he sees it at home, whether it's a belt, furniture or even an electric iron at home. All this made Jackson hate it very much and cast an indelible shadow on his young mind.

According to the research of child development psychology, if a child lives in an environment full of love and care and can get praise and praise from his family, he will become more and more confident; And a child who is often reprimanded and beaten will inevitably become inferior and sensitive. Because the child's psychological characteristic is "introverted attribution", because the child lacks the ability to distinguish, it is easy to associate all his experiences with himself. When a child receives meticulous care, he will feel particularly powerful and valuable; Conversely, when a child is often neglected and abused, he will think that he is not good enough, not good enough, and can't get the love of his family.

In the latter case, children will be more sensitive to their own shortcomings and more vulnerable to ridicule and satire by others. Because he will further think that he was abandoned by his family because of his shortcomings. Jackson probably blamed his "garlic nose" for his father's rudeness and brother's sarcasm.

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Fortunately, the first rhinoplasty operation was very successful, which straightened his slightly wide nose and set off the whole facial lines more handsomely.

An unexpected thing happened. After Jackson's successful rhinoplasty, his father immediately had the same operation as him and his nose was propped up. This is a very interesting phenomenon-people who always dislike children's noses are also very dissatisfied with their noses!

Seemingly unexpected situations, in fact, often happen in life. If we feel very inferior to some of our shortcomings, we often deliberately ignore our shortcomings for self-protection to avoid inferiority. But once there is a person around us who has the same shortcomings, we will especially hate this person. Because we are reflected in him, we should relive all kinds of bad emotions such as inferiority complex and depression caused by this shortcoming. We either choose to avoid this man, or we can't avoid him and turn to attack him. Only when we try our best to ridicule and satirize him can we vent our strong inner inferiority and anxiety, just like Jackson's father did to Jackson. So when Jackson's father laughed at his nose, he was actually venting his dissatisfaction with his nose. Only when he did this, he planted a deep bitter seed in his son's heart.

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It was in the second year of rhinoplasty that Jackson released his second solo album Thriller, which was an unprecedented success and became the best-selling record in the world record history, pushing Jackson to the peak of his career.

Personal behavior will be regulated by feedback. When a person makes a certain behavior and gets positive feedback, he will strengthen or repeat this behavior to get a reward again; On the other hand, if a certain behavior gets negative feedback, it will be weakened or reduced in order to escape punishment. This is also the theoretical basis of behavior correction therapy.

Wherever the successful Jackson went, he was applauded by flowers and enthusiastically sought after by millions of people. If the cruel abuse of his father in childhood dug a deep pit in his heart, then the love of fans is to fill the pit. He is extremely lacking in love and care, and the deep pit in his heart is more like a bottomless black hole that can never be filled, but he is so obsessed with this feeling of being surrounded by people that he even saves this feeling at all costs to make up for the lack of love in his childhood.

How to keep all this? Associated with his unprecedented success after plastic surgery, and compared with all kinds of abuse he suffered when he was young (that is, before plastic surgery), Jackson is bound to establish a connection between plastic surgery and success. Therefore, he repeatedly punched his face and body. As his career went downhill, his popularity became colder and his plastic surgery became more frequent and crazy.

At this time, he seems to have returned to the tragic situation of his childhood. His strange behavior is more like a helpless child who despairs of his parents than a singer's ingratiating himself with his fans.

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As for why Jackson bleached his skin, some people accused him of betraying his own race, but it is not difficult to understand his behavior if it is related to the social background of his birth and childhood in the United States. Jackson was born in 1958. In 1950s and 1960s, the United States still practiced apartheid, and blacks were discriminated against by whites and excluded from the mainstream society (Martin Luther King's famous speech "I Have a Dream" was published at that time). It can be said that Jackson was laughed at by his father and brother for his "big nose" at home, but he was more seriously discriminated against and treated unfairly because of his "dark skin" outside.

If the family and social environment in childhood deprive a person of the ability of self-confidence and self-love, then when he grows up, he will completely lose himself in order to seek the love and care of others and cater to others.

Jackson's tragedy is the sorrow of a family and a society. His family and American society at that time jointly created such a talented but possessed singer; Today's tragic music was composed in his childhood.

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