The essence of love is to make yourself better. This sentence is correct. If a love makes you worse and worse, then why talk about this relationship? In Fan Jie's cognition, the essence of love is to make yourself better. In her thirties, Sister Fan finally accepted her pursuit. For Wang Baichuan, she likes it, but she doesn't like it enough to fight against those family chores. She also paid, she refused the temptation of luxury car (manager Chen), and she also shed tears, but she shed tears only for the shame of being humiliated.
Wang Baichuan loves Sister Fan deeply and tries to cheat her. In high school, he liked this beautiful girl whose eyes were above the top, goddess = dream. When we met again, we found that this girl was still so beautiful, so the man's ambition drove him to chase this girl. Seeing the poor life experience of the beloved girl, so helpless, inspired her heroic feelings. So I subconsciously help her and care about her.
Over time, when he found that his ability was not enough to help the family behind him and watched his girlfriend press on, breaking up was an inevitable choice. We keep saying that we should cooperate, but we still count on Wang Baichuan.
Fan Meisheng is not wrong. Her only mistake was to pin her hopes on others. Although this man is his boyfriend, he may be the one who will fight with him all his life. She is too eager to have a home in this big city. She hopes that Wang Baichuan can afford a house in Shanghai, and she is striving for it. Wang is also a face-saving and vain person, which can only lead to cheating and quarreling.
Even Andy can't understand why a beautiful and capable person like Fan Xiaomei should pin her hopes on another person.
I want to be a kapok beside you and stand with you in the image of a tree. The best message of love is that we are together, sharing weal and woe, working hard for each other's happiness, and finally becoming each other's happiness.
Fan Xiaomei's affection, a vanity that is needed. Remember the first movie "Sister Fan Crying on the River"? She is helpless, even desperate. We hate that eccentric mother and despise her brother. After the TV series aired, someone paid Rulu, the actor of Mei Sheng, a fan.
We have been blinded by the phrase "My parents love me". I believe that most parents love their children. However, there are still a few parents who prefer boys to girls. Their son is a treasure and their daughter is a grass. Like families in Fan Xiao, the extent of this preference is outrageous.
She supports everyone in the family, including mom and dad, brother and sister-in-law, and nephew who is not sensible. These people bled her dry like vampires, and even my sister-in-law said, "Gaga said that my aunt is very powerful, and I have to rely on my aunt to find a job in the future?" In this way, Fan enjoyed the vanity needed by his family and gradually became their life guarantee.
To parents, Fan Xiao is a credit card. If she can stand the criticism of her parents from the beginning, she can confidently tell them that you gave birth to two children, not me. If you are willing to do more calculations for yourself, maybe the tragedy will be reduced. For her family, her impatience is endless indulgence. It is true that filial piety comes first, but unprincipled help can only harm others and yourself.
The difference between selflessness and vanity is that the essence of selflessness is to help others regardless of return. Fan touched others and wronged himself. She thinks she is a very powerful person, but people's ability is always limited, but one day you can't help, and all the good things before are erased, and what you get is always blame.