Once upon a time, there was a "wedding night" only when you were formally married. Now, "cohabitation before marriage" has long existed. Nowadays, young couples regard cohabitation as a "dinner party". They can live together soon after they know each other. Also known as "running ahead, checking ahead". After living together for a period of time, the two people felt uncomfortable and then parted ways. Everyone is used to this concept of marriage and love.
In the old days, there was a long way to go, and I could only love one person in my life. Now, there are planes, high-speed trains, mobile phones, videos, matchmaking and various parties. In this way, people's horizons will be too broad and the field of communication will be expanded. We have more choices in love and marriage and don't cherish love.
In the past, people could only meet a few interested people in their lives. Now, walking in the street is like a lantern, which dazzles people and makes them more critical. Young people think that feelings come too easily, so they are not worth cherishing. Give up this, the next one is richer.
Boys used to chase girls very seriously. Once a girl falls in love with a boy, she should cherish it. Now, girls are queens and goddesses. The status of boys is getting lower and lower. Why? For example, in this incident, girls are angry and boys can spend the night at the door. It shows that this girl's love status is too high. This is not a case, but also a common phenomenon in society. On birthdays, boys are reluctant to spend money on gifts and are regarded as cheapskates by girls. At this time, if a rich man gives an expensive gift, the girl may run away with him. The reality is so cruel.
For example, now that girls have birthdays, boys need to buy gifts. Boys are reluctant to spend money, so they are satirized as "cheapskates" by girls. At this time, if there is a rich man, give girls expensive gifts. This girl may have run away with a rich man. The reality is so cruel. There are too many such scenes in TV dramas.
The decline in the status of boys is directly related to the sharp increase in the cost of living. When a boy and a girl get married, they must have a house and a car, otherwise they are not even qualified to propose. But now the house price is so high and the car is so expensive. Ordinary boys have only worked for a few years, how can they afford it? If boys can't afford it, girls won't marry. Whoever has money, who has a house and a car, will be followed by a beautiful girl.
It is also wrong to simply say that girls are too material and too realistic. Because, without a house, whose parents are willing to marry their daughter to you for poverty. How much true love, finally lost to reality, lost to the house, lost to wealth. Cohabitation is the grave of love, not that love is weak, but that love is too materialistic.