Hello everyone, my name is Jinghao.

Long time no see.

It is Wen Fu who speaks a thousand words and speaks ten thousand words. That silly boy, he is drifting again.

When the update comes, I don’t want to update it anymore, and I still want it.

After he signed many treaties for me, I reluctantly agreed.

I heard Wen Fu say a long time ago that 70% of this public account is male, and they are all very young guys, so I wanted to write about what kind of boys girls like.

Let’s get to the topic.

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When I was in college, I once took a public elective course. The teacher gave a class called "What are the requirements for gender selection?" ".

The teacher first wrote the topic on the blackboard, and then without starting to talk about it, he asked us what we all want from our significant other.

Everyone’s answers varied, but generally speaking, girls have more requirements than boys.

The general requirements for boys: young, beautiful, cute, considerate, in good shape, and some rogues say they have big breasts.

The general requirements for girls: tall and powerful, handsome, independent, good financial strength, gentle and considerate, considerate, kind and generous, generous, decent, hard-working, not bothered, don't make me angry , only loves me, knows how to coax, buy me things, pamper me, is cool, not addicted to games, doesn’t swear, doesn’t hit, has good hobbies, has a wide range of hobbies...

As you look at it, it seems a bit scary. In the end, the teacher wrote about forty or fifty requirements.

Later, I concluded that the above requirements for girls are secondary and all are fantasies.

They don’t think they can find such a perfect partner.

But there is a saying that is very good.

"Those who seek the upper part will get it, those who seek the upper part will get it, and those who seek the lower part will get nothing."

Request? It must be set a little higher, so that when the standard is lowered, there won't be a big gap.

For example, if HR asks you about your expected salary, you must shout from a higher place. Otherwise, if you directly quote a low price to HR, it will be difficult for others to start work!

HR mainly recruits talents for the company, and then saves labor costs. If you don't give others a chance to counter-offer, other leaders will question the person's ability and will not lower the price.

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My friend Xiaomei is like this. Once she asked me what I wanted from my partner. I answered her, I don’t know. Just encountered it.

Then I asked her what she wanted. She held her chin up and looked up at the world outside the window at a 45-degree angle. She said she likes handsome people, and her looks should be 70 or 80, tall, able to sing, and good at everything. Play basketball, study well, have a nice voice, etc.

After listening to her request, I felt that my request was too low, too Buddhist, and it would be unreliable no matter what I encountered.

A month or two later, I saw her post on her WeChat Moments saying, I found myself only after meeting you.

There is also a sunset photo of two people holding hands from behind. I gave her a like and wished her well.

One day, she and I were shopping together, and then her boyfriend came to pick her up. Only then did I realize that her boyfriend was really different from what she wanted before.

I am not 180cm tall, nor particularly handsome. I speak well. I asked Xiaomei about it later.

She said that although he is not handsome or tall, he is very considerate. He will consciously walk on the outside when crossing the road, will automatically give up his seat when taking the bus, and will accompany me to the hospital when I have a cold or fever. The most important thing is He is extremely smart and a top student.

I smiled and said, everything else is not the main condition! You like him because he is a top student.

This girl can accept him and like him because he is a top student.

When we chatted before, I often heard her say that she wanted to find a top student who could improve her genes.

Seeing this, you understand something.

When a girl likes a boy, there must be one very important point. For this point, she can lower or even give up other points.

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I have also seen this topic on Zhihu, and there is one person who gave an answer, which I very much agree with.

She wrote: "You know that I am ordinary, but you also know that I am extraordinary."

When I first saw it, I was shocked. Zhihu really has a lot of talents. This girl is so talented. Well, one sentence explains the essence of the problem.

For students who don’t know what it means, I can explain it a little bit.

Knowing that I am ordinary means that I am also a common person, an ordinary person with worldly needs and many shortcomings, so you must tolerate me.

Know that I am extraordinary, which means that I am not just a common person. I also have merits and high pursuits. You must understand my merits and praise me.

Look, this girl summed it up well.

Finally,

In fact, a girl’s requirements for her partner can be neither too high nor too low. It depends on whether you are careful or not and whether you suit her eyes.

When I was a teenager, because I was young and simple-minded, I saw very few people. I liked ruffians, people who were good at studying, people who knew how to play basketball, etc.

In my youth, I have seen a lot and gained a lot of experience. I know some things and understand some things, which may seem material. But if you can’t even possess the most basic material things, how can you talk about love?

In middle age, after riding the merry-go-round, experiencing the prosperity of the world, and going through vicissitudes of life, there may only be one thing left for the other half, which is to be good to her.

Some friends may want to ask, what do I like about Wenfu?

Hahahaha...

You say, do I want to answer this question?

After thinking about it, I decided to answer it to save you from saying that like Wen Fu, I like to titillate people and like to break chapters.

I am a good person, a very good person.

Wen Fu is a very discerning person.

The first time I met him, he was a little unsmiling and a little serious, but he told me where my name came from, and I felt that this person still had some merits.

The first time I chatted with him, he was also awkward. Is it just eating? Have you slept? Are you awake? What you like, what you are doing, etc.

Later he realized that he was chatting awkwardly and asked me if I liked playing Honor of Kings?

Fortunately, I can play Honor of Kings, otherwise it would be really difficult to continue.

After getting to know him later, I found that he just didn’t know how to chat with strange girls, but he was very good at chatting with familiar people.

After the king, he often came to play with me. We started chatting and both parties became familiar with each other.

I just discovered that he is a very interesting person.

For example, I asked him yesterday what kind of boys girls like.

He said that he might like the way he drives a Ferrari with one hand, or he might like his family pets, such as BMWs, Jaguars, etc.

I almost laughed to death from him.

Sometimes, he is also a naive person.

For example, if I bought him a watch and he took it to the company, he would put his hand in front of Da Liu, say that his eyesight was not good, and ask Da Liu to help him check what time it was.

I believe that most people will say that this person is sick and has bad eyesight, and they will think that this person is showing off.

But this kid Liu was different. He didn’t think too much. He looked at his watch and said a few things directly.

Wen Fu was also confused by his honesty. Wen Fu said, why don’t you ask me how much the watch costs? Who bought it?

Da Liu said without looking back, what’s there to ask? It’s not like I’ve never seen him before. Besides, mine is better than yours, so what’s there to ask?

Then Wen Fu begged, “Just ask?”

Da Liu was annoyed by Wen Fu, so he asked.

Then Wen Fu sighed and said that Jinghao bought it for me. After buying it, I scolded him to death and said that I was a prodigal woman, but everyone could see that. He had a smug look on his face.

The above thing was told by Da Liu when he and Da Liu were having dinner together.

Da Liu told stories vividly and imitated, and we all laughed from ear to ear.

Okay, that’s it for today’s topic.

If you like it, can you share it and give it a like.

Finally, I wish you can find your other half soon.

Let’s talk next time.

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