The advantage of being good-looking
A dynasty has a dynasty's literature, a dynasty and a dynasty's aesthetics. For example, girls nowadays prefer small fresh meat. But in fact, I like small fresh meat, not just contemporary. During the Wei and Jin Dynasties, people liked good-looking teenagers, and their enthusiasm was no less than that of today's groupies!
In Wei and Jin Dynasties, there was a man named Yu, but because of the stone incident, the court was overthrown. So Wen Zhongwu and I wanted to see Tao Kan together. Tao Kan said, don't come to me. At that time, the imperial edict of the first emperor did not mention me. Besides, it has nothing to do with me. It's all the people in the Yu family who make a mess. It's right to kill them and thank the world! At that time, Yu was behind their boat. When he heard these words, he was scared to death. I don't know what to do in an instant
However, one day, Wen Qiao told Yu that you should satisfy Tao Kan. I was too afraid and hesitant to go. Wen Qiao comforted him. It doesn't matter if you rest assured that nothing will happen. then what When Wen Kan saw Yu's handsome face and elegant manners, he lost his breath in an instant and pulled others to chat all night! Shi Shuo Xin Yu. Rong Zhi records: "When you talk about a feast, you love it." Because he looks good, he saved his life directly!
However, there is another person named Pan Yue who has something to do with Shi Shuo Xin Yu. "Rong Zhi" records: "Pan Yue is very beautiful and looks very good." When I was young, I would jump out of Luoyang Road with my arms in my arms. Whenever a woman met her, she would always hold her hand. Fan Yue is a very handsome man with elegant manners. When he was young, he appeared on the streets of Luoyang City with a slingshot. Because he is so beautiful, all the women in the street are holding hands and stopping him from leaving just to see him! Is this different from the girls in idolize now? It seems that ancient groupies are crazy, too!
There is also a man named Wang Ne in Shi Shuo Xin Yu. At that time, Wu Chenghou commented on him: "The appearance is magnificent, elegant and luxurious, and it can be protected and used, and many things can be made." In other words, Wang Ne is good-looking, with a good figure, generous and generous. If we can maintain these advantages, what can't we do? It is equal to saying that good looks are a kind of resource, and there is nothing impossible at all!
Disadvantages of good looks:
Being good-looking can't be just good. At this time, looking good can take up a lot of convenience! But it's not just beautiful! There are also disadvantages. What are the disadvantages?
At that time, there was a famous handsome man named Wei Jie, who was famous for his handsome appearance. There is a saying in Shi Shuo Xin Yu: "Zhu Yu is by my side, and I feel ugly." So when he went from Zhang Yu to Yecheng, too many people wanted to see him because he was so famous. What happened? There are too many curious people, and people who come directly form a human wall. However, Wei Jie was very weak since he was a child, and he could not be tired. Because there are too many people, he can't move. He is tired. Wei Jie later became seriously ill and died unfortunately. Therefore, Wei Jie was "watched to death" because he was so beautiful. Later, there was an allusion in ancient poetry called "Watching and Killing Wei Jun". It can be seen that it is not a good thing to look too good!
Ugly treatment
There was another man named Zuo Taichong at that time. He is not just ugly, but ugly, but he imitates Pan Yue mentioned above and uses his slingshot to swing up the street. However, he was surrounded by women in the street and spat at him. As a result, Zuo Chong had to pass out!
Shi Shuo Xin Yu, as a book that records anecdotes of Wei and Jin Dynasties, records many handsome men and beautiful women, and also records many interesting things, some of which seem absurd, such as a group of people spitting at a person, but it is this seemingly absurd thing that makes Wei and Jin Dynasties a unique existence in the history of China! When it comes to Wei and Jin dynasties, it is inevitable to mention several words: "Wei and Jin romance", "Wei and Jin demeanor" and "Wei and Jin legacy".
Wei and Jin demeanor
"Wei-Jin demeanor", according to Lu Xun's article "Wei-Jin demeanor and the relationship between articles and medicinal liquor", the key is the role of medicinal liquor. According to people's usual feeling, Wei-Jin demeanor mainly refers to the behavior style of celebrities in Wei-Jin period, which is straightforward, frank and clear. Drinking, taking medicine, talking freely and indulging in mountains and rivers are the lifestyles advocated by celebrities in Wei and Jin Dynasties, and they also have seclusion styles that have a far-reaching impact on later generations.
Wei and Jin demeanor was sought after in later generations, largely because it could not be copied! Celebrities at that time, such as Wang Xizhi, were able to indulge in debauchery and ignore the world. A large part of the reason should be attributed to their great confidence! During the Wei and Jin Dynasties, the aristocratic families were so powerful that even the emperor married the princess to them, wishing to stay away, which showed their arrogance and confidence!
Later generations always envy this, probably because of that group of celebrities at that time! But it is those celebrities who are despised by people who don't like Wei and Jin demeanor! What the hell did they do?
Liu Ling, one of the seven sages of bamboo forest, likes the word "wine" best, and wine is also one of the main symbols of Wei and Jin Dynasties, but his love for wine has reached the point of madness and fascination! Jin Shu? Liu Ling biography records: the music on the pillow is not good. Refers to his pillow with wine and distiller's grains. Later it became an idiom of "sleeping with bad things". Liu Ling drinks every day, and she drinks in an unconventional way? How's it going? He still drinks naked in the street. Some people can't stand him, but he doesn't want to, because he thinks he regards heaven and earth as his home and his house as his clothes. He also asks others why they are standing under his legs!
These are still understandable today, but they also have a hobby that they like to keep lice on themselves. How to raise it? Don't change clothes, don't take a shower! If there are more lice, we will get together to "talk" and drink and chat while catching lice, which is more than anyone else! Today seems really different! Jin Shu? Wang Mengchuan: When Huan Wen entered the customs, he was suddenly sealed. When it comes to contemporary affairs, he is like no one else.
But the reason why people at that time were so bohemian and loved freedom was largely because they were frustrated! Therefore, there are both Liu Ling's debauchery and Ji Kang's and Ruan Ji's worries. But as mentioned above, Zuo Chong imitated Pan Yue. Many people don't understand, but they don't understand. What celebrities do is actually expressing their dissatisfaction with reality. They simply imitate their formal unruly, fashionable and backward thinking and only learn a little. Even this wind of imitation and pursuit has a far-reaching impact today. Can be found in the Wei and Jin Dynasties.
However, we should pay more attention to the attitude of advocating nature at that time, not recognizing any absolute authority, and advocating that heaven and earth coexist with me, and everything is one with me, so there is a realm of doubting, criticizing and denying all order in reality and pursuing freedom. The combination of Lao zi and Zhuang zi is synonymous with a life attitude, which refers to the values of life that are indifferent to fame and fortune. Zhuangzi respected nature, advocated returning to nature, respected human values, pursued spiritual freedom, safeguarded personal dignity, despised fame and fortune, lived in seclusion for life, and lived a leisurely life.