I have heard many cases, and many girls always try their best to defend their love and the other half under the questioning of many relatives and friends. The person who insists on her choice knows best and doesn't understand why everyone should hinder her happiness. Girl, yes, who is this man? Selected? Happiness? Carry it yourself, but? Is it happiness that persists because of opposition, or is it really happiness?

One day no one will object? ,? Do you still feel happy?

Happiness is not shouting slogans, nor taking pictures and scattering dog food, nor is it to prove to the whole world that this is happiness. Does he love it or not? Does it hurt? Both? I feel that others really don't understand the details of your relationship, and others don't have to bear the consequences and responsibilities of this relationship, so they shouldn't interfere too much? Kid. But as a real party? Are you persisting, acting, deceiving yourself with happiness, or do you really feel happiness?

Happiness means that you don't need to take photos and punch cards to declare sovereignty, you don't need to publicize how happy you are all the time, you don't need to say much, you don't need others to understand, you just need to understand! ? Are you really happy? Let's look at three indicators of happiness? Do you have everything?

The first happiness: he won't let me? Secretly shed tears

He will observe closely? Mood and emotion, have you found it? I'm unhappy and uncomfortable, and I won't pay attention to it or ignore it. Everyone is different, and the emotional points may be very different. It's normal not to care about making the other person a little uncomfortable, but what you do after making the other person unhappy is very important! A caring man will observe and care? How do you feel if you find out? If you are unhappy and sad, will you follow immediately? Talk to each other, understand? This idea, then adjust it, and then follow it? The way we get along, we will never let? Secretly hide and cry without knowing it or be completely indifferent, or even scold? Why are you crying, Jane? My heart is more painful and helpless.

The second happiness: he won't let me? Feel lonely

He won't just say beautiful words, but only sweet words, only lies, and no practical actions. For a good man, the most important thing is to do rather than say, don't you need it? Talk too much and take the initiative? Want, don't need? Say more and you will know that you need more company? Besides work and friends, you should also leave more time for? . Does a responsible person keep his word? Wait, in fact, the sense of security only needs to be accumulated with peace of mind, and it will not be lacking! He will take the initiative to report it and let it develop? Know his itinerary, don't wait? Do you have to wait? Find him respected? Feeling, commitment? Invitations will appear as long as the time is up, and you must inform in advance if there is an emergency? . If every boy can take the initiative to do this, which girls really like to secretly check their mobile phones and phone records?

The third kind of happiness: he won't abandon it? Give up?

He won't criticize easily? What's wrong, because in his eyes, everything is beautiful and lovely. Is it really appropriate? He never hates a man? , even hate to even? Began to hate it. Myself. Many girls start to lose weight or have plastic surgery after they have boyfriends, and always feel that they are not thin enough and beautiful enough. That's because her man always tells her that other girls are thin, beautiful and great, and then he hates his girlfriend. Why don't these men look at themselves? Honey, what if? It's really that bad, others are really that good, so please? Boyfriend left? Go find the most beautiful and best woman in his eyes! ? Worth one? As a treasure, he doesn't know how to appreciate it. Leave him alone and don't want his love? To torture yourself!

Very good,? Cherish yourself, love yourself, and find someone who will really pay? Happy people.

Author: milk tea