"Is the beauty of a girl the most important thing?"

"I don't know."

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Nowadays, people seem to have formed a consistent concept. If a person is good-looking, it is easier to get unconditional help from others, and can also rely on the natural capital of "good-looking" to get a better life.

At school, teachers generally like to look good; When friends get together, everyone will choose to be with good-looking people; When attending a job interview; Good-looking people are also more likely to have a good impression and even overestimate their abilities; Even when dating, if the other person's appearance is not his favorite type, he is not willing to sit for a long time.

We are all beginning to think that this is a society that looks at faces. We think that being good-looking can make more people like you. Good-looking people are smooth, and good-looking people are more beneficial than good-looking people.

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There is no denying that it is really a face-saving society now, and many people think that being good-looking can have a lot of things.

Compared with boys, girls are more affected in this respect, and many girls will choose to use beauty to determine their height in their lives. Those girls whose congenital conditions are not good enough will also improve their appearance and image through the day after tomorrow. Every girl is trying to be beautiful, and everyone's ultimate goal is just to make themselves better.

And those beautiful girls, whether in love or in the workplace, do get preferential treatment.

For example, if you are good-looking, more people may like you, others will be willing to give you more help at work, others will be willing to give you your seat on the bus, and those good-looking girls around you will really be chased by many boys.

Even a friend told me that the security guard downstairs would take the initiative to open the door for her every time she passed by, but her roommate forgot to bring her card but had to talk to the security guard for a while before she was willing to open the door for her.

Including now we often see all kinds of hot topics in Weibo, such as taking the most beautiful photo, the counterattack of ordinary women on the goddess and so on. Good-looking people will post their beautiful photos on PO, and everyone will praise them when they see them. Please contact us.

I remember seeing a private video taken on the street in Weibo. A Japanese program group asked a good-looking girl and an ugly girl to ask passers-by for money in the street. As a result, most people are willing to lend money to good-looking people, while ugly people are basically ignored by passers-by and don't even want to look at them.

This society gives us the feeling that good-looking girls do get more preferential treatment, and everyone will choose to be with good-looking people.

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But can a beautiful girl really have a more perfect life?

I have seen ordinary but handsome husbands and happy families, but I have also seen some girls who are beautiful enough to eat by their faces reduced to an unbearable situation.

Elizabeth said, "I have loved seven men and been married eight times in my life. God gave me beauty, fame, success and wealth, but I was not happy. "

Although the beautiful Elizabeth won many BAFTA awards, she was not happy in her marriage.

Although the heroine Luo Zijun is very beautiful in the TV series My First Half Life, Chen finally dislikes her and can't divorce her. Although Luo Zijun entered a big company under the recommendation of the congratulatory letter, because Luo Zijun was good-looking, the boss of the company thought that Luo Zijun was the little lover of a director of the congratulatory letter company several times, but the hard-working Luo Zijun was finally recognized by the boss through his own efforts.

Good looks, even if they get free resources and help from noble people, but to maximize the advantages of these resources, they still need to rely on their own ability to solve problems. A woman's greatest sense of security is to believe in her own ability.

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Of course, no woman doesn't want to be a beauty. There is nothing wrong with cosmetic surgery, but it is really too much to change her life by becoming beautiful. Good looks can only play a supporting role, and beautiful young girls can grow up like leeks.

You think the world can live by your face, but people who are more beautiful than you work harder than you. You should have a brain as well as a face. If you only have beautiful skin and eyebrows, without the support of wisdom and ability, your skin will easily collapse over time.

Because beauty is always just a stepping stone.

Chen Kun said, "Shortly after I became famous, I once attended an international film festival and met a very important actress backstage. I stepped forward and shook hands politely and said, "Hello, I'm Chen Kun. Nice to meet you. " The actress turned around slowly, gave me a faint look and snorted coldly. I smiled and said nothing, and walked forward without changing color. In fact, I have turned it over several times in my heart. It made me hold a grudge for years. That kind of unforgettable hatred and anger has been suppressed in my heart and turned into a driving force, urging me to continue to be strong.

A few years later, I suddenly found that I understood the actress. Maybe in her heart, I am just an empty shelf famous for my face. To this day, if a star who has no strength but is very popular shows off in an ostentatious manner in front of me, I still have no face. "

Chen Kun used 10 years to "reconcile" with his acting skills, and now his career is booming, not only because of his beautiful face, but also because of his ability.

Including Hugh, he did not try his best to make movies to increase his popularity during his popularity, but went to the United States for further study, and Zhang Yin recently went to Paris to study oil painting. Everything they do is to improve their abilities and make themselves stronger.

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We can improve our appearance, but what is more important than beauty is our ability, because only when our ability improves our economy will we improve ourselves more and more strongly.

So I never envy others for being beautiful, nor do I envy others for being more capable than me. I envy others for being beautiful and capable.

The beautiful girls I met were definitely not just beautiful. Beauty is as light as a piece of paper to them, and they also know that it takes more efforts to stand firm.

Beauty is immeasurable, and it cannot exist beyond the shackles of age.

Women should pay attention to themselves, not just empty shells.