In fact, I think psychological cues are very important, such as your nose, which is similar to others. Today, when I looked in the mirror, I suddenly felt that it didn't look good, and it was a little unpleasant. If you don't pay attention to it, you will soon forget it. When you were not distracted, you chose to look in the mirror, and then you carefully measured your nose, and then you will find more unpleasant factors. Then the more you look at it, the less pleasing to the eye. Finally, to the extreme, you have to look at your nose dozens of times a day in the mirror. You have to focus all your attention on your nose and even decide to have a nose plastic surgery ... As a result, in the eyes of others, you don't think there is anything wrong with your nose at all, and there may even be many people around you who think your nose is beautiful.

As for stuttering, I think you think too much and lack self-confidence. Just talk about eloquence itself. This does not mean that anyone is born a genius at speaking. The key is to have enough knowledge as the basis. Why do professionals always talk about their professional problems? It is precisely because they have strong professional knowledge that if you are familiar with any line of work, you can have a relaxed conversation with anyone.

Finally, when it comes to talking about girlfriends, you'd better not think about who you want to talk about girlfriends with, but try to communicate with any friend of the opposite sex in the first step. Because you don't have that purpose, you will naturally be much more relaxed and relaxed. When you talk to them like people you know well, you are more than half successful. Then you can find the girl you like, and then you may get along with her with a normal heart.