The Bible says that man is one, that is, _ _ is a piece of meat. After that, this piece of meat disintegrated into a woman and a man, and _ _' s ribs made Eve. Aware of the loneliness, pain and insecurity brought about by disintegration, outstanding talents look forward to reuniting.
So "boys are half women and women are half men". Love has become the most important way of reunion. To put it bluntly, "integration" means that men and women become a piece of meat again in their psychological state. What does this mean? It means that every man comes into this world, there will always be a woman born for him, and so will women.
Women and men have been looking for each other since they entered this world. But they only have a vague or visual impression of each other, and they don't know who they are. In addition, due to the similarity between people in appearance and gas field, people divide this similar abstract concept into many types, ignoring that everyone is different, and one person and another person are not the same thing at all. In that case, boys or girls will probably feel that they have found their other half. However, they don't understand that it is very likely that they will only find that kind, not their real kind. Just like inviting someone on the street, you may find the wrong person. There are several results. What if the emotional line is disconnected?
The first thing is to realize that you have found the wrong person, and then look for it. Maybe you can find the real place, or you may never find it. Some people finally give up and find one at will, but some people are on the road all their lives; The second is that he (she) feels that he (she) has found the wrong person, but he (she) finally finds that what he (she) is looking for may only be one of his favorite types, and this person doesn't really belong to him. His (her) frustration after that and the resistance of the other party will naturally tell him (her) these information contents; The third is to find that you can't find the right person, but you give up when you are entangled, and you will be numb all your life; The fourth is that two people who are looking for each other finally meet by chance. As a couple, the happiness of their lives can't be described in words.
Among the above four categories, the fourth category accounts for a very small proportion. It can be said that most people never know what love is. But his (her) feeling is the feeling of psychological state under the comprehensive effect of the ultimate energy of seeking unity in sexual desire.
How do you know if you meet true love? Relatively simple, when both sides have a feeling that "he (she) is the person I am looking for in my life" and it is not easy to disappear in a short time, most of them are. If only one person has it, it can be judged that in terms of feelings, the other person is just a passer-by in his own life. Even marriage is not integration, but a thorough "daily task of life path"!
What are the emotional problems? Because perfect love depends on fortune, it is extremely scarce. When distinguishing whether the other person belongs, we can lower the standard of inner experience and then fill it with true feelings.