Sweets was brought by her mother when she was a child. When I was 7 months old, my mother took Tiantian to the community to bask in the sun. Several old people sat in the chair next to her. Everyone had a good chat. When they saw sweets in the stroller, they looked at her happily and said she was so cute. Sweet is also giggled by the old people.
When Chen Lai looked after the baby, her sweet face suddenly changed and she cried badly. When the mother saw that the child was frightened, she quickly left with the child. Chen Ye turned away in anger. The rest of the old people are whispering to each other. At home, under the comfort of his mother, Tian Tian smiled through tears again. At the thought of the child crying, the mother's eyes were frightened and her voice trembled, as if she were frightened by something.
When sweet dad came back, his mother said so. Dad thought of rumors in his hometown. If a child sees an old man crying, the old man may die soon. Sweet mom felt incredible when she heard this statement. What's the mystery in this? However, about two months later, they heard that Mrs. Chen had passed away. Sweet mothers are even more incredible. She began to inquire about this information and gradually got to know it.
Children are gradually developing cognition.
The baby began to have cognition from 6 months, and his vision gradually developed. At this time, they are dependent on their families, have knowledge of familiar people, grow up in familiar environments, and are almost unacceptable to unfamiliar environments. In a strange environment, the baby will be nervous, cry in fear, and the child will feel insecure. So some children cry when they see strange old people. This is a sign of insecurity.
The old man has a face that has been through many vicissitudes.
Children are usually with their parents. Before they were born to 1 year-old, their parents, grandparents or grandparents had the most contact. At this time, their grandparents were not too old, but middle-aged, usually in their fifties or sixties. Therefore, there are few opportunities for babies to meet the elderly. In the initial cognition, there is no sense of cognition and security for the elderly.
Very old people often have a kind of vicissitudes, because they have experienced a long time. If the old man appears in front of the baby at this time, the child will feel scared, panicked and nervous. This is the main reason why many babies cry when they see strange old people. In life, we have seen countless examples. The children cried, but the old man was still healthy. It has nothing to do with the superstitious rumors mentioned above.
Some old people are old and sick, and they look strange.
Some very old people are ill, so they look haggard, depressed and strange. Not to mention babies, some adults will be nervous when they see such an old man. The mother-in-law Chen in the article is old, in poor health, sick all the year round and gaunt. Therefore, it is natural to see Chen crying. Chen's death is also a natural thing in his later years.
So, don't be superstitious about rumors. After understanding these reasons, the sweet mother in this article put down her guard and eliminated her nervous mood. There is no mystery, and when you encounter unexplained phenomena, you should find and understand the reasons with a scientific attitude, and don't speculate and listen to superstitious rumors without authorization.
Take the children out for a walk.
After the baby is born, parents will keep it at home for a long time because it is too young. Children who are too young are prone to catch a cold and take out a lot of things. Some families are inconvenient upstairs and downstairs, so parents rarely take their children out. Then children can't adapt to strange environment and cry easily outside. At this time, as long as the weather is suitable, parents can occasionally take their children out for a walk after the full moon, so that children can get to know the outside environment and meet strangers, and children will gradually notice, not be nervous, and will not cry easily when they see strangers.
Family members give children a sense of security.
Children are afraid because they feel insecure. When they meet strangers, their parents should accompany them to protect them, so that they will not be overly nervous. In normal life, we should also give our children a full sense of security and be gentle and calm when crying. Usually communicate with children loudly and talk more. Even if the child can't understand and speak, the child can feel the love and concern of his parents. Let children grow up in a stable environment.
Pass the recognized natural period
Babies will begin to recognize strangers after 6 months, and by the age of 1, they will be particularly attached to their families and afraid to meet strangers. This is a normal phenomenon, parents don't have to worry. This situation will gradually disappear when the child naturally grows to 1 year. Of course, it's normal for some children to persist longer. Families with children are very familiar with this.
When the child cries, comfort him in time.
Many people say that it is normal for children to cry, but it is not. Normal children will be more stable and won't always cry. If you are crying, you are either hungry, unwell or frightened. Children will not cry for no reason. Then when the child cries, the parents will give comfort at the first time and find out the reason to solve it in time.
In this way, the child's tension will be alleviated, and the child will gradually know that he has dependence and a sense of security. This will also ensure that children feel safe.
Establish a stable family environment
Children spend most of their time at home, so there are requirements for the growth environment. If the home is full of smoke, family members are tense, and even quarrel and fight, children are absolutely insecure, which will have an extremely negative impact on children.
This requires us, as parents, to pay attention to our words and deeds and the influence on our children. We must establish a warm and harmonious family environment for our children, build a harmonious family relationship, and let them grow up in a peaceful and stable environment. In our daily life, we often see many children's withdrawn personalities and strange behaviors, which are caused by parents' discord, incomplete families and children's insecurity. A family with a good environment will give children a sense of security.
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